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Top, bottom, sadist, masochist, rope bottom, (in training rigger) bitch, sweetheart, friend, mentor, educator, leader, primal, writer, pupil, challenging, confident, happy, afraid & passionate. ENM. Ethically non monogamous, flirt, tease, and all round fun person.

Whilst I have a great playmate, I am actively seeking a primary partner to share all that life offers both kinky and vanilla.

In all honesty I do not define myself as any one label, to do so would be untrue to myself and those I am close to. I see myself as your equal. I am a bit of a perv and have a weakness for Irish and strong accents, intellect, conversation and toned male arms...

I love ***, both giving and receiving, oh the joy!
Colour me wax... make me pretty or place me in my strait jacket and gift my mind pure bliss.

There comes a time in life where we realise that not being true to ourselves is very much a waste of our lives. Live each day like it's your last. Love hard, embrace life and have no regrets.

I am confident, happy and doing just that by living my best life. I thank all those who have traveled my path with me, your friendship has helped shape the person I am.

Andy Submissive guy originally from England now living working in sunny California, looking for new sadistic selfish mistress to lead me astray no

Hello to all that see this. If you're a woman between the ages 18 and 23 living in London ontario. And you want a woman dom, please reach out. I'm a sadist, but am open to some other things. Or you just want someone to talk to. I'm fine with that as well.

Hi im Looking for a dominant female That will Open me up To living in her place forever as her Submissive Pathetic Slave/pet i am so pathetic.

Hey there! Obviously the title is serious, but that is because I want to be clear with my intentions: to never have to post again. That said, I'm not expecting to jump into anything right away but to simply start out chatting and see if we match and there is a connection yada yada. With that cleared up…

Here's me:

I'm a 26 yo Norwegian with lots of love but sadly no-one to give it to (yet). Physically I’m a 6’3" (190 cm) tall, pale, blue-eyed blonde with fairly regular looks. Personality-wise I’m soft, patient, loyal and supporting. I am a Christian and the faith is important to me, but I also lean very much submissive and find myself craving a dominant partner. As such, I’m looking for someone who likes me values both. I know it’s a rare combination, but being an outlier I guess I'm simply just looking for another?

One other thing is, I'm looking for someone who (like me) doesn't drink or do . It's just something I've never been a fan of or been comfortable with. I’m looking for monogamous and long term obviously. This is important to me.

I'm a person who connects with few, but connects deep with those I do. Stable, loyal, honest, in offer of support and I’ll happily hear your rants. I’m extremely loving and caring to those close to me although I do take a while to open up. However I will tell you my actual thoughts on your dress.

I'm the blushy, cute, and cuddly nerdy type… with a dark edge. I have a pretty chill approach to life. I’d describe myself as a quirky introvert, slightly nerdy and into books, board games, puzzles, video games, fantasy and so on. I'm also down for outdoors and playing sports, and like to be active every now and then and play disc golf amongst others. I like to joke, both innocently and more edgy, and it's simply part of the package with me. A note is that with the exception of the gender roles, I do have fairly traditional Christian beliefs.

Our Relationship:

While sharing common values and interests never hurt the most important thing is that we get along. It'd be great if you also have a dominant streak, so bonus points if you like to take a little charge. And if you love cuddles (I'm fan of the sappy stuff, too). I’d describe my ideal Domme as a Mommydomme with a mean streak, but find that kink comes second, and that roles will develop naturally based on how we get along and how we compliment each other. My dream is for you to be fine with and even encourage my softer traits and allow me to be my warm, supportive, clumsy and cuddly, little softie self, rather than an alpha-type handyman. And for you to perhaps be more of the decisive type? Kink-wise Im into a wide array of things from pet play, edging and to heavier ones and very open minded in terms of exploring new things. I also really enjoy the psychological aspect of Femdom and playing around with that.

I'm happy to verify by exchanging pictures once you get in touch and hopefully you are too. Bonus if you send one in your initial message. Even though chemistry is a big part there is no denying that physical attraction still is a factor!

Health:

I didn't initially include this in my post as I feel an obligation to include it so as to not lead someone on falsely.

I’ve been living with Conversion Disorder since I was 18. Briefly explained: my nervous system is a little off, and occasionally has physical reactions from stress and mental strain. This means I lead a semi-calm lifestyle. I still have light symptoms, but they are much rarer and milder than they used to be. I am soft, but I am strong mentally.

I own my own home and I am doing okay financially. I’m completing my master’s degree to achieve my goal of becoming a part-time teacher. My health may prevent me from working full-time, but I will most likely be able to have a part-time job with partial Disability support. I am ready to be your partner and start a family.

Our Future:

I'm currently bound by my nation's borders for another year or two. Although I would highly prefer settling here, I want to make you happy, and so I am open to consider most English-speaking countries (especially the US) in the future should we find each other. As for visiting, we have way more flexibility, and I'm more than happy to make a trip (or more) to meet up as I am rather serious about this.

Anyway, if you've made it this far and you think we could hit it off, be sure to send me a message. I would love it if you also added a paragraph or two about yourself so I can learn about you.

Can't wait to get to know you!

Remember I don't bite, I cuddle. DC dragedreperen

Want to meet a male or female that will completely control my life and have me living under their feet I do not care what sex I just want someone any one at all

Like the title says. I’m a 24 year old dude living in Montreal looking to meet new people and maybe have some fun with ladies around my age.
I’m also into bdsm stuff if you like that. I also speak French.

I want to meet someone who I can have a proper relationship with that includes the lifestyle but is not defined by it. Someone clever, kind and with as much of their sh!t together as they can have in this life.

I want someone who understands that this is one life. And we should just get on with living it, shop fighting the world and just go for it.

If that's you. Then let's talk.

Hello,

How are you ? I’m keen to chat with you i would like to learn/ get to know you better so could you tell me a little more about you ? In the mean time here is a bit about me and I hope to hear back from you shortly

I am a perfectly harmonious man with cruel tendencies seeks girl or couple for regular meets. Possibly a girl for long term, one who truly wants to be owned and to serve.

Intelligent, wide interests and mildly sadistic. Fundamentally respectful but like to test your responses, enjoy your predicament, use your assets and push your envelope. I'm seeking a real girl...who wants to be taken down, dissembled, sullied, molded.


Actively looking for girls/couples who enjoy being humiliated.

I can provide with straight, couple, lesbian or group.

Particular s offered to you... you can...

be naked while the others are dressed

hands on head reciting tables etc.

masturbating while being watched

using toys while being watched

public flashing

oral sex while hands on head with cum on face, in mouth or other

hands on head corner time while being fondled, touched fingered

blindfolded

toilet use in front of others (including potty or similar in living room)

corner time desperation leading to accidents in clothing

inappropriate clothing

full water-sports

Spankings (Hard)

Diet control

Cuckhold (Couples Only)


Could you in public?
Could you go into a sex shop and ask in front of others about butt plugs, buy one, buy some lube and ask the assistant if they would fit it...
Could you strip naked and walk along a woodland path

WhatsApp me now on 07496126155

Hello, I am an intelligent, articulate late fifties British Male, living on the North London/ Hertfordshire border, looking for a curvy, busty woman with whom to indulge my love of big breast play.

I am - of course, happy to indulge your fantasies and kinks in return, and hopefully we will both obtain mutual gratification and fulfilment together.

My love for big breasts was forged in my ***s, thanks to one particular experience, and has stayed with me for over 40 years now.

I enjoy teasing, squeezing and groping a large pair of soft breasts through clothing, feeling your nipples stiffen in response. I love playing with nipples, pulling, and teasing them as they grow, and throb under my touch. I have given many Ladies nipple orgasms over the years, and firmly believe that anyone is capable of having one. Breast fucking, tit fucking, mammary intercourse, paizuri, tit wanking - all pretty much the same thing (well, except tit wanking - if you want to be pedantic…!) Do you enjoy having your breasts slapped ?, nipples clamped?, oiled, lubed toyed - and orgasmed over ?

If you’ve never tried these things, maybe it’s high time you did ?

I would very much like to chat with you about the possibilities - and have may (true) stories to tell about my own experiences, and of course, I would love to hear yours also !

So if you are just looking for mutual satisfaction- with no complications, or perhaps good wine, lunch, and naughty chat, which might lead on to something more, please feel free to drop me a line. I would love to hear from you.

Black Male Dominant seeking Submissive Female for eventual Long Term Relationship / living together as a D/S couple.

I have a high sex drive and stamina, and am seeking a genuine female who is similarly highly sexed and kinky. Your colour is irrelevant to me.

One-night-stands and No-strings encounters are great and I'm more than happy to partake, however, I find that the sex and the kink always get much better the longer you get to know and crucially, LEARN about them. Hence the interest in getting into a long-term relationship.

I'm stockily built and weigh in at approx 14st 7lbs.

Although I'm 59, I do not look it - no wrinkles - this is both a blessing and a curse depending on the scenario I happen to be in. Like the saying goes, "Black Don't Crack" LOL.

I do not switch, and I have no interest in doing things with other men apart from sharing a woman who has agreed to CONSENSUAL (CNC) of herself - MFM.

I can travel or accommodate.

I do not have a face profile, but happy to send my face pictures to anyone I engage with.

I'm also happy to converse over video mediums such as WhatsApp, Skype, Zoom, etc, etc. This way, YOU can see that I'm real and I can see that YOU are too.

After a couple of virtual meets though, I would prefer to meet in real life, obviously, once the female feels comfortable to do so after our video conversations. It is only then, after we've physically met a few times, that we can really determine if there will be any long term future, or whether for us, it's just short term fun.

I will not participate in endless s and chats, as the goal is to actually meet, and if I feel that's the route our fledgling relationship is taking, I will terminate it.

Unfortunately, there are too many fantasists, fakers and pros masquerading as real kinksters, and it takes time to weed out other genuine souls like myself.


There is more to being a Dom than just whack-and-go!

Genuine females, please feel free to ask any questions.

Looking for a local partner. GGG poly. More than fwb, I'm looking for a unicorn. Someone who understands my situation and what i want. If you're living more than 50 km from me, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME MESSAGING ME. I will not ever respond to you. Are you man who's into lots of sex. Breast play? Wanting something more permanent than a rando time? Questions? Just ask.

Living in Baltimore I consider myself human furniture in use me as your footstool, chair or carpet

I’m looking to meet a nice lady to share fun times with, I’m 46 living in ipswich qld
Good hygiene is a must and take a bit of pride in your appearance shape/size etc isn’t an issue

I'm a proud kinkster living in North Bay Canada and want to organize an outdoor orgy in the woods but have no clue where to start.....any suggestions will be greatly appreciated 😁😁😁

Looking for a new sub. My new sub will be "baby diaper girl" and wear a diaper and onesie while with me if she is allowed to be clothed. She will be completely taken care of and not need to or be allowed to make any decisions or do anything without my say so. No water sports, no one is ing on you, playing with any poop etc. Not into that, no branding no no marks bruises only safe play with safe word but with the baby diaper girl twist. I'm a formally trained Dom have been for 20 years. I enjoy teaching about the lifestyle as much as living it and really enjoy pushing subs to their limits so they can learn about themselves and come out as better stronger people. I'm a respectful Master but a non tolerant one. I don't like disobedience and it's not my choice but a fact that punishment follows disobedience. Will never cross the prearranged limits ever and always have safety at the top of my priority list before the fun comes into play. If you don't understand what the lifestyle is about and that sex is very low on the priority list in a Master/slave Dom/sub relationship then we're not a fit from the start. It's all about power control pushing limits exploring your wants desires likes you never new you had but having fun and getting close to someone you trust along the way. Don't get me wrong I love sex very much so as a matter of fact but thats not why I want a sub/slave if I wanted just sex there are much easier ways- buy a couple drinks at a local bar for a cutie impress her with my sense of humor then later with everything else 😁😁 just kidding. Baby Diaper Girl where are you? Your daddy needs to find you he is worried about you and is bored with no one to take care of.

Hi, I am seeking something real and realistic. A relationship, preferably LTR, with a dominant woman where we can share all kink and vanilla interests. In person, face to face. Old school. I am a bit old fashioned, very monogamous, still believe in chivalry.
I am notlookingforsomeonetodospecificthingsto me. I am looking for someone who shares similar interests. I am not interested in changing myself
or who I am, and I am not interested in someone changing who they are, or compromising, for me. I am, however, open minded and am open to exploring and growing. But I won't compromise my hard limits and boundaries, just as I would never expect or ask you to compromise yours. if I haven't mentioned a specific interest of yours, feel free to ask. I am open and honest, feel free to ask me anything.
I am a sub. Not a slave. I am very comfortable with who I am. While I am happy to learn, adapt, and grow. I will not change who I am or what I am looking for.
As already mentioned, I am seeking realistic. I have interests outside of kink. I have dogs. I have a serious soft spot for rescues. If you share this interest, that would be fantastic. Living as a gimp in a cage until needed, is entirely unrealistic.
I am not desperate. I will not chase you if you are not interested, or we are not compatible. I'm looking for a mutually beneficial relationship where we both want the same things, reasonably. I will not try to something that was never going to work.
I am more than happy to answer questions, clarify, or even just exchange ideas. Feel free to contact me, and if it wasn't meant to be, then it wasn't meant to be. But at least we'll know.

I am a masculine and muscular sub male with a special interest in chastity. I don't have any interest in feminization or being a sissy. Not judging others, just being honest. If that is what you seek, I wouldn't be a good match for you. I seek someone who enjoys the control chastity gives as them much as I enjoy being controlled.
I am emotionally and physically strong. I am not submissive because I am weak, I choose submission because I have been drawn to dominant women since as long as I can remember. I am not a beta anything. I am not a sub because I am weak. I choose submission. I do not choose the submissive role with just anyone. I choose submission when I am with a dominant woman who inspires my submission. One who I am comfortable enough with to offer my submission to. Those who know me, but not this side of me would be shocked that I am submissive. So that leads to the next submissive cliche. I am not worthless, useless or have a weak character. Why anyone would want someone who is worthless is beyond me. I'm not a worthless sub, I seek to be a valued sub. My words may say this, but my actions will prove it.
I pursue a healthy lifestyle, am active, am at the gym at least 3 days a week. No , no smoke at all, rarely drink. I make an effort to keep healthy, but am not fanatical at all.
I am intelligent, creative, witty, and have a great sense of humor.
I am very functional and very sexual, my interest in chastity is control. I do not use chastity to mask any physical issues. I enjoy pleasing my partner and I enjoy long term arousal. And a woman who truly enjoys that control is incredibly exciting.
And being someone who believes in actions over words, chastity is proof that I am 9nly interested in one woman when you have been given my keys. I always hated the infidelity questions if I worked late, of was at the gym longer that normal. Steel chastity, pa piercing, says devoted to one as strongly and confidently as possible.
I am experienced in short term denial as well as long term denial and am ready for whatever you decide or desire. I do really enjoy a sexually selfish dominant woman. The control is very addictive, especially if she enjoys it as much as I do. I feed off of the energy of the one I'm with. If you feel guilty, I feel guilty. If you are excited, I am excited. I want you to be comfortable with your control and enjoy it. So that you find as much fulfillment as I do.

I have several stainless steel devices and am secured with a pa piercing. You hold complete control when you hold the key. And as this is completely consensual, you are free to enjoy and explore your control. And enjoy it. My pleasure is derived from your pleasure. The more you enjoy things, the more I do.
I am a moderate masochist. I have many years of experience in bdsm, and I love bondage and (moderate, but eager to explore) ***. Again, it's the control. But chastity a way to feel bondage and control day and night. Without being a burden on you. Everyday, all day control. It is fun when I forget about it, but am reminded by the unforgiving steel. All day long, at different times, I am reminded of my keyholder. I love that snap back to reality that the control is very real.
With masochism, like chastity, I feed off the energy of the one I'm with. The more you enjoy it, the more I do, and the more my tolerance goes up.
I want to be well rounded. If you feel light and sensual, if you feel hard and heavy, light tease, intense tease, or are not in the mood. My wish is to be available for whatever you need. I seek to improve your life, not complicate it.

I am in Southern California, I have houses in Palm Springs and Big Bear Lake. I can escape the heat and the cold as needed. While I love splitting my time between the desert and the mountains, and would love even more to find someone to share all this with. I would be open to relocation to the right location. Hit me up if you want to know more.

Ideally I am looking for a connection of mind, body and soul.

I have a submissive aspect which can be encouraged to make me perform different roles to satisfy the needs of my superior. This can include being made to be ***ful for the enjoyment of the right Individual.

I am partial to tall women with generous curves.

I am attracted to sapiosexuals, who value themselves and wish to contribute as much time, care and dedication. To truely taking care of each other's needs.

If discretion is needed, this would need to be made clear. So that all know, what the outcome at the end will be and why.

Honesty and trust is paramount to make these delicious adventures so precious and worthwhile.

Ltr dominant man, extremely sexual -kinky , great communication to seduce my mind

Hi am a man, inexperienced as had lots of social anxiety in past. especially expressing my kinks and dominating side,love to give pleasure have mutual fun, and get into role play..but want to meet someone that either wants to talk about our sexual desires and come to an agreement something to start off in this road, excited but new to this world...much appreciate any reply,Marcus g...looking forward to the potentials that may unfold with time!!:-)

Living in NL, but very often going to Germany near Duisburg.

Looking for a gay/bi playpartner. Can be D/S Action, fetish ear should play a role, foot play would be a big plus

Facepic on request, I'm not the monster to scare you in the dark.

Hey, I’m 23 year fit and slim boy living in Melbourne and new to BDSM, looking for friend, dom, dommee or play partners. 😊

Looking for someone living the life style. No time wasters

Hi I'm Kevin I'm 30 single living in ky I'm looking for my dress up partner