Desi on Fetish.com

Looking for a hot kinky female that wants to break up the boredom and fulfill both of our desires

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I'm older but new to this lifestyle, and I'm looking for a great friend with benefits who has a submissive mindset. I want to build a real, lasting friendship with someone I can text, engage in sexting, exchange pictures, and be creative with. I'm looking for inspiration for my writing and desire a strong connection that goes beyond just sex.

Lets meet tonight to share a drink or a bite and talk about our deepest darkest desires!

Anyone here to potentially relieve their desires let me know I’m here for you

I know that it’s quite the long shot, but hey, you miss 100% of the shots you never take.

I’m looking for my kinky soulmate. The woman who is my exact kink counterpart; I truly believe that she is out there. I want to find that woman who has me checking my phone every hour with excitement and anticipation to read her reply. The woman who can’t keep her hands off of me or mine off her. Ive been searching for her for years now and I know she’s there. I would prefer that she’s close to my location for convenience sake but am open to online to start!

A little bit about me and my kinky self:
I discovered my first kink when I was a 13 year old boy and saw my first bondage porno. It had aroused me in such powerful ways that I didn’t even understand. From then on I spent my age years researching the lifestyle and community, developing new and different kinks the more knowledgeable I became about the lifestyle and community and all the different assortment of kinks and methods of self sexual exploration.
I’ve been in the community since I was in my first ever BDSM relationship at 19 years old. I had confessed my desires to my girlfriend at the time. At first she was skeptical but after having read the story I wrote about one of my fantasies, her pussy was soaked and she quickly found out that she was born to be a submissive little cumslut who loved following my every demand or instruction to a tee; because she knew what came with that. We spent 4 years together and over the course of that time we experimented with many different D/S role dynamics. We found our two favorite dynamics were DDLG and Master/slave. Unfortunately, we broke up after 4 years together.
We have been broken up for 7 years now and I have been in 3 different BDSM relationships since then. None of them lasted much longer than a year but during the time I spent with them, they went from completely unaware and unknowledgeable of kink & BDSM to fully trained submissives who almost become a different person when they become aroused.

My list of kinks is far too long to list every single one of them but I’ll list some of my main ones.
-Bondage -praise- /degredation-cock worship(obviously receiving)- deepthroating (again-obviously receiving)- orgasm play(control, denial, edging, ***d orgasm/pleasure overload etc.)- rituals(what type varies by submissive archetype) -anal play (both giving and receiving)-training- exhibitionism- squirting-
There are plenty more that I’m sure I’m forgetting, but you kind of get the point.
If we are in a romantic relationship outside of our BDSM relationship then please understand that I will love you and treat you like you are the center of my world, and our BDSM/kink lifestyle can most definitely be separated from our “normal”/conventional romantic relationship if that’s what you would want. I am monogamous, and do not wish to seek out other partners when I am in a committed or romantic relationship. Once exclusivity is declared between us, it will remain that way until we break up and part ways.
I also would like to put out that there that while I heavily lean towards Dom, I do identify as somewhat of a switch as well(in case you are one to occasionally crave the urge to grab me by the groin and tell me what’s going to happen next.)
I love love love writing you dirty stories about the fantasies in my head, and I promise you’ll love reading them. Once you read one, even if it’s just a long, dirty message; you’ll be able to see it so vividly in your head that you’ll actually feel like you’re there; it’ll make you tingle all over and unable to stop thinking about it until you get to experience it for real. I would share a short snippet from one of my many stories in the ad but it’s already super long to begin with so if you want a lick of that dirty smut/erotica material; just send me a message and I’ll send it over to ya😏😘

As far as my non kink parts I am 29 years old, 6 feet tall and 190 lbs. I’m no runway model but I’m decently handsome lol and have a fit, muscular build. I’m not shredded and all veiny or anything but I’m definitely built as I used to be a college athlete and still actively work out and lift weights.
I absolutely love fishing and being outdoors with my two dogs, watching Sunday football while playing football. I coach kids in the sport I played growing up and playing in college- bonus points to anyone who can guess what sport that is- and no, it’s not football.
I game occasionally (ps5) and sometimes go through spurts where I game quite frequently. I love spending time with the ones I love-especially my girlfriend when I have one.
While I am looking for something real and long term that eventually turns to a real life, in person relationship; I am okay with other arrangements such as an online situation, or strictly NSA situations where outside of kink/bdsm, we have no ties or obligation to one another. If I’m missing a situation that you would be interested in pursuing don’t hesitate to message me if you like what you’ve read so far and think we might click; I’m open to consider ALMOST any sort of situation or arrangement.
I am strictly heterosexual, so if you and your hubby want to play, just know I will not have any sort of physical interaction with him(I’d like to avoid couples for the most part pretty much but willing to consider certain arrangements regarding that). ABSOLUTELY NO MEN, nothing against gay people, just not my thing; so don’t ask!
The most recent results from bdsmtest.com is:
== Results from bdsmtest.==
100% Master/Mistress
100% Rigger
100% Degrader
96% Dominant
96% Voyeur
84% Switch
77% Experimentalist
75% Brat tamer
75% Owner
73% Primal (Hunter)
63% Non-monogamist
58% Exhibitionist
43% Sadist
30% Daddy/Mommy
17% Vanilla
6% Ageplayer

I can’t wait to hear from you!

That mutually obssesive love. That need to please through pleasure and ***. That desire to see you and only you. To understand you intimately not just physically but emotionally and mentally. To make you my obsession and me, yours. Kiss me, bite me, love me, I need this. Not just as a fling, no, for the long haul.

Straight up a giver. Also dominant. Empath, years of experience available to tap, if you get into my head. That's the question, can you open your mind?

Looking to meet to see if any sparks happen. Never know

Looking for a mistress to help me fulfill my desire

Seeking a submissive to play with and explore new pleasures. I’ll take the lead, you bring the curiosity — let’s see where our desires take us.

I am looking for a good sub female that has the desire a Master with lots of experience in the lifestyle stevemiller04@*** I want to hear from you tell me your limits

Soft Dom looking for that special little lady with which to spend some of my precious time. I would savor the company of an alpha Sub, but brats and the inexperienced are encouraged to step forward. Shoot your shot.

I am seeking an IRL connection that embraces kink and power exchange, both in the bedroom and beyond. What I crave is a woman to shape into a work of art to match my taste and desires. Grace and elegance, line and curve. Passionate, but devoted to one another. Leadership meets obedience. Lust meets lust.

Kink is built on deep trust, vulnerability, and mutual respect. Yes, there will be all the fun things, spanking, kneeling, cockwarming, etc, but at its core, D/s is psychological, spiritual, mystical. the very heart of deepest intimacy. oh, and just a reminder, Dominance is leadership, not loudness.

Hey! My girlfriend and I are really needing another open minded woman to join us. My gf Shyann has a burning desire to please and be pleased by a woman. I will also be involved, if you have any questions or are interested please reach out!

I’m a mom of 4 (so yeah it can make planning outings and dates difficult lol) and I keep seeing younger fellas online gush over MILFs/Cougars when it comes to their media produced stimulation but what about if approached by one in person?

Seeking younger guy to first meet and chill with then If we click some NSA fun. DRAMA FREE. I don’t want to get surprised on one of my medias by a scorned GF or something. For me this is to settle my curiosity on the matter. Again this is NSA (FWB at best) as while playing with younger dudes could be fun I don’t desire a serious relationship of any sort.

Prefer Submissive types when it comes to those younger than myself but if you can prove yourself a real genuine Dom I’ll take you up on it (I’m a Switch)!

So if any of this applies to you and you’re interested don’t hesitate to reach out ! 🙏

Experienced Dom with the pleasure of owning a weekend home in Georgia which I frequent often. I need an obedient little Sub to come to me when here and release herself to me to train, tease and enjoy. Let me be very clear I don’t rush so she must be able to play for hours and hours on end. I never rush. I don’t require experience but I do require you have the need and desire to submit and learn in a safe environment. This could be a situation where we meet and enjoy our time together or you come and stay all weekend as my Sub and play toy.

Hi fellow kinksters, I am a well educated and grounded person who is looking to find the person for him. A person I can return to every single day.

I am a pleasure dom, so I can be soft and firm, depending upon your kinks and desires. ***d orgasms and overstimulation while bonded, are my top kinks. Apart from rough sex, lite impact, roleplay scenes, I have been through threesomes, foursomes, couple swaps, and group plays. So, if you have a kink similar to these, don’t hesitate I am pretty open minded and is just a message away.

I want to meet dominate muscular guy it does not need to be all muscle can be chubby as well as long as you are bigger stronger powerful i want u to make me submit to your sexal desires want to worship your muscles and big cock

Searching for someone confident who loves exploring desires behind closed doors. Let’s enjoy the thrill without expectations.

I’m looking to being used for your personal pleasure. However you want me to satisfy your desires!

I will come when called for your deepest desires