I’ll just put this out here.
A smaller brother, I was the sensitive one who was a mama’s boy. Yet Dad was a rather manipulative and controlling spouse who rarely seemed happy. His suspicions that mom was seeking others made me play ref in my single digits when they fought.
She followed his words when she wanted to visit her family: “If you leave, never come back.”
Mom stayed at her childhood home and then married a physically abusive man. At that time I started a career of being among females who constantly lived in .
Now, I see all females as heroes, warriors and goddesses rather than “survivors.”
So if you want to learn of my kinks, read my confessions.
While my pref is interracial dating, I have no ulterior motive here. I’m an advocate for all nice people. I will shout to the world that women are the unsung heroes who sacrifice, endure and fight many lonely battles.
Maybe your kinks are your outlet. You deserve every ounce of support to get whatever you want.
You should be honored daily, not just on your birthday. You deserve to be worshipped and supported and must have a safe place to speak your unfiltered truth.
And all of your fantasies should be explored. Who is anyone to squelch your joy?
Partners can approach their mates by volunteering to cover, by prepping meals or making Epsom baths, by snuggling spooning and showing all levels of intimacy with excitement. And by being present when your partner needs to feel listened to. Love is too beautiful and life is too short to latch on to negativity. True Doms and their subs get it because they work on communication trust safety and attentiveness.
Allow yourself to be . Don’t be scared of rejection, because any will keep us free to find someone who values all of us and loves our struggles as deeply as our qualities.





