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Okay, so ask him on about a year ago so now I’m a year older at 48. Separated. I’m looking for somebody exceptional. I’m based in Manchester. I have a long history with BDSM and kinky lifestyles in general. I’m prefer submissive types. I would also consider myself to sad so if you are a masochist that would be awesome. I’m a nice guy very much a gentleman outside the bedroom. I’m looking for somebody truly exceptional that can hold a conversation and has intelligence but is also kinky. I’m hoping there’s somebody out there.

First off, I am neurodivergent , meaning sometimes I dont get a lot of "unspoken" social cues, so I would need to be told... a lot... I also have a few environmental allergies so I usually have a few things on me like medications and my inhaler I am also engaged but we are open/ poly and he knows I look for others to play with. his drive is lower than mine

I am looking for someone that is able to host in my area or at least nearby my area, and preferably at these times:

weekdays:
9 am to 2 pm , (except for doctors appointments)
week nights:
8 pm to 2 am ( overnights are okay as well)

weekends : can be a little tricky, Im usually pretty busy on weekends but every so often I will have a weekend or two off a month, though Im thinking sundays are probably my least busy days.

Play:
above all I crave these things:
Passion/affection, touch , and penetration .

Someone that is respectful, confident, and playful ,

usually wins me over much more than arrogant, stubborn, and bullying ever will.

( though of course I do enjoy dirty talk )

I also crave more experiences in life and want a few other things only this area can give me.

I wish to experience more in these fields/things :

Primal , ropes, "knives"/claws/wheels

wax, penetrative / stretching toys, pumps,

harnesses, leashes , massage ...

theres probably a few here im forgetting but I hope the general gist comes to mind and other things can be added

heres also a few things im NOT into:

Im NOT into:

// *** ( some markings and sex on period is okay for me but nothing huge)

tasting/ ingesting fluids ( im sensitive to tastes and doesnt help my gag reflex) but I do enjoy giving blow jobs before penetration ,

dirty talk that leads into territories of weight

tickling

"permanent " things like hair cuts, piercings, tattoos etc.

Other things I would also enjoy from this arrangement:

someone who is patient and compassionate,

someone who doesnt let me be lazy too much, but will make me take a break when I need it

someone who can help me with some health issues, or beginning things like exercises, stretches, diets, etc.

someone who can listen to me ramble but also know when to cut me off and hold me and tell me things are going to be okay,

someone who will check in on me on a regular basis even if Im unable to come over,

a few other things about me in general:
I enjoy anime, rom coms, musicals, scifi/ fantasy, comedy, some video games and arts and hope to have more vanilla experiences someday too!

I know this is kinda lengthy but Thank you to those that have made it this far, as for the play list, it doesnt have to be all, I know most people only have a few of these interests or experiences, but at the same time I would like to experience them in general in life, even if I have to find another partner for those others specifically.

I am down for almost any kinks (no fluids or that kind of stuff) and really just want to explore. Im a switch so whatever you are into I will take that role but I love praise myself and pleasing in general.

Well, generally I like caring for a woman fact to face. I like finding out how she thinks and what’s important to her. But in with relating I like tying her up and seeing if she can get loose. I don’t believe in the sub/dom paradigm because it codifies relationship and inhibits intimacy. I’ve read a lot but I’m not an intellectual because I value emotion and emotional honesty more than ideas. I have a website but it’s apparently not welcome in this venue. I love meeting people. If you like conversation, art or a walk in the park, we’d get along. I go a lot on intuition. Spent years working in Wall St. and now I devote myself to writing. Directed and acted on stage in New York. I’m very loving and interested in your feelings, but you don’t have to tell me. I have no pickup line. Unless I like your smile. I’m very gentle when that’s called for. Do you read, do you like art, music? Tell me. If you’d like to see more, I’ll point you to my website. I am supportive, sensitive, patient and smart. Compassion and conscience are important to me.

It seems to me that people don't generally read bios or look at anything but profile pictures, if your only focus is on looks and not looking to see if the person you find attractive has anything interesting about them or anything about their character in their profile then you're only interested in sex. I'm not. I'm looking for something meaningful, someone or someone's who I can form a relationship with hopefully long term. I want someone who knows what they are doing and if they don't, aren't afraid to admit that. I value honesty and communication, if you can't do that we won't click. But if you can, send me a message😋


Edit: apparently people still don't know how to read a long bio all the way through so I'll reiterate, if you give me demands right away or on our first conversation, I WILL BLOCK YOU, it's the most unattractive thing someone can do

Looking for dominant women in general distance or age aren’t really a problem

Heya, im looking to try out one of my fantasies which is fisting,pussy pumping, anal fisting,nipple play and general lesbian sex.

I’m happy to share photos of myself and any details you may wish to know. I am based in London and can host if needed.

No age preference just be experience and willing

Hi I'm new here and to this in general, I'm looking for a female Dom to help me explore and try new kinks.

I'm 6'1"
Around 265lbs
I'm 36
I am in the East Bay and can either host here (once we get to know eachother) or get a room closer to you so you don't feel uncomfortable.
I'm looking to have a fun and growing bond with someone, not just a hole to stick my dick in, I have toys for that.
I'm clean std/sti wise, I get tested after any new partner not because I don't trust them persay but I want to be extra careful, no sex is worth a lifetime disease or anything.
I love to please and think that communication is essential to any relationship, especially a sexual one. Yes, you can tell some things from body language and sounds, but actually talking about interests and likes is far better.
I have a picture of me on my profile, granted I'm wearing a mask but I'd be happy to send you a different one if we want to chat more.
Fantasies are a bit hard to narrow down, my tastes are constantly changing and I try to let myself explore each of my interests when appropriate.
I know I said I'm a big giver, but even more specifically, I love to eat pussy. I know a lot of guys get weirded out or are greedy about their pleasure, but that isn't me. I do enjoy receiving of course, but it's almost impossible me make me cum orally, I'm far more stimulated by making my partner receive pleasure.
As far as scheduling, I can generally make time whenever I want, both planned ahead and typically random spur of the moment type.
I'm totally down to build a friendship/connection and even just watch movies and spend time together, it can't all be sex.

I'd like to meet ladies in the general Treasure Coast vicinity who would like to be sucked 👅on for a few hours 🤯

Like the headline reads... My gf says I need a gf. She travels around Colorado for work alot and says I need a friend to keep me company while she's away usually for days at a time. About me I grow lots and lots of 🌳. Im generally a nerd, im not as knowledgeable in anime but am not against learning. Star wars, GOT, HOTD, etc. Play video games and like movies and shows. Im a bit of a home body bc i work alot. And have been called a flake bc im usually on call. This is not a iso unicorn, thrupple, or poly thing. My gf is aware im looking for a friend and possibly more. But ultimately just want some friends to chill and smoke herb with while she out and about. I love all s and usually all s love me. Im a big kid at heart. Offer is open to all but as far as creating anything more im really into fem presenting people of all colors and walks of life. Im a lil hippy and a lil hood. Hope we vibe and can get to know eachother.

I don't even care that much about sex, I just want intimacy in general. Although sex would be a nice plus too🤣

Looking for new people to discuss the life, nuances, learn more, see where the discussion take us. I am generally very private about what I do day to day, and keep this life completely separate! Feel free to message me, and we can discuss. My current roles are sadist/daddy dom, have questions or genuinely curious about topics feel free to reach out!

Ladies only within our general area curvy a must don't want anyone of us being insecure about our appearance must be between 30 to 48

I'd love to learn more about my local kink community, how to be more comfortable about it irl and generally someone to guide me through it

I’m looking for some female dommes or just females in general who want a guys face to sit on and use as they wish. I open to how it’s done and just want my face to be smothered and soaked and rode by a female. If anyone’s interested hit up me, your personal Queen chair

Im looking for primarily submissive girls who enjoy being spoiled and would prefure a LTR.
I enjoy spending time and *** on my girl spoiling her rotten when i habe time away from work or family. Enjoy movies walks in the park hikes and just in general amything that involves worshoping you outside the bedroom
Feel free to drop a message if any of this cliches with your wants or needs ^.^

Well, here we go. Finally sorted my profile out and here's my jump into kink dating. Another first is that I have just bought a VW T6 van which I am converting into a campervan. I think this is what some people refer to as mid life crisis purchase - though I can assure you that I'm not in a crisis :-)

I like to keep fit with running. Best thing I got back into post COVID pandemic. I can run a 5k in under 20 minutes which is good for a 45 year old.

I also like music, parties, DJ'ing, fixing things for people (electronics, cars etc), cooking nice meals, making things, gardening and all that sort of fun stuff.

I also have a kink side which has become more apparent as I have got older. I am generally on the submissive side but will switch too. All depends on the dynamics.

I'm particularly attracted to assertive women who like wearing refined high heels and leather. Of course this isn't the only factor - getting on well together and sharing common interests is essential.

Looking for fun, kinky couples, women, trans, or others who like to drink, smoke, and generally have fun! More pics if we click. In town until Wednesday! We would love to talk and meet up!

Looking to flirt, date, and meet wonderful kinky partners. Say hi!

With apologies for the list, I'm looking for people who are:
-Dominant or dom-leaning switch
-Into me!
-Poly friendly
-Trans and nonbinary friendly
-Not miles and miles away.
-Kind hearted, eloquent and inventive
-Within about -10/+15 years of me ish
-Some degree of generally life compatible, talk to me and find out!

Please direct message me, I don't usually have premium so can't see spanks.

Anyone know any good bdsm clubs or clubs in general?

I'm looking for someone to dominate and own me as a slave or pet uwu
I'm really into general slave and master dynamics but also really into pup play and being reduced to an obedient little puppy~

Ok so here goes…, I am 46 and searching for my soulmate.

I like to wear the trousers and control things generally, I like the kind of D/s slave setup but I do not want to be a mistress that just plays with you and fulfills all your desires, i have desires too,

I want to be surprised sometimes and treated like a goddess a princess. Loyalty and honesty are extremely important to me.

I want a man who knows he’s a man, a man who loves and appreciates women and intimacy and love and kink, a man who appreciates women in lace and in fetish clothing or even in comfy clothes, I am NOT into sissies or Crossdressers and I’m not interested in tying men up and doing them with strap ons, or keeping them in chastity. I want a man who tries to please me and gets joy from doing so.

So what am I interested in? A 24/7 TPE relationship where I actually come first, not a situation where it is a guise to only get your secret kinks.

I am a natural leader and control freak, I love men looking like men and acting like men but under my authority, I am kinky but I also want love, deep conversation and to build something so special. I like to take care of and to be taken care of, I suppose my ideal relationship would be what would look like a normal relationship from the outside but i have D/s control, I love the idea of moulding a man to be everything I desire, choosing his clothes, hairstyle and free time.
I love the idea of creating asthetics and atmosphere to explore dynamics on all levels. I want to be able to experiment with my submissive switch side but whilst knowing I can return to my natural tendency of dominance.

I am looking for someone who is more dominant in life but can be submissive to me in a non pathetic way, honest, loyal, fun and intelligent, emotional, empathic and sentimental, has a sense of humour, someone who is patient and kind and calm but can be a little cheeky or play a little bit hard to get or even be a bit dominant sometimes and not just be weak.Yes I guess I’m looking for a submissive Dominant, where the submission and dominance have to be in the right places. I love to chase, i love tease and build up especially mentally.

I have had experiences with men who are liars or destructive and I do not want that in my life, I need someone who values trust and honesty, who can be strong and there for me when I need it. I can be a bit dramatic and need patience, if I get it then I have a lot to offer. Deep conversation is very important to me I am pretty dark minded but I am also very caring and loving and playful and creative. I love being a woman but I am also quite boyish in my interests.

I love gaming, god of war, resident evil, Elden ring, assassins creed, magic the gathering, playing pool, a few beers, occasionally cocktails. I love poker and metal detecting, binge watching tv series and reality tv, I Love eating out and shopping, wandering around markets, escape rooms, BBQ’s jacuzzis, creating themed parties, I love thinking outside of the box, coming up with grand ideas. I love celebrations, like birthdays or summer parties. I love a good massage and I love entrepreneurship. People who are loyal to me I will treat them well and go above and beyond for.

I currently live with 2 D/s slaves/friends. They are platonic relationships. So whoever my soulmate is must be ok with that poly setup and a rather unusual household.

I also have adult sons who I run a property development company with, my goal is to make millions and to be able to create a cool life filled with fun, I want to buy land, a big house, would love to run fetish clubs,and find someone to grow old with when our bodies are too old. Ideally I’m looking for someone involved in the building trade who could come onboard our company.

I am not religious, I edge more towards pagan beliefs, I am very interested in quantum physics and the idea consciousness creates your reality and and I am a bit of a conspiracy theorist.

I love all different types of music, imagine dragons, the weeknd, 80’s, billie eilish, avici, mood and atmospheric

Tv I like Vikings, Dexter, breaking bad, dragons den, apprentice masterchef, survivor, crime, downtown abbey, Spartacus, Clarksons farm, basically decent reality tv and series are my thing, a good movie if it’s well produced.

My negative qualities, I smoke, talk a lot, I’m very possessive. I can sometimes be a bit narcissistic, If you embark on a relationship with me you enter my world and sign up for supporting my life and goals.

My kink interests are :

Roleplay, (I have a big thing for roleplay) Slavery, TPE, collars, D/s control, choosing clothing, monitoring activity, eye restrictions, financial control, being served,, medical, asylum, age play, pet play, kidnap, era play like Victorian schools or slavery or Roman slavery
Flogging, queening, foot worship, tease, cages, latex, straitjackets, there is a lot more I’d do and some more private things but those are my main interests.

If you like my profile, drop me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

Age
Location
Current living and work situation, skills, any commitments etc.
And more about you in general.

Short messages like hi will be ignored, as will crude or rude messages….yes I know I want a lot, as least I’m honest, if you don’t like my profile you can ignore it.