How long has it been since you quenched your thirst for uncommon desires & treated your body like an amusement park? Now ask yourself, “how long have I scoured the Internet but came up empty-handed every time because I haven’t found what I really, really want for free?” Well you’re not alone. In fact, many of you are in the same boat, knocking your heads on some wall because you’re unsatisfied. Unsatisfied because just like many things in this journey we’ve come to know & accept as life, the same-old same-old has become just that, old & you’re probably in the market for something new. For example (not that this matters to Me) many of you who read this profile are married or attached, but why are you here? The same old ball & chain you married has become your same-old same-old.

Well the Cobalt Lair might just have that newness you’re looking for. I’m Mistress Sugarbritches & I’m the shemale proDomme who all of the other Dommes & Mistresses wish to be after they die & go to the afterlife.

I schedule My outcall BD/sm sessions 7 days a week from 2:00 pm until Midnight but will make exceptions for night owls, at a higher premium than the normal rates.

I only offer fetishes, fantasies & role play BD/sm sessions. What I don’t offer are sexual services (good luck finding a proDomme who will offer those). Those are performed by kinky sex escorts like Sally from a back alley who spanks Johns with hairbrushes from dollar stores while they beg Her to put Her dick into their mouths or bone their asses so they may “please” their “Mistress”.

Wake up & smell the leather, you’ll be glad you did! And if you request it, I’ll be more than happy to bang your head against a wall so you don’t have to.

The Cobalt Lair goes almost anywhere! I don’t screw people, I satisfy them!

Pro-Dom/me Session30 to 75 years ● 100km around USA, San Diego 10 months ago

Hi I’ve logged back in after many months. Wasn’t here for very long before so am still new and a little cautious, but still very curious..

Looking to explore my little side. It’s something I’ve been curious about but not something I’ve ever talked about or pursued. I’m very independent in my day to day life and struggle to ask for help but I have a need to relinquish this and be taken care of, in and out of the bedroom without needing to ask (or help me learn to be better as asking) and to be a naughty and sweet submissive in the bedroom.

In my past I have dated younger men but behind closed doors (in my mind and imagination) I get the most aroused and wet when I think about an intelligent, calm, loving, in control daddy giving me love, attention. Making me feel desired and safe and touching my mind and body.

Psychologically, It’s all about feeling safe and desired and adored. I have some body insecurities so to have my daddy desire me and to feel cherished and erotically wanted by him, would make me feel such a special girl for my daddy and would iron out the anxieties or insecurities I have.

In return, when I feel that safety, nurture and attention is genuinely given to me, I will want to give my love and attention and my all to my daddy. If I trust my daddy, I will want to make him so very happy. I am naturally very attentive and I like to please and tease.. I love seeing daddy lose control when I give him my desire (thats the switch in me).

Please note:
Im all about nuance and sensuality and mental play that naturally builds to something more urgent and dirty. I don’t do 0-100, or mimicking hard kinks like you’re a pair of actors reenacting what you learn as being sexy from watching porn. I doubt anyone under 35 will know what this means. I want to FEEL REAL. Real sexy. Real anticipatory. Real naughty. Real dirty. Real wet. With a person that just understands
that sensuality and silence is erotic.
It’s not about headline grabbing black & white kink. (I understand why people chase the fun sensationalist highs of whips, chains, hardcore boundary pushing sex, but I personally find labels the opposite of nuanced and sexy!) Only the most emotionally intelligent men will understand the subtlety in the psychological difference and they’re the ones I would love to hear from. Thank you for reading x

Ps. I really crave a sensual erotic kiss at the moment before anything else!

BDSM/Fetish Family34 to 75 years ● 50km around UK, Leeds one month ago
Kinky Date27 to 63 years ● 550km around USA, Selma one year ago

I'm a sane, decent, caring Dom who loves submissive women, slim or slimmish, who can orgasm, or get damned close, through nipple and breast play, whilst tied up. which is not to say any of your other erogenous zones would be neglected, nor does it preclude a hard fucking, either. But breasts and nipples are my joy and focus, so would be a key component of your experience of sexual stimulation and ecstasy.

Although I'm a Dom, you'd not have to do much to please me, I'm quite undemanding in that respect. In fact, you'd be recipient of a lot of pleasure, tied up, , being used by me.

I can crank up the intensity if your limits allow, specifically through whipping your
body, but this is not essential. In any case, I respect all limits, no exceptions, and am leery of even stretching a sub's personal limits, because that sounds like a recipe for ignoring them, which is not how I roll.

I'm a nurse and have a caring streak, so you'd be a well cared for sub and slave, or prisoner if you prefer that dynamic. I don't mean financially, alas (I mentioned i'm a nurse, right? :P ). But you'd feel safe.

Some subs prefer to take on a Master/slave role, and others prefer to assume the role of a prisoner. There's a subtle difference between the two roles which I'd be happy to explore with you.

I'd love an LTR but that is not a requirement.

Outside of bdsm kink I'm a sane, intelligent sensitive guy, confident but caring, cultured, witty and fun.

I go to the gym three times a week, cycle and walk rather than drive, love the outdoors, museums, art, poetry, documentaries rather than drama . That said, I love high quality drama, and am geeky enough to have loved Netflix's Arcane, and I love Lords of the Rings films and art work.

My favourite poets are Larkin, Wordsworth and Elliot, but my favourite poem of all time is "somewhere I have never travelled, gladly beyond" by EE Cummings. Do yourself a favour and read it. Its the most astonishing love poem I've ever read and has haunted me for 20 years.

But hey, wait a minute, this is a BDSM ad. I got distracted - if you're an attractive slim woman, submissive who wants to be tied up and used, whipped, and taken to orgasm by nipple and breast play - contact me! :)

BDSM Play Partner18 to 42 years ● 25km around UK, Birmingham one year ago

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