I am a CIS man looking for a CIS woman that would be interested in a dinner date that may lead to more:

I am not looking for something "tonight", this would be a planned outing in the near future.

We would start the evening with a public meet up, this could be dinner at a restaurant, coffee at a cafe, or something similar. Where we could get to know each other and discuss desires and limits.

If everything goes well and you choose to join me at a hotel for the rest of the evening. We could rent a movie and continue a more private discussion of kink. Verbal (possibly written) consent would be required before any play would begin.

I typically enjoy giving pleasure more than being the receiver. I enjoy giving massages (standard or tantric): shoulders, back, and feet are where I am most capable. I have large firm hands that like to explore and tease. I am dominant but am more than willing to listen to input and/or follow commands if you are able to depict your preferences/needs. If you choose to leave me in control, I promise not to disappoint.

Most, if not all, things kink about me can be found on my profile. Any/all questions and concerns are welcome, my DM's are open.

Requirements:
(I will reciprocate all)
-At least 2 non filtered photos before meeting (Face/full body preferred, nothing explicit just nobody enjoys being catfished)
-A recent STD test with negative results
-Your own form of transportation (In the event you choose to leave at any point)
-A list of allergies (if applicable)
-An open mind

Additional notes:
-Penetrative intercourse is not a requirement, but would be preferable. (I will supply my own preferred latex condoms)
-If you have your own toys/tools that you would like to bring, that is more than welcome.(As long as they are clean/sanitary)
-I have a small collection of brand new toys/tools that I will bring that you could choose to keep if we utilize them. (or will be disposed of)
-I am by no means a professional, I will be very forward and honest with any discussed experiences.
-I hope not to upset or offend anyone, I am just trying to be clear with my intentions and expectations.
-If you've read this far you can pick the dessert after dinner!
-Whoever may read this, I hope you have a great day!

Kinky Date18 to 50 years ● 25km around USA Grand Rapids
Munch Buddy18 to 80 years ● 170km around USA Ocala

If Tom Allen and James Spader merged in Snorlax form ...
Gothic soul, emo heart, autist brain, perverse sensibilities.

Megustalations.

Head shaved, mind depraved, enamoured of theatre and song.
Rain on the roof and cuddles in quilts, these are a few of my favourite guilts. Along with vanlife, FetLife, and urbex. Oh my!

Catch-22 is my humour. I'm into surrealism in all things. Also very much enamoured of well choreographed routines and linguistical limberness.

I want a love that seeks my own, a soul that encompasses me, that feeds off of my attention and affection. Someone to dance with in the rain, in the woods, in supermarkets and silence.

Time spent hiking, (also scooting - I'm spending far too much with Voi), hunting for abandoned and spooky places is time well spent. Indoor hobbies include perfumery, cooking, watching horror / gore / exploitation films and miscellaneous musicals and designing clothes and contraptions for fun.

I'm looking for someone to make food shopping fun, stroke all the fluffs and floofs with, who'll send cute pictures to me, and that I can treat, tease and traumatise in all of the special ways we'll both love. The ideal is a romantic relationship built on fetishistic foundations. Especially through more subtly expressed intimacy, such as a hand slipping into mine, or a kiss gifted unexpectedly as I turn to see you.

Talk to me about philosophy, psychology, stories and how these intertwine, in myth, in religion, in sexual fantasy and relaxation.

Come be the focus of my loving attention and suffer the barbs of my endless puns. Charm me with your vivacity so I yearn to make you cry yourself to climax. Seduce me with your mind so I wish to pet, pretty, and punish you. Keep me with your innocence, no matter how I taint it.

Talk to me. Let me into your head. I'll make you better. I'll make you mine.

Details of kinks can be found from my profile, or more ideally, learned through conversation.

Kinky Date5km around UK Bicester

Here's the situation..

I've been a member for about two years. Yet, in the approximate past two months that I've been back here, I've only met one person that I've had any sort of substantial connection with.

I'm looking mainly for women and possibly couples who are Interested in experimenting in kink & fetish to get to know and hopefully start something monumentally orgasmic with.

I'm highly intelligent, good looking and in good shape for my age. My voice seems to make women squirt like a geyser. I'm quite active in my outreach to others on FET, and I'm very fetish forward.

I have an extremely filthy imagination, and I'm not afraid to use it.

For anyone who's interested.. I also am very into anal and have been told on numerous occasions that I'm quite good at it. I'm also very sensitive and responsive to feedback from my partner and try to make the experience as enjoyable as possible for her.

I feel like I've been approaching this the right way, and yet I have found it to be SO VERY DIFFICULT to connect with women here.

I admit, I'm somewhat older (56). Also, my current relationship situation is somewhat non-standard (see my profile intro). But this is FET. If this isn't a place for fostering non-standard connections, I don't know what is.

Considering that I would be happy to put wheels to the asphalt and drive quite a few miles to meet up with a decent person, this experience so far has been underwhelming to say the least.

If you'd like to connect to get to know one another, or if you simply have advice you'd like to share, please get in touch.

If anyone has any constructive thoughts, I'm more than ready to listen.

Hope to hear from you!

Kinky Date19 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Eastford