We are an engaged couple of 8 years and have enjoyed other partners for 6.

J is bisexual and loves the vixen/stag roles and is very submissive. She is picky when it comes to girls as a third as she does get jealous from time to time. She currently has a girl she's comfortable with but is ok with other options if the fit is right. In men she prefers good looking fit men. Bonus points if your larger than B, 6.5in but thick. To date, the biggest guy she's been with was an 8inch VERY thick cock. J is very turned on by watching two men orally pleasure each other which is what started Bs experimentation for the last 6 months.

B is a heteroflexible dom. He's very attracted to women. While he's not attracted to men to date, he does enjoy giving/receiving hand & blow jobs. In women he tends to enjoy women nice bodies and has a fetish for stretching pussy and squirting. He makes J squirt consistently and is skilled at it. He is allowed to finger women, give and receive oral, and be dominant. With men he has no limits but has only gone as far as oral.

We are looking for kinky thirds. Nothing is really off the table as we like to experiment. We do typically only date together but sometimes she's given permission to see a bull alone. B does not date without J.

J will be doing most of the talking here. B likes reading J flirt so send her an encouraging message & you may get lucky. We typically meet for dinner after J sees if there's chemistry. We always insist on buying dinner. Any plans made after dinner are typically for sex.

Kinky Date25 to 55 years ● 200km around USA, Cleveland one year ago

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A pet is a submissive who enjoys taking on aspects of a domesticated animal. Pets enjoy the freedom of being animal-like. They leave all adult responsibility behind to play like their chosen pet. There are many different levels of pet play. Some pets enjoy dressing up with masks and gloves so that the pet can’t speak or use their hands as humans would. Other’s just like to act like pets without any particular specialist gear. There can be a sexual element to pet play but quite often it is just simply about play and the power dynamic between the Owner and their dearly beloved pet.
An owner enjoys pet play but not by becoming pet-like at all. They are the responsible person who looks after the person playing as a cat, dog, pony or other animal. They are Dominant personalities with a kind, caring side. They take over complete control during pet play. Just as any owner would do with a pet. Owners pair up with pets. They may only ever pick one type of pet, being a dog person or a cat person for example, or they might like the variety of owning different pets. They will perform tasks such as grooming, feeding and putting down water for their pets. They may lock their pet in a cage if it’s appropriate. Dog and Cat Pet play owners will do lots of play and grooming activities with their pets. There may be elements of training, rewarding positive behaviour and punishing bad. An owner may choose to lead their pet around on a lead or have a special collar for them that looks just like that of an animal pet. Pony owners might not focus so much on play. Pony play can come in different forms but will include training the pony to do specific tricks and/or having them pull a carriage of some sort or carry a person on their back. Owners take pride in looking after and showing off their pets. They may own one or more. There is a strong bond between an owner and their pet, but that doesn’t necessarily mean it is a monogamous relationship. There can be a sexual element in an owner and pet’s play but often it is all about the dynamic between the pet and the owner. Owners enjoy taking on the responsibilities so that the pet can lose all human inhibitions and completely become a pet for a period of time.
Slaves are submissives who totally give all control over to their Master/Mistress. The main difference from other submissives is that they hand over control of all their life, 24/7 to their top. There can be pre-agreed exceptions to this rule. For the purposes of work for example but by vast majority a slave hands over all decision making to their Dom. BDSM slaves are happiest when serving a Dominant. They tend to not have limits with their Master/Mistress. This is because their dynamic is very close. The Dominant knows his/her slaves limits and keeps to them. This is a very unique relationship and is one to build up to. Slaves start out as submissives first and after time become a slave. Slaves, even more so than submissives, tend to wear some kind of symbol of their BDSM slave status. This can be a collar or a piece of jewellery that symbolises their belonging to their Dominant. Slaves give complete trust to their Dominant, freeing their minds from worry and responsibility. It is a very unique roll and one that only certain submissives can take on.

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