Hi, I'm a non-op transwoman in my forties, looking for new friends and playmates on the scene. I'm currently in a poly relationship with a Domme I care deeply about but I'd like to explore my kinks in ways that she's not able to help me with.

I'll say up front that I'm quite a bit overweight, but I am working on getting my weight down. Nor am I particularly femme right now, but again, this is something I plan on addressing once I get my weight down to a level that doesn't make me hate my own reflection. Basically, what I'm saying is you really need to not be focused on a person's appearance if you want to spend time with me in any way.

Mostly I'm looking for Tops, male or female, for no-strings, just-for-fun sex play with a rougher edge. Ideally I'd like to find someone I can grow to trust, someone I can gradually push my own boundaries with and have fun. I'm not looking for a 24/7 Top, but would be willing to entertain a possible LTR with a suitably compatible person. Given my comments above about my weight and appearance, I would also be happy to discuss an ongoing arrangement with Tops who are interested in helping me get into shape physically and aesthetically as part of regular play.

My main kinks and interests are sexual slavery, punishment play, impact play, play and play but I'm happy to explore new and interesting scenes with the right person/people. I also have a little experience with needle play (Topping and bottoming) and would possibly be interested in taking this further.

If you're interested in discussing a possible date, feel free to get in touch. What's the worst that can happen?

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