Ahoy!

I'm a 34-year-old male from Connecticut, looking for a switch female partner from New England or NY. My goal is to connect on an emotional and mature level, with shared interests in both kink and vanilla aspects of life. I want to find someone to share both the good times and the bad, growing stronger together.

What I'm Looking For:

  • Connection:

    Laughter, romance, love, and trust.

  • Priorities:

    While dating, I want to be your second priority. Your primary focus should be on yourself, your life, and your future, as mine is on me and mine. Happiness and security alone are crucial to finding them together.

  • Philosophy of Love:

    Love is an offering, not possession. It's about offering joy and easing suffering, requiring empathy and mutual sharing.

    Getting to Know Each Other:


    Once we've established trust and honesty through chatting, I'd love to meet in person, perhaps for a meal or a fun outing. Exploring new places, like a forest, would be a great way to bond.

    About Me:

  • Switch: I embrace both Dominant and Submissive roles, trusting that our compatibility will lead to a satisfying experience.
    My honest disclosure is meant to build acceptance of my nature.
  • Communication: A relationship should be a two-way street. Both partners need to be willing to compromise and fulfill each other's needs.

    Interests:

  • Gaming: PC games and Dungeons & Dragons (3.5 & 5th edition).
  • Outdoor Activities: Hiking, bonfire nights, and exploring nature.

  • Reading:

    Fantasy novels like The Legend of Drizzt, Harry Potter, Eragon, A Song of Ice & Fire, The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings, and the Mistborn trilogy. The Magicians, The Last Kingdom.

  • s:

    I love
    s, especially dogs. I currently own a Yellow Belly Slider Turtle named Tokka and a cat named Munch.

    Hard Limits:

  • No hard-partying or daily drinking.
  • Preference for partners under 200 lbs.

    Communication:

    I'm looking for meaningful conversations where both parties are actively engaged. I'm not a kink dispenser; I want a romantic relationship with love and kinks.

    Instructions:

    If you've read this far, start your message with "Achievement unlocked" and include some basic information about yourself.

    Thank you for taking the time to get to know me!

BDSM Play Partner21 to 44 years ● 165km around USA Plymouth

Hi there, I’m a trans woman — that’s probably the first thing like to mention, which means I have a 🍆 but I identify as a woman. I’ve always been and always will be <3 so like you to address me that way. I’m looking for someone of any age, but gender is a bit more complicated.

I want a relationship where I’m the sub and you’re the dom. I don’t have a place, which means you’d have to take care of that and other things — it’s not for everyone :3

This is about petplay, where be naked at your place as your pet, and you’d take care of me, feed me, give me drinks, play with me, and of course be intimate with me — but also in other ways. Mainly I want someone who really wants this and doesn’t care too much about what might happen — even if there’s something awkward or silly. We’re here to enjoy ourselves, so message me only if you genuinely want to take care of me.

Some things we’d do include you dressing me up in outfits and other things, trying out toys on me, and basically taking care of me like a parent would — except you’re my owner/master/mistress and I belong to you.

Among my kinks is also
play — but only if you're into it too. The only thing we’d likely do with that is that I might accidentally somewhere <3

Ideally,
want to be completely naked the whole time I’m at your place — because what’s the point of being a pet and wearing clothes the whole time, right? <3

More about me: I’m a bit shy at first, but if you get me in the right mood, I can be all kinds of things. I’m super cuddly — ideally *** love to be glued to you 24/7, either making out or just snuggling while playing.

As for gender: I’m basically okay with any, though I’ve only had experience with men. The thing is, I tend to prefer female partners more because of my standards — women are more understanding, prettier, sweeter, and all that. If it’s a guy, he has to really surprise me.

Lastly, if you’re just here to tell me I’m crazy or sick in the head, don’t even bother messaging me — you’ll just waste both your time and mine <3

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 325km around Slovakia Bratislava

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