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I am just looking around at the moment. Returning to the community after a decade away.
I am gonna admit being brand new to a community as such I have had experiences in every area but my drive is fueled by that flame of passion literally. To each they're own maybe someone gets to enjoy a bundle in one
I am a 35 yr old BBW looking to explore with an experienced Dom. I'm new to this community and want to try new things. Looking for someone patient but willing to push me. Please be single because I will have to come to you. Message me for Whatsapp info.
What about me? I'm a very Eclettic person: I'm a Yoga Teacher, ***ter, journalist, makeup artist and hairstylist, loving science and art at the same time. In the BDSM community from 20 years ago. I'm a transgender man Dominant and Sadist, and I'm not interested in a session or superficial relationship, I'm looking for a stable D/s relationship. I live with my best friend (cis pansexual man) and sometimes we play together: he's my "student", I'm his Mentor. I'm not interested in ASAB or gender identity, I'm Pansexual even if I prefer man. Above all I prefer FtM person, but I'm attracted to the person's brain also. I'm gray-a. I ever respect limits of my future sub/masochist. SSC come first, than we can talk about CNC or RACK. My limits? Scat. I just want a person submissive and masochist with starting to make a journey. Sirius
Hello there! I’m a new sub I guess you can say. I have always been a sub but never really had the partner to explore my kinks. My last relationship ended a few months ago and now I’m ready to try a true sub/Dom experience. I’m looking for either a NSA Dom, or a short or long term Dom partner. Not really looking for a relationship, but I can’t deny love when it strikes either. I’m an over caring, hopeless romantic at heart, who values communication, honesty, discretion, and safety. My current kinks are: chastity, pegging, occasionally cross dressing/d feminization, moderate bdsm, mild spanking/whipping, orgasm control/denial, giving oral, giving you orgasms/pleasure, (in private), sph, and more. If there is something you want to try or do that isn’t listed above, just ask me if I’m okay with it. Most of the time I’ll say yes, but I have a few that I won’t do under any circumstance. I’m not into Findom or scat play so don’t ask. I look forward to meeting people in the community, I’m new so please excuse my innocence and my lack of experience/knowledge about the community.
Hi, i’m new to the BDSM community and would like to try peg xoxo
Hi, I’m Mirabelle and I’m pretty new to this app and community. However, I’m looking to connect with exeriemced subs to just learn more about the lifestyle and what it involves. I’m also interested in prospective doms who are interested in training me as a sub. Like I said I’m new to all this but I have a pretty good idea about what I like, so this is just me trying to be as resourceful as possible on here.
I’m new to the kink community and I’m looking for a woman to show me the ropes. I’m particularly interested in ass worship. I’m a switch and wouldn’t mind taking on a dominant role as well. Please contact me if you’re interested
I am an experienced D/s master looking for a submissive partner. I have several years experience in the SF/South Bay community. I am polyamorous and presently possess one “subservant” (we dislike the term “slave”, though in the context of this community the terms are synonymous).
Hi, I have enjoyed the Alt scene for many years and have explored and tried lots of things. I have met Pro-dommes, kinksters in the community and had one to one relationships with dominant ladies. I enjoy so many aspects of the scene. I found I had a fetish when I was an adolescent and I was also always attracted to more assertive and confident girls. My fetish led me to my first Fedom experience when I was in 21 and visiting London. I responded to an ad in a phone booth and the result was an hour spent with a pro-Domme in London. I was very nervous but it was an amazing experience for me - I was hooked. Back then the Alt scene was very much underground and perhaps subversive. The internet changed all that of course and now everyone knows about it ! I spread my wings a lot and explored. I have gone to munches, met people in BDSM clubs and parties. Tried out things - some good - some not so good ! I pretty much know where I am at now, but I still enjoy experimenting.... I have just moved after having spent 35 years in Coventy I am now living in Gloucester. I would like to meet someone (female) who is dominant and also enjoys the BDSM scene in all its colours. Being single now I would love to meet someone reasonably local to connect with and maybe have some fun and play with. I'm an easy going chap and affable. Normal on the ouside but very kinky inside !
New and inexperienced in the kink community looking for friends to find my kinks with
Someone willing to experiment, and learn new things in the community. I’ve been trying to get into bdsm more, though Alaska’s community is fairly small. If anyone in Alaska, preferably Fairbanks wants to look more into this lifestyle hit me up.
Looking fir a Mommy in the MDLG community!
Does it exist? If it does, who... where... what... how many? I want to dress in tail and ears amongst other like-minds I'm... New(ish) to the South West New(ish) to BDSM New(ish) to expressing my Primal
I’m just entering this world and beginning to understand myself more! I would like to make connections with like minded people so that I can learn more and get better at play. Currently in a poly relationship. Looking forward to meeting new people ☺️ Munch dates welcome too
My fantasy is a relationship with a dominant woman who finds sexual fulfillment with cross-dressing, teasing, bondage, chastity, pegging, and *** of me. Not to say that in the right relationship I wouldn't mind switching it up now and then if the other person wanted. The point of a good relationship is the give and take that satisfies everyone involved. I have been single and soloing it for a long time because I'm not into B.S. drama and I'm disease free and looking to stay that way. Just taking a shot at this to see what the community is like. Sorry, can't put out a picture due to my role in the community.
I'm looking for a friend or log term partner that can help show the ropes to this community. Show me more about the BDSM world, and how to be not only safe but to have some fun. Maybe make a friend or two along the way.
Very curious about all kinds of fetishes, so I have come here to see if I can find my true kinks. Not entirely sure what I'm looking for as yet so hopefully this site and community can help me experiment and find my true kinky self? But I’m very keen on exploring mutual masturbation and CFNM… Preference is for w/e older men, around 60 for fun.
I’m looking for an experienced Dom to explore my kinky side with further. I must stress I am looking for a full one on one dynamic and have no desire to share, be that with other people in the community or a vanilla wife/girlfriend at home.
I get off on beautiful insults. Intelligence turns me on more than a penis. I want to be genuinely adored. Kissing is underrated. I'm a bit of a music snob. I love beards. *** romance is dead and not a part of the fetish community.
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