I am putting my order out into the universe for a life partner. Btw, I am demisexual and I won’t suspect that you are interested, if you don’t tell me.

monogamous male (45-60yrs)
Liberal
Fully vaxxed & still masked in public
Emotionally intelligent & available
Spiritually aware NOT into religion
Loves family, kids, nature, & s
Nerdy, sweet, romantic, funny, caring compassionate
Tantric energy exchange, sensual switch
No addictions
Non smoker
Infrequent alcohol & no drunkenness

ME-
I am a bbw , sensualist switch and I do need both sides of the coin for satisfaction. I will be looking for friendship that can blossom into a romantic life partnership. We need to be on the same page regarding covid safety, vaccines, and politics (I am liberal af). While I have compassion for those like myself with trauma, grief, and medical issues- you have to be appropriately addressing these for your own personal growth.
Please be respectful in your correspondence and expectations. My spiritual, physical, mental, and emotional health are top priority.
Please do have your avatar and “about me” section set to accurately represent your character. Cock profile pics= block.
Please do message me with the verbiage and energy tone that denotes your interest and intentions.
I appreciate positive, clear, concise, and updated communication.
Please follow through, actions usually speak louder than words.
Please be truthful, safe, and respectful with YOURSELF and others.
I value personal and community responsibility.

Analogy: I have a chair(s) open for those spiritually conscious people that may have a piece of the puzzle I am missing and/or may know how join pieces (life experiences) that I may already have. Sit down as a kind, curious stranger willing to make goals and be proactive in creating a positive relationship(s). Stand up with confidence in our loving friendship and a new awareness.

I am looking for sincere human connections--friendships to enjoy BDSM coffees and munches, classes, and parties together.
My vanilla interests would be watching a movie in theater or at home, museums, historical places, plays, musicals, to attend cultural and craft festivals, learn arts and crafts, travel, learn to dance-burlesque maybe/theater/storytelling/ dulcimer or autoharp/
ting/ up cycling , take a healthy cooking and/or meal prep class, and learn gentle yoga, tai chi or water exercise. I love nature and s; canine obedience class? Board gaming and RPG. Energy healing & aroma massage. Fascinated with RV or tiny house life, eco villages, intentional living communities. I want to learn more about healing with herbs, food, massage (ex: Reiki), meditation, crystals, essential oils, and more- a little witchyness.

I am looking for the intense primal passion, tantric/ spiritual connection, power and energy exchange I crave. Intimate connections, communication, and affectionate domination—Ahhh. I want to mutually create a simple, sustainable, yet purposeful life with the Soul I choose to walk alongside for as long as our paths parallel and we are both growing.
I request that a potential playmate or partner be free of substance
, illegal activities, and STDs. Responsible mild use of medical marijuana edibles might be okay. Please respect that I do have hang-ups with consistent alcohol use and drunkenness. Cigarette smoke makes me ill as does drama, manipulation, negative, and abusive people. The act of lying and ghosting has infuriated me.

I test 97% Switch, I believe that this is due to being a natural nurturer and my interests in sensual play that I would translate as more of a reciprocation of gratifying service- an aspiring Service Top. I am interested in receiving and learning to provide energy massage, hot stone massage, fire cupping, fire play, violet wand, mild needle play, wax play, knife play (no deep cuts), mild-medium impact play, and the intricate art of bondage—-ART— that’s how I view much of this lifestyle. I would also like to learn to scene and role play with negotiations and clear boundaries. I LOVE primal play. The intensity and depth of the teeth and claws excite my inner lioness. Making love in the moonlight and sleeping naked in the sun…

HARD LIMITS: children, s, to include bathroom games, anti-vaxxers, anti-maskers, trumpsters, conspiracy theorists, and bareback or anal without monogamous commitment.

Kinky Date45 to 60 years ● 25km around USA, Hopewell one year ago

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