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Looking for like-minded friends in the kink community. More than friendship does not happen for me until I feel a truly established connection. I’m only a year into this journey but I’ve found out a lot about myself and the things I want/need. And it’s too much to be written here!

Wanting to find a fairly experienced sub that’s willing to try new things and is fairly open minded, or maybe a new sub that wants to learn things and is willing to experiment. I’m pretty dominant but I’m also fair new to the kink community. Last relationship I had was very vanilla and boring and I’ve recently discovered how much fun sex can really be. Looking to try new things and someone who’s willing to let me learn or willing to let me help them learn as well

Happy to own and embrace my fetish side that I have repressed and expressed covertly for 25 years keeping outside the BDSM community until now. Looking for fetish friends and playmates in Sussex. Im in a vanilla marriage that I don't wish to change so need friends and playmates that respect that and prepared to be discreet.
Submissive and yearn to be collared and owned on a discreet part-time basis by a domme who is interested in getting to know me, train me to her specifications and make general use of me.

im new to chatting had a married mistress and master who divorced and i was let go. been in bdsm 10 years, i am single once again looking to make new friends. i dont need a relationship just trying to mingle again in the BDSM community. As things ended badly im not really good at conversation with others as my contact with society was limited. please message me if you want to know more. thank you.

I'd like to meet an open minded young sub to finally get into the community with.

Hello! I am new to the scene, so I don't know much outside of the fact that I enjoy moderate spankings, oral, and light choking. I am currently looking for a Dom(me) or Dom(me)s who would be willing to teach me about the community and assist me in exploring new kinks and/or fetishes. I tend to be a bit skittish in new/unfamiliar situations, so please be patient with me. If you are into DDLG/MDLG, please do not interact; I apologize profusely, as I don't want to offend anyone, it's just that it makes me quite uncomfortable. Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I hope to chat soon!

Hello. My name is John. I'm 24 years old and new to BDMS theme. I am busy, hard working young male. In general I'm confident, good looking, intelligent person with many interests. I will keep my description short. I am into relationship with girl, loving relationship and great sex life. But I am seeking out to this community to explore my desires. I am looking for online partner in crime for secret online relationship. I prefer to use Wickr Me app.

Hello naughty people! I'm looking to make new friends in the world of BDSM for just the social side, so if anyone in the S Yorkshire area fancies it, hit me up 😊
Doms, subs and any freaks welcome! Let's creat our own little community

As the title says I’m new to this community. I have had fantasies for a long time however and I think I’m ready to try to start exploring them. A big fantasy is getting pegged as a sub. I know there has to be mutual respect and understanding with all involved parties, and I’m not even sure how to start talking to people who share the fetishes I have. How do I find people to talk to?

New here but not new to the community. I'm not looking for a 24/7 anything at this point. Yes, I'm open to a relationship but I want to date and have fun until WE decide to enter into one. BDSM is creative FOREPLAY in my book and not the "end all/be all" many believe it to be. I'm looking for 1 woman who enjoys kinking things up a notch or 2, or 10, or 50 but before the night, day or session is over...... We both want out happy ending. lol

Looking for a compatible sadistic Daddy Dom for ltr that is local to me. Not interested in hook ups or NSA. Flogging is a must. No watersports or ***. I am active in the local community so you need to be okay with that.

32m & 21f looking for fun partner or couple to have fun nights with.
New to community, just wanting to get out and meet new people and enjoy each others company on occasion. Love to party and play! Get ahold of us

I’m a 19 year old guy from stafford, looking for a mature woman to teach me the ways of the bdsm community. I’m open to anything and everything as any role, would just like to get involved and learn.
So any woman who would like a fit younger lad to play with give me a shout 🥰😘

I’m new to the bdsm scene and I’m looking for a mistress to help me explore my submissive side , my kinks are being tied up ***d hardddd smothered with ass and licked all over , looking for a girl in LOS ANGELES

We're new to the Reno area and need a guide to show us the ins and outs of the bdsm community around here. Were interested in learning where the toy shops, dungeons, munches and adult theaters are located. Any help would be greatly appreciated

Transexual, genderqueer slave with seeking D/s connections. People who aren't cis-males preferred, but I am happy to explore a relationship with a cis-male that has a demonstratable involvement in the local community (as in more than just shows up to parties).

I am service-oriented, high-procotol, and control sensitive. I enjoy feeling kept, owned, and ultimately useful. I am happiest with people who express their dominant affections through physical touch and with people naturally inclined towards touching me as they please. I enjoy feeling worshipful of others' bodies, I have a very deep joy of being in bondage,

I'm open to casual play and short-term explorations together with someone, and I'm ultimately looking for a LTR leaning towards M/s, but I don't really like to set expectations for it.

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Hello there. I’m new to the kink community and looking to explore myself. So far I have discovered that I prefer to be a sub. I also have a foot fetish and enjoy body worship. I have never tried cbt but I might try it with the right person

I am a professional, educated and artistic geek that has opinions and intense passions. I am a southern girl at heart and have a great passion for manners. I am also deeply attached to poetry as an expression of my experience.

I am married to a wonderful man. After 20+ years of polyamory, I explore kink and power exchange with my other partner,. Both of my partners are attracted to strong, independent women and I can negotiate, set play dates, and make friends independently.

Kinky all my life, I dove into that community actively the last few years. I am an educator, support group facilitator, venue owner, and community volunteer. I'm also a research nerd who collects books and creates annotated bibliographies and networking lists.

On dates, I like to be treated with class and care. It's my Southern heritage I suppose. Crass people can go elsewhere. I like someone who focuses on me because so much of the rest of the time, I'm focused on other people. I like to be treated to new experiences and sensations. I also like tall guys with muscles.

With someone who knows the right combination of sensation, sensuality, and control, I am a fun date to experiment with.

In Seattle and looking to meet a man or couple of my dreams for a kind of relationship if we hit it off. I’m a bit shy though I’ve experimented with kink for years I’m new to a community. I’m submissive but curious about switching occasionally. I am looking for someone comfortable with experimenting with messy sex. I’m a pretty25year old normal enough girl but wanting to taste my ass and explore a submissive dominant relationship.

I'm kinda new to the kinky community but I am a quick learner and it's always good to make new kinky friends. I'm looking for a sub who can help show me the ropes (haha bdsm joke) of being a dom or a sub that wants to learn together.

I'm fairly new to the fetish community but by no means inexperienced. I'm here to learn more about myself and what I like and there's just no better way to learn then to just get down and dirty and try it.

Hello
my name is katie and i am 20 years old.
i am fairly new to the community and i am trying to find a dominant partner female or male
i am also open to polyamory.
i am looking for something long term and that could be a 24/7 d/s relationship.
i currently train in aerial acrobatics and yoga.

Oklahoma Dom but respectful in a committed monogamous non Fet-life relationship for over 4 years have been a member of this community for a while longer. I like role play and I'm very dominant in every aspect of my life. Will gladly talk and help with dating or advice. I'm a very laid back friendly person.