In the realm of BDSM, there's a unique blend of pleasure and that many find exhilarating. For me, the thought of a good, over-the-knee spanking is not just about physical sensation; it's about emotional release, connection, and the thrill of surrendering control.



Understanding the Desire

The desire for a spanking can stem from various places-stress relief, a need for discipline, or simply the allure of the act itself. In our fast-paced lives, we often carry burdens that weigh us down. The idea of a spanking can feel like a release valve, a way to let go of pent-up emotions and reconnect with oneself.

The Emotional Connection

BDSM is not just about physical acts; it's deeply emotional. The trust between partners is paramount. When I think about being spanked, I envision a safe space where I can let go of my inhibitions. The intimacy of the act creates a bond that is both exhilarating and comforting. It's a dance of power exchange that can lead to profound emotional satisfaction.

The Physical Sensation

The anticipation of a spanking can be intoxicating. There's a unique thrill that comes with the mix of
and excitement. The warmth of a hand against skin can evoke feelings of vulnerability, which can be incredibly liberating. For many, including myself, the physical sensations are intertwined with emotional catharsis, creating a holistic experience that transcends the act itself.

Setting the Scene

For those curious about exploring this desire, communication is key. Discussing boundaries, safe words, and aftercare can enhance the experience. Creating a comfortable environment where both partners feel safe to express their desires is essential. Whether it's a cozy living room or a dedicated play space, the ambiance can set the tone for the entire experience.

Conclusion

In a world that often demands so much from us, the desire for a good spanking over the knee is more than just a kink; it's a longing for connection, release, and exploration of one's limits.



Embracing this desire can lead to deeper understanding and fulfillment, both personally and within a partnership. So, here's to the thrill of surrender, the joy of trust, and the liberating power of a good spanking.
Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or just curious about the world of BDSM, remember that, the journey is as important as the destination. Embrace your desires, communicate openly, and enjoy the ride!

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 100km around USA San Diego

Ok so here goes…, I am 46 and searching for my soulmate.

I like to wear the trousers and control things generally, I like the kind of D/s slave setup but I do not want to be a mistress that just plays with you and fulfills all your desires, i have desires too,

I want to be surprised sometimes and treated like a goddess a princess. Loyalty and honesty are extremely important to me.

I want a man who knows he’s a man, a man who loves and appreciates women and intimacy and love and kink, a man who appreciates women in lace and in fetish clothing or even in comfy clothes, I am NOT into sissies or Crossdressers and I’m not interested in tying men up and doing them with strap ons, or keeping them in chastity. I want a man who tries to please me and gets joy from doing so.

So what am I interested in? A 24/7 TPE relationship where I actually come first, not a situation where it is a guise to only get your secret kinks.

I am a natural leader and control freak, I love men looking like men and acting like men but under my authority, I am kinky but I also want love, deep conversation and to build something so special. I like to take care of and to be taken care of, I suppose my ideal relationship would be what would look like a normal relationship from the outside but i have D/s control, I love the idea of moulding a man to be everything I desire, choosing his clothes, hairstyle and free time.
I love the idea of creating asthetics and atmosphere to explore dynamics on all levels. I want to be able to experiment with my submissive switch side but whilst knowing I can return to my natural tendency of dominance.

I am looking for someone who is more dominant in life but can be submissive to me in a non pathetic way, honest, loyal, fun and intelligent, emotional, empathic and sentimental, has a sense of humour, someone who is patient and kind and calm but can be a little cheeky or play a little bit hard to get or even be a bit dominant sometimes and not just be weak.Yes I guess I’m looking for a submissive Dominant, where the submission and dominance have to be in the right places. I love to chase, i love tease and build up especially mentally.

I have had experiences with men who are liars or destructive and I do not want that in my life, I need someone who values trust and honesty, who can be strong and there for me when I need it. I can be a bit dramatic and need patience, if I get it then I have a lot to offer. Deep conversation is very important to me I am pretty dark minded but I am also very caring and loving and playful and creative. I love being a woman but I am also quite boyish in my interests.

I love gaming, god of war, resident evil, Elden ring, assassins creed, magic the gathering, playing pool, a few beers, occasionally cocktails. I love poker and metal detecting, binge watching tv series and reality tv, I Love eating out and shopping, wandering around markets, escape rooms, BBQ’s jacuzzis, creating themed parties, I love thinking outside of the box, coming up with grand ideas. I love celebrations, like birthdays or summer parties. I love a good massage and I love entrepreneurship. People who are loyal to me I will treat them well and go above and beyond for.

I currently live with 2 D/s slaves/friends. They are platonic relationships. So whoever my soulmate is must be ok with that poly setup and a rather unusual household.

I also have adult sons who I run a property development company with, my goal is to make millions and to be able to create a cool life filled with fun, I want to buy land, a big house, would love to run fetish clubs,and find someone to grow old with when our bodies are too old. Ideally I’m looking for someone involved in the building trade who could come onboard our company.

I am not religious, I edge more towards pagan beliefs, I am very interested in quantum physics and the idea consciousness creates your reality and and I am a bit of a conspiracy theorist.

I love all different types of music, imagine dragons, the weeknd, 80’s, billie eilish, avici, mood and atmospheric

Tv I like Vikings, Dexter, breaking bad, dragons den, apprentice masterchef, survivor, crime, downtown abbey, Spartacus, Clarksons farm, basically decent reality tv and series are my thing, a good movie if it’s well produced.

My negative qualities, I smoke, talk a lot, I’m very possessive. I can sometimes be a bit narcissistic, If you embark on a relationship with me you enter my world and sign up for supporting my life and goals.

My kink interests are :

Roleplay, (I have a big thing for roleplay) Slavery, TPE, collars, D/s control, choosing clothing, monitoring activity, eye restrictions, financial control, being served,, medical, asylum, age play, pet play, kidnap, era play like Victorian schools or slavery or Roman slavery
Flogging, queening, foot worship, tease, cages, latex, straitjackets, there is a lot more I’d do and some more private things but those are my main interests.

If you like my profile, drop me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

Age
Location
Current living and work situation, skills, any commitments etc.
And more about you in general.

Short messages like hi will be ignored, as will crude or rude messages….yes I know I want a lot, as least I’m honest, if you don’t like my profile you can ignore it. :)

BDSM/Fetish Family25 to 48 years ● 25km around UK Plymouth

Hello from Washington State! I know this is probably a long shot as there are many other couples looking for their unicorn and many of them far more appealing and baggage free but If you're a female who's looking for a couple please consider hearing me out. We are a couple currently looking for a Miracle Unicorn to enrich our lives and family.

A bit about Him (the male half of the couple):

My husband is a 29 yr old, 6'2'' 250 lb burly biker/lumberjack type of guy with medium tan skin, Tattoos, gorgeous blue/grey eyes, dark brown hair, and a beard! Some of his hobbies include hunting, shooting, camping, Listening to books, and enjoying art. My husband is a very Logical, aloof type of guy who struggles with emotionally connecting and whose ideal life is living in the country where it's quiet and raising a family. On a spicier note, He is an extreme sadist, dominant in every aspect of life, and isn't afraid of trying more extreme kinks like electricity play, Knife play, and breath play, but he's also wicked good with floggers and paddles! He has well over 10 years of kink experience and is Poly (like me).

A bit about Me (the female half of the couple)

I am a 25 yr old Disabled female Housewife/Expecting mother, who is 5'5'' 160 lbs (At the moment it is higher, 190lbs Due to pregnancy) with a Large DD bust, with Strawberry blonde Hair, hazel green eyes, a few tattoos, a few piercings, and pale freckled skin. I will admit I have a lot of scars and some stretchy marks but I see them as a sign of beauty! I have a very emotional, overly nice, squishy soft subby personality type with a hit of witty sarcasticness when I'm feeling sassy! I will fully disclose I come with baggage and struggle heavily with autism and PTSD, as well as Fibromyalgia and scoliosis. My hobbies are wide in variety since with my health I cannot work. In my free time, I enjoy music, networking, drawing, growing plants (veggies not maryjane), messing with AI, makeup, and fashion. I would describe my fashion as a mixture of Fairycore, Granny aesthetic, and pastel manic. My ideal life is a quiet country/farm lifestyle raising my kids. On the sexy side of things i am a masochistic submissive who is into blade play, and breath play and very poly and pansexual! (this whole search for a third was my idea not his lol)

What we are looking for in a unicorn:


What we are looking for is a Non-smoking, Average build, Biological female. Who leans on the Submissive end of the personality spectrum. We would prefer someone right-leaning (politically), with minimal health issues. who is open to a family lifestyle (meaning kids). One of the biggest things is we would hope that our unicorn could help me since my health has made it hard for me to adequately participate in Household chores and has robbed me of the ability to drive and work. I understand this is asking for a lot and is not for everyone and truthfully I don't expect to see this post bring any results for several months but I needed to shoot my shot.


Anyway, if you took the time to read all this I appreciate you. And if this sounds like you please don't hesitate to message me!

BDSM/Fetish Family18 to 45 years ● 200km around USA Cheney

Hello from Washington state! I know this is probably a long shot as there are many other couples looking for their unicorn and many of them far more appealing and baggage free but If you're a female who's looking for a couple please consider hearing me out. We are a Washington state couple currently looking for a Miracle Unicorn to enrich our lives and family.

A bit about him (the male half of the couple)

husband is a 29 yr old, 6'2'' 250 lb burly biker/lumberjack type of guy with medium tan skin, Tattoos, gorgeous blue/grey eyes, dark brown hair, and a beard! Some of his hobbies include hunting, shooting, camping, Listening to books, and enjoying art. My husband is a very Logical, aloof type of guy who struggles with emotionally connecting and whose ideal life is living in the country where it's quiet and raising a family. On a spicier note, He is an extreme sadist, dominant in every aspect of life, and isn't afraid of trying more extreme kinks like electricity play, Knife play, and breath play, but he's also wicked good with floggers and paddles! He has well over 10 years of kink experience and is Poly (like me).

A bit about me (the female half of the couple):

I am a 25 yr old Disabled female Housewife/Expecting mother, who is 5'5'' 160 lbs (At the moment it is higher, 190lbs Due to pregnancy) with a Large DD bust, with Strawberry blonde Hair, hazel green eyes, a few tattoos, a few piercings, and pale freckled skin. I will admit I have a lot of scars and some stretchy marks but I see them as a sign of beauty! I have a very emotional, overly nice, squishy soft subby personality type with a hit of witty sarcasticness when I'm feeling sassy! I will fully disclose I come with baggage and struggle heavily with autism and PTSD, as well as Fibromyalgia and scoliosis. My hobbies are wide in variety since with my health I cannot work. In my free time, I enjoy music, networking, drawing, growing plants (veggies not maryjane), messing with AI, makeup, and fashion. I would describe my fashion as a mixture of Fairycore, Granny aesthetic, and pastel manic. My ideal life is a quiet country/farm lifestyle raising my kids. On the sexy side of things i am a masochistic submissive who is into blade play, and breath play and very poly and pansexual! (this whole search for a third was my idea not his lol)

What we are looking for in a unicorn:


What we are looking for is a Non-smoking, Average build, Biological female. Who leans on the Submissive end of the personality spectrum. We would prefer someone right-leaning (politically), with minimal health issues. who is open to a family lifestyle (meaning kids). One of the biggest things is we would hope that our unicorn could help me since my health has made it hard for me to adequately participate in Household chores and has robbed me of the ability to drive and work. I understand this is asking for a lot and is not for everyone and truthfully I don't expect to see this post bring any results for several months but I needed to shoot my shot.


Anyway, if you took the time to read all this I appreciate you. And if this sounds like you please don't hesitate to message us!

Kinky Date18 to 45 years USA Cheney

You’re my new neighbor. You just moved in and don’t have your utilities set up yet. You have a job interview over Zoom in a few minutes and really need a WiFi connection for an hour or so. You’re dressed up, looking GORGEOUS, but smart, hoping to land this new role.

It’s mid-morning, You are fairly certain that I work from home since you’ve seen me during the daytime. You decide to take a chance and see if I’ll be kind enough to let you use my WiFi.

You knock and I open my door. You introduce yourself as my neighbor and explain your situation. I totally get it and say it wouldn’t be a problem. The only thing is that I also have a meeting at the same time, so you’d have to make your call from my BEDROOM so that I could have my living room for my meeting. You’re just HAPPY to have a WiFi connection so you can do your interview. You NEED this job so badly.

I show you my place and my bedroom and tell you that you can get set up and I’ll grab the password from my desk in the living room.

I come back into the bedroom, but you notice I’ve close the door behind me. The look on your face as my hand goes over your mouth to MUFFLE the scream…🥵

I slap you and tell you that this will all be over if you don’t fight it. I put my hand around your throat and pull your panties down. My fingers are inside of you. You’re begging me to stop. YOU keep pleading that you won’t say anything. You don’t understand why you’re so WET though.

I grab my yoga strap and BOUND your hands. The strap is long enough for me to also wrap it around your NECK. I give it a good squeeze and you know there’s no escape. All you can do BEG me to stop and hope that its’s over soon.

I pull my dick out and as I am about to fuck you, you start fighting back, trying to push me away, but I’m so much STRONGER than you. I tighten the grip on the strap and you feel it squeeze a little tighter around your neck.

I push my dick inside of you and you’re BEGGING me not to do this. You’re keep saying “please stop” and that you won’t tell anyone. But I’m DOMINATING you. There isn’t a way out of this.

I take my time using your body in different positions. Every time you try to push me away I *** myself deeper into you and slap you to make sure you understand who’s in control. You know you’re MY cumslut now.

I’m close to cum’n so I use your throat and have you gagging on my cock until I cum all over your face.

You can do your interview now…

Sound fun? I work from home. We can DEFINITELY make this a reality.

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Me: Just shy of 6ft. Black/Asian. I work out regularly. I’m an attentive lover and know how to make my partner feel safe with me and the subspace we enter. I’m kind, witty, charming and interesting. I always smell good.

You: HWP. Submissive. Kinky. Sexy. Open-minded. Charismatic. Sane.

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My DM’s are open. I will want to video verify and have a conversation before I invite you to my home. Let’s establish our boundaries and safe word before meeting.

NSA18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA San Jose

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