Ex on Fetish.com

I’ve been scouring this site to see people’s views and perceptions of punishments and rewards. And of course, it’s a very subjective matter as there’s limits, preferences, and people’s opinions as well.
So let’s talk about what I consider punishments to be first:
Since I tend to like more extreme things, and have a higher tolerance, I’m going to need something that is more severe- especially since I have bratty tendencies, I’m looking to be corrected. And a punishment can be a NUMBER of things. Ex: infliction, control/restriction of outter communication (eg. family, friends); deprivation, being tied up in a stress position (minutes, hours, days), , water boarding. Quite frankly I could go on. I want that psyche involvement. Make me so scared of you that I don’t want to act out because I know the punishment will be severe. I feel like with a M/s dynamic or most BDSM dynamics, the person who is not in a position of power should feel a sense of *** toward to person in power as a result of respect being integrated into the person who is not in power within the dynamic.

Now for rewards! Yay!:
Rewards are generally subjective to the sub/slave/pet/etc. personally, I love being rewarded with praise, cuddles and direct attention, taking care of any bruises or cuts you inflicted on me, princess treatment, less time in a stress position, allowing me to see my friends or go do something special, etc.
rewards shouldn’t be over given - as this sets the scene for greed and a sense of being spoiled, then the brattiness will never be corrected. But rewards are necessary because I need to know when I’m doing good, and you approve of those certain actions or you’re pleased with how I am.

But i definitely want to hear other peoples opinions, and what type of rewards/punishments you give or receive.

There’s not a single pleasure dom that can handle how needy I am. I need attention all the time. I’m too moody, too needy, too dramatic.

Love,

Your future ex-princess 😍

I love eager men who are ready to serve me as their Mistress, especially little white subs. You guys tend to serve me the best! Also, I’d prefer subs who are interested in creating genuine relationships with me and not guys who are seeking quick meaningless content from me. I need you ready and eager to fully submit and obey. & If you’re a good boy, I’d love to reward you as you deserve (so let me know your kinks as you approach me) also ALSO, I’m really into TPE. Ive done it once with an ex and found we both greatly enjoyed it when we took it slow and were transparent with each other. If you’re curious about it, I’d love to embark on that journey with you.

Looking to explore the more pervy things in life. Recently divorced, my ex was very vanilla and had 0 kinks. I am very open minded and looking to connect with like minded.

A woman who is submissive, bratty, masochistic, wanting to be onwed

I am in need of a BBC. I've been seeing my ex-husband. I want to get some BBC and get creampied right before I go to see him. Then Ill let my ex eat me out, and not tell him anything.It gets me so hot to know he has no clue. If you are interested, send me a picture of you!

Ex s, Model, Actor a Proud Confident Successful Masculine Ladies Man has ambitions to transgress through atonement, drug & hormone assisted Sissy Training , d Femonization Cuckolding. ***, Breast Implementation with surgery , character/mood changing persusion techniques including hypnotism, therapy etc by experienced Dominant Controlling Stict Effective, Master, Goddess, Mistress Femdom or Group into Fresh Vanilla Shy Embarassed ultra feminine and sexy sissy maid slave to enter Domestic Service.
Serious request. Can travel.. Single. 0 attachments
With clean driving licence and speak 5 languages.

Hey I'm Nadir I'm a first year uni student so I'm not looking for anything serious probably more casual than anything but who knows maybe with time we can grow into something more😩😩,
As for who I want to meet on this site it would be submissive women as I love to dominate in the bedroom
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I can play the drums🥁,
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Ex swinger lifestyle,

It’s my birthday who trying to help me out with some sweet birthday .ex

I discovered my kinky side with my ex-girlfriend and since then I have been looking for a dedicated community

Google brought me to this place

Hope to find some intense kinky dates and start my kink journey

Be understanding that I want to be used and taught what you like so we can satisfy each other. I only have experience in this realm from a toxic ex lol

My ex still lives with me and wants to grind my bones until she leaves. I want to break away from being addicted to how wet she gets and how she touches all over my body. She’s open for me to do whatever, and she’s willing to let a girl go down on her. If you click on me, would you prefer me by myself or something with both of us?

Y'all, my ex cheated on me so I got some videos of her so if y'all want them just message me

I'm obsessed with my ex! We have been broken up for 6 years. Mixed Girls are my kryptonite

She was everything I asked for...she fulfilled every fantasy I ever had. I love feet and a lil cbt...I gave her all the weapons to destroy me...I loved when she brought me to my knees with a quick nut-tap...she would grab them and crush me in her grip, not allowing me to fall or embrace her but just stand there as she berated me. I remember her emotionally stomping on my nuts, then forcing me to prematurely ejaculate between her feet...at that point I was completely at her mercy...she had me by the balls, emotionally, physically, financially, and spiritually...

An ex rugby playing, amateur dramatist, artistic, gentleman in his 50's, firm but considerate & caring, is looking to find ladies of any age groups who enjoy experiencing *** pleasure. Get in touch to talk about this with me.

My <soon to be ex> husband drained the account and left. Leaving me hopeless. 🥹 i am so *** right now.

I recently got dumped by whom I thought was the love of my life...for a dude ahe hasnt met online. Crushed but i need revitalized. Need a passionate female who wants her body and feet worshipped woild be perfect. Since my ex was not into it and i havent explored my foot fetish.

This could be the start of an exciting Adventure that we both can enjoy you only live once let's make the most

Have explored a lot with an ex, and developed a lot of interests. But never got around to throwing myself in!

I would love to go to a much, or a club, and generally find some like minded people. I have recently moved up this way.

I’m a 40 year old male with a Dad bod. My ex convinced me to try pegging in the past and I quite enjoyed it. I’m hoping to find someone who’s willing to peg me. I’m fun open minded and adventurous and willing to do nearly anything to please my partner. Pegging isn’t my only interest so if you’re not into that but want to explore some other fun kinks definitely would be open to that as well.

Hope to hear from you soon

Hello, I don’t really know where to start this. I feel really desperate right now. I had a dumb about a year ago and I cut him off because I thought he was toxic and I thought I was in love with somebody who loved me back and I’ve been trying so hard to find him, but I can’t find him anywhere. All of his numbers are deactivated. All of his social media is deactivated, I don’t know what to do and I miss him so much. I just wanted him to text me and I wanna find him. Can’t help sob while write this. I miss him so much I just want him back 

Ex Military honest switch tattooed, seeking playpartner . I am to please and then more