So… I am writing this because a lot of people seem to be confused with…let’s call it “The inner workings” of
B.D.S.M. ( not here of course, just in general)...
Bdsm and M/s are separate things, M/s may or may not contain elements of bdsm.
The bdsm community outnumber the True M/s people by a huge amount.
True M/s couples (or groups) are not that common.
They appear common because bdsm people mostly believe that M/s is a part of bdsm.
And bdsm people often, in fact usually blur the distinction between M/s and Dom/sub.
They throw around terms such as slave and Master like candy but those words are like the word love to me and should never just be thrown around.
Mostly, they do not understand (or accept) slave, as property.
In the bdsm world most activities revolve around “scenes”
This is where the term slave gets *d, people always used to use the term submissive which is the correct term, but the word slave seems to be in fashion. Something that people don’t understand the totality of the word slave.
Now in True M/s lives, the slave gives permission and consent to her/his Master when the slave is collared.
Therefor the Master never needs consent again.
However, many in the bdsm world won’t understand or appreciate this.
They also mostly won’t appreciate that the slave is Master’s property and He can do anything He so wishes, so **
and **** are largely mute points.
Because for it to be real, there cannot be any limits.
Sex, massage, dancing, seduction etc.
She always looks and smells divine.
A true slave weaves the essence of love, honor, high ideals, and strong desire to grow spiritually in these areas…as well as all aspects in life. It is well to see how the Master describes this subject. To Honor…To Love…High Ideals…And a strong Desire to grow Spiritually…Are not only how the Master describes this subject…But is the reason why Master…is…Master…
But everyone must take responsibility for their own reality. It is an art, and as such requires not only study and practice but also the inspiration and the love-hate relationship all artists have with their craft.
Through experience of Master’s…They can tell you what the two trademarks are of all True women are:

• The ability to laugh, even at the worst horrors…And…

• The ability to throw jargon out the door and discern the heart of every matter while never taking any matter too seriously.
The simple reason for these abilities is that by actually doing Your own reality and actually experiencing the magickal universe instead of merely reading about it, these abilities are automatically developed.
T/they should be overjoyed with T/their common connection…W/we all recognize the potential that results in the formation of this union…it is merely the beginning of something new…
T/they should be empowered by T/their sexual Magick…and though it transforming into the beginning of who T/they should be…The Beauty of the connection that is so Strong…no Limits…total Trust…above all Loyalty… Did You all read that?? Above All Loyalty… If Master and slave can not be loyal then it is Not a true M/s relationship, it is Dom/sub relationship. A M/s relationship is stronger than Any Marriage anywhere on Earth and should be treated as such! It is a lifetime commitment! That is why there are only a handful of “True” M\s relationships in the world!
Everything in balance.
A True slave should trust in her intuition and nurture her environment of deep devotion, patience, and intense passion…sometimes in silence…
Master and slave together set the standards for which direction they want their life to go.
The slaves’ opinion is always listened to by Master; but in the end the slave knows that His decision is Final.
Every Master strives for “the slave that comes willingly on bended knee” that His slave learns to just pick up on these things over time and doesn’t have to be told or punished anymore.
Its understanding more than just sex, its learning about each other

BDSM/Fetish Family5km around USA Seattle

That's the version, I reckon. To start with, I like the idea of a monogamous relationship with a fun sexy lady. Polyamory is well and swell for those who are into. Honestly, I am not judgmental stuffy sort of person. I mean, whatever blows yer skirt up is ok with me. But for me personally, I just feel like One Woman is enough, and that's what I like. Also, I like to be honest and have people return the favor.

So, here's some more Honest. I am not a vastly experienced Dom, and have no experience as a Sub.

I have had a few flings with Ladies who like to be tired up, spanked, humiliated. and fun stuff like that.

When people are single, it's a gamble as to how upfront others may be in how they present themselves. In my own limited experience with pretty much Novice Level BDSM, I really liked it a lot. And the 3 women I have been with that liked it were married, unfortunately..

Not one of them bothered to tell me that up front, and that was a drag. Anyway, I don't think any of them were lying about being married. It's just that none of them told me ahead of the game. More like phone call from hubby to say he was on his way home from work early. weird stuff. enough of that.

But after all that, including the melodrama, I was hooked on BDSM

So, that's what I want now. Infact, I NEED a Lady who is into that kind of lifestyle, and not married. Not married, and no other boyfriends here and there. I'm not taking any kind of moralistic stance. Not at all. I just don't like it! So, I am 66 years old, I have a few photos with my profile. I'm a pro Guitat player and Singer, and all in all, in general, a pretty easy going sort of guy.

I hope this personal add works. i don't like being single, and one night stands or even a fling that lasts a couple weeks don't sound like much fun either. Not anymore. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Until we meet again, or for the first time even, take care and be well!

William

BDSM Play Partner32 to 55 years ● 50km around USA Phoenix
BDSM Play Partner150km around USA Dallas

Looking for an obedient female slave to train into hopefully a 24/7 slutty free-use fuck toy, one who’d give me full control over her body and even lifestyle if willing. At the same time, also looking for a connection, a magical one that exists only between a Master and his slave. I'm attracted to passion, desire and drive, and usually I'm drawn to women my age or older than me, and the look on their faces as they find themselves at my mercy, the way they blush, moan so desperately. I know there’s a lot of pride in being older than someone, and having that flipped, kneeling naked, bound, filled with toys ravaging your body, whimpering and moaning at my mercy - it's humiliating, degrading, objectifying (in a good way), it feels taboo yet exciting... and I like having that effect on someone. That you’d be a toy, an owned object, a plaything of someone younger - and when you realize that it cements you as one.

How would you feel if you were locked in a metal chastity belt or tied spreadeagled, naked exposed, your perky tits facing the ceiling, with remote controlled vibrators shoved deep in your dripping wet pussy and sexy ass, so I could control them whenever I wanted, wherever I wanted, however I wanted. So I could deny you an orgasm, or you to cum again and again … How would you like it if I rubbed your nipples roughly, pinching them, pulling on them, rolling them in my fingertips, then slowly moved my hand down to between your spread legs, over your pussy mound, sliding two fingers along your moistening slit, tracing them up and down between your pussy lips sensually. Feel your pussy, your fingers resting at the entrance to your leaking wet hole, how does it feel? Does it feel moist, dripping? If it is, I bet you feel like a pathetic, slutty whore right now, but at the same time -- you belong. Slide a finger in, slowly, in and out. Tell me how you feel…

How would you like to be my slave, owned fully, tied up, made to be naked while alone at home, trained into a
obedient fuck-toy whore. Played with, aroused… I’d train you to be a proper slave, to beg for permission to cum, to be aroused and horny wanting me to play with you. I’d develop rules for you to follow, you’d be denied permission to wear panties, I’d keep you naked often, filled with toys as often as possible. In person, you’d be fully free use, I’d love it if you let me take the lead and explore your body however I’d liked. And if you’re brave and interested, and you chose willingly, freely to give yourself fully, giving full control over not just your sexual life, but all aspects of your life, total power exchange in a way that I’ve found truly magical… in a way that’s freeing, that weight and stress of decisions being lifted off your shoulders, leaning into me… and at my mercy, yet safe, an ultimate form of submission and trust, that would mean the world to me. Knowing you do so freely, giving yourself fully, not because you feel d or pressured, or that you need that to heal from past trauma, or that you need to do so to be mine, but because it’s truly what you want, who you are deep inside, who you always were, that hidden desire that is yet to be unlocked, I’ll treasure that, and I’d want to guide you, in a way that’s structured, meaningful and truly amazing. I want to make you always feel like you belong, that you’re owned fully and completely - that you’re not alone or lost anymore. Being and naked, so that even when you’re wearing clothes, you still feel fully undressed, because you know that you’re known and understood. Your secrets, your s, your past. And despite that - you feel comfortable, safe. And if a spark blossoms within that dynamic, maybe we’d find love that’s passionate and beautiful, in a way that your submission brings you both pride and happiness- that you smile, to me, making someone smile and blush is intoxicating.

I'm fine with starting off slow if you’re a beginner, and showing you the ropes (though I really like cuffs!). I wouldn’t want to overwhelm you, I’d want to find your limits and push at them if you’d like that, help you overcome them.

Tell me what you are into, your deepest fantasies, your hidden desires, I’m into a lot of things and I’d work with you to dominate you in the way that is personalized to you, tell me what you desire, as well as any limits you have.

I’m currently in the Boston, MA area, and hoping to find connections near there! I am still happy with dominating online those who are farther away, especially as I prefer dominating and getting to know each other online at first in general, though I’d eventually prefer something in person if possible eventually! Also open to this eventually leading to a live-in slave situation if you want that (and we really like each other ofc).

Also, if you are interested in latex, chastity belts (female), sex toys, or being tied up and naked like the slut you are, definitely message me. If you do end up wanting to message me, read my profile fully first, it’s long, I know, I’m working on shortening it, but it’s me. I’m also hoping to develop sex toys so if you’re interested in testing that out with me that’d be amazing! I have a few ideas 🤭

BDSM Play Partner22 to 50 years ● 100km around USA Boston

Hi! My life partner in both life and kink recently passed away after 30 years together. As such, I am hoping to expand my horizons and circumstances by reconnecting with the greater kink community. While I am considering exploring a LTR, I am at present in no hurry to commit to anything permanent as I am still adjusting to this.

I am primarily seeking a situation involving a sub or slave female that might lead to a LTR. I can host for mild to wild BDSM play; prefer subsemphasized text with masochistic tendencies and desires. SORRY NO MALES!

Me? I'm a 63 y/o widowed Dom WM with a dry but dark sense of humor; 6'3" 195 HWP, professional, pierced nipples. I'm presently recovering from some health issues but am moving along very well and am very much a fighter; not a quitter! College educated and although mature, very in touch with my inner child. I can transition from NPR to Bob’s Burgers without flinching nor being embarrassed about doing so. Music is a vital part of who I am as is humor. The ability to maintain a sense of humor without arrogance when it comes to BDSM play is, in my eyes, vitally important.

I am not looking for someone squeamish but someone adventurous, who is intrigued by spankings/paddles, restraints and nipple clamps, wax play, blindfolds, latex, leather, tight restraints, watching/ voyeurism, large objects and. . .?

I switch on occasion if the chemistry is right and am open to CBT, pegging, sounding, and pretty much many of the other interests I’ve already outlined. In other words, I can take in what I dish out...

I have a wide variety of gear to add to the total ambience… Anything from mild to wild, as I do have a bit of a sadistic streak…

You? ...are sane and secure, clean and discrete. Enjoy some curves, but sorry- no extreme overweight. Prefer mature but will consider any age or race with a willingness to test your limits and maintain creativity with a certain degree of humor and humility. LOVE tats, piercings, ebony, goth and...

Limits will be respected but tested; also receptive to sexting. Because of scam efforts and ulterior motives of some responses I have received, I actually prefer meeting at a neutral location first in the general Milwaukee area although, yes, I can host...

Desires and Fantasies
My partner and I have explored plenty of things in the past including play dungeons, pet play, role playing etc. I've already explored plenty of fantasies, so just let me know what yours might be...

If you are looking for pay for play or if you’re a “” seeking s, move on… I have better things to spend my on including partners that are actually interested in something more LT and stable, and who actually play instead of yanking chains (rhetorically rather than literally)... If you’re looking for someone to send you or ***s sight unseen, well… while I appreciate you’re thinking that I was born yesterday, I wasn’t…

BDSM Play Partner30 to 70 years ● 50km around USA Milwaukee
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