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I’m looking for a Dom who values trust, respect, and communication. For me, submission is something I choose to give, and I want it to be met with patience, consistency, and care. I enjoy structure and discipline, but I also need boundaries and aftercare to be respected. Our first encounter should be a conversation — a chance to get to know each other, discuss limits, and see if our dynamic feels like a good fit. I’m looking for something real, where I can explore my submission in a safe, honest, and meaningful way. Any exchange of goods or commitments will always be in person, never online.

And I mean it in the most ticklish sense. I haven't felt the joy and comforts of being tickled by someone playful and sweet (and mean) in WAY too long, and it's actually going to be the death of me. So, if there's anyone out there who likes the sound of tickling someone until they cry for funsies (and maybe a little more afterwards, for good measure), hit me up, and we can talk about how I might meet your needs as well.

I think that's a reasonable request!

If you are actually cool, handsome, and generally good in ned we need to meet up so you can destroy me! My cute little bodyis begging to be used by a big daddy.

I want to be worshipped and love pleasure, but let's talk like real people first. I'm honestly only interested in meeting up with those who can prove themselves as a nice person. Not interested in real jerks, only those who play them in the bedroom. Being a dominant man should not mean you don't respect me!

Big guys only!

Hello, me and my wife are looking for someone to join us for a fun night on my birthday, likely in a hotel.

She would prefer a black man this time, but it is by no means required. This will be her first 3 some, so she may be a little nervous, especially in the beginning

Who’s still up rn, I’m drunk and very horny

Hi I am a trans 29 year old working over the road expedited freight. That means im constantly traveling across the usa! Would love to find a domme or Mistress to serve and obey. DMs are always open!

I’m seeking a submissive who is serious about the experience and understands that when we are together, whether virtually or in person, it becomes our world, free from distractions.

Presence is paramount. When we engage, I expect you to be fully here, fully mine, not half-scrolling or half-listening. If life demands your attention, simply communicate that. I respect your responsibilities, but honesty and openness are the foundation of trust.

If you value genuine connection and are ready to surrender with intention, I invite you to step forward. Let’s explore what true devotion means together.

About me
submissive female, 25 years in the LS. 66 years old. mildly disabled, height 4'11, a BBW. Also i am an INFJ, if you happen to know what that means, and if you are into astrology, i am a solid Cancer, July 2nd.

About You: Strength of character, calm and in control of self, respectful, sexual, experienced in the lifestyle, knowledge of the submissive mind and know how to stay two steps ahead of me. These are the ones that gain my attention. What excites me? Dominance - of my mind, body and eventually my heart and my soul. Try to just take it by demand, and you may as well walk away, because that's what i will be doing.
i am submissive. 25 years in the lifestyle. seeking a LTR with an experienced Dom, or a Dom who is real and compatible with me. I am a little bit disabled and need some special attention, but not overly so. my submission is my heart and soul. Loyal and serving to a fault. i still have much to be taught, not much real life experience even though i've been in this LS for a long while. I've been trapped a long time in a vanilla.. and i burn.








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submissive female, 25 years in the LS. 66 years old. mildly disabled, height 4'11, a BBW. Also i am an INFJ, if you happen to know what that means, and if you are into astrology, i am a solid Cancer, July 2nd.
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You: Strength of character, calm and in control of self, respectful, sexual, experienced in the lifestyle, knowledge of the submissive mind and know how to stay two steps ahead of me. These are the ones that gain my attention. What excites me? Dominance - of my mind, body and eventually my heart and my soul. Try to just take it by demand, and you may as well walk away, because that's what i will be doing.
i am submissive. 23 years in the lifestyle. seeking a LTR with an experienced Dom, or a Dom who is real and compatible with me. I am a little bit disabled and need some special attention, but not overly so. my submission is my heart and soul. Loyal and serving to a fault. i still have much to be taught, not much real life experience even though i've been in this LS for a long while. I've been trapped a long time in a vanilla.. and i burn.
A silent type, a thinker, His Dominance apparent in His control of the air around Him. He is patient and confident, not arrogant. He is loving with those who are His.








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submissive female, 25 years in the LS. 66 years old. mildly disabled, height 4'11, a BBW. Also i am an INFJ, if you happen to know what that means, and if you are into astrology, i am a solid Cancer, July 2nd.
BDSM and me
You: Strength of character, calm and in control of self, respectful, sexual, experienced in the lifestyle, knowledge of the submissive mind and know how to stay two steps ahead of me. These are the ones that gain my attention. What excites me? Dominance - of my mind, body and eventually my heart and my soul. Try to just take it by demand, and you may as well walk away, because that's what i will be doing.
i am submissive. 25 years in the lifestyle. seeking a LTR with an experienced Dom, or a Dom who is real and compatible with me. I am a little bit disabled and need some special attention, but not overly so. my submission is my heart and soul. Loyal and serving to a fault. i still have much to be taught, not much real life experience even though i've been in this LS for a long while. I've been trapped a long time in a vanilla.. and i burn.

This is what My conversation style is like so you can assess our call buddy compatibility.

I do tooons of other styles, and in reality its not usually formal (though I warn you: I am a scientific type of person that approaches social things in a spooky,,, unnatural,,, Organized way! (organized does not mean clinical, marriage, for instance: has a literal contract and vows but it feels quite warm if people write and follow the right vows for them lol) , customizing them to the individual, but this is like a trailer despite the fact that I have not met you at time of writing.

Starting the conversation with a simmer, warming both of us up exchanging life or research highlights and establishing a back and forth rhythm until we're in sync.

Chatting about progress or workshopping each others accountability buddy projects

Clearing the air by shaking out any heavy stuff if necessary. Perhaps starting a small rant or asking for advice and active listening with each other
(Starting off gentle as we get to know each other in order to feel out and not overstep boundaries) this isn't intended to be a mopey time, more of a healing and solution oriented one, so that our brains can think about we want to think about in this valuable shared time instead of being stuck on a problem.
I aim for my history: kvetching with a group of fellow silly jester detectives in such a style and mood, my deepest sorrows can only be accurately be described in stand-up, hearty laughter all round, close hugs, genuine and inventive suggestions approaching life like an experience engineer, because truly, even the most difficult things in this life,,, are not that serious.

Or perhaps inatead exchanging infodumping if I've just created a project or made a research breakthrough where I lead you through the epic candlelit internautical deep link cave spelunking

moving onto some practical planning and relationship housekeeping
Meaning:
checking up on our group projects, working on them on call

Asking about your areas of actualization and hobbies if we haven't already,

Planning hangouts, road trips, parties, scenes, altered state or spiritual endeavors

Asking what we've done well together, what we can do better and how, what we want to introduce to our connection, what we probably don't want to do again.
The mood of this is fun and curious, I only intend on entering connection negotiations with people who makr it fun and filled with structured liberty like myself .

then when I'm feeling light and airy:
Bantering, flirting (platonically or romantically), riffing and nerding out, laughing our cheeks pink till we fall asleep

I am looking for someone I can meet or call 1+ hour a week
So: if you like this sort of thing or have other conversation styles you'd like to propose in my dms...
(I do lots of other cool diverse tricks like I can do full stand-up as an archetype you enjoy not breaking character for hours, you doing the same, I like to do call being read to or reading you my research project as I break the narration for us to put together the pieces (especially if you take notes!!!)

Inquire in my dms and we can get started! I am being so foreal with you I used to run a daily live streaming group ur bro is c o m m i t e d to chatting and vetting chat partners in a manner before unseen and that feels very easy breezy covergirl.

If you think we're kismet for kinship: You know who you are. I am exactly what I sound like, I've met my buddies a thousand times in a thousand summer camps, by now I know how to see the mark the stars gave you before we were sent falling to different parts of this funky little planet, your boy knows how to establish chemistry

(Don't worry: I've gotten to the point in buddism where you realize personality is an illusion (it has truth to it but it is not the whole truth) and everyone's the same so it doesn't feel fake to act in a way I enjoy, just fun and creative)

Picture this: you’ve had one of those days. Work, errands, gym… or maybe you just said screw it and stayed a little lazy. You finally kick off your shoes, flop down, and that’s when I show up—grinning, hungry, and ready to make bad decisions with you.

I’m 25, tall enough to reach the top shelf, young enough to still have questionable ideas, and old enough to know how to make them very fun. I like to talk a bit first—swap stories, laugh, make sure you’re real—then I’m all about getting hands-on. That means burying my face in your ass (bonus points if it’s got that post-gym vibe) and giving your feet the kind of attention most guys are too scared to admit they’d love to.

I’m not here for boring. I’m here to worship you like you’re my favorite bad habit. So… are you gonna let me?

“Spank me like you mean it… then cuddle me after.”
Because I like a little *** with my pleasure — and a lot of affection when the teasing's done. I’m the kind of submissive who talks back just enough to earn a punishment... but always melts at a gentle touch right after.

Ropes? Yes please. Rules? I might bend them.
But aftercare? Mandatory.

Let's get together and see where the night goes. No worries if it's not meant to be. Happy to make new friends in the area!

Looking to meet new friends in seattle area.

✨ Let’s Skip the Small Talk…
I’m the good kind of trouble you’ve been meaning to get into. Laid-back with a wild side, I’m looking for someone curious, confident, and craving connection that goes deeper than just surface-level fun.

Whether you’re new to this or know exactly what you want, let’s make it memorable — boundaries respected, vibes guaranteed.

🍬 Sweet on the outside.
You pick the time, I’ll bring the energy.

Let’s turn a maybe into a hell yes.

Hosting and looking for a submissive woman who knows(or wants to know)what it means to give e up control.I want you kneeling ,dripping,and waiting for my instructions.

(Rough play,obediance,***(if you are into it),collaring,spanking,teasing ,denial-making sure you feel completely used and deeply wanted by the end of it

Private space, clean rope,Aftercare included

I would like someone to help with with my troubles if you know what I mean

New to the scene with limited experience. Ideally would like to find someone near in proximity but hoping to find someone interested in exploring this lifestyle textually in the meantime

Single dad white 5’10 163 lbs. shaved head looking to be mean and then nice (just for hanging out ) to an orally submissive girl , once or however often you’re comfortable with .

Someone who is kink friendly and wants to explore a slow long session. Preferably someone who has the means to do so…

ISO fetlife tour guide in the areas like role playing, edging,(I think) and terminology. There's people id like to meet that have stereo typed me into something I'm not just because of how I was born. Im just uneducated in that area doesn't mean I'm against anyone.

Looking for a real Dom.. not someone who pretends.
A person who is a Dom inside and out. A Dom who understands what it means to be in control and not controlling, there is a difference. A Dom who understands care and trust on all levels. Who understands a hard limit... Is a hard limit.
He's athletic, not a couch potato. healthy, clean inside and out. Respectful, but also not respectful. 😉Experience in impact play, bondage, and
praise <---- this is a must! And I do like a good collar.

A real freak who wants to be pushed

I'm looking for a fair maiden in need of a lil servicing... Trying to fulfill a handyman fantasy play on words so to say. I can actually fix your stuff, but I'm looking for you to fix mine? While, during, after I fix you pipes, I need payment in the form of you fixing mine? Fair trade in my book? Lmk what you want fixed and show me the way? Then as I'm working, you might say? Oh dear I don't have my check book on me, ask the while undressing to prove there is no check book to be had. But you're willing to play, I mean pay for my services some other way!!! If you know you know?

We’re a 25F/41M dominant couple, who own our own businesses and travel all over the world. We lead with desire and believe obedience should feel as good as it looks.

We’re not just looking for someone to join a trip - but be join into the story. All expenses covered, no routines, no corporate scripts. Just honest communication, shared purpose, real intimacy, and a chance to co create something meaningful.

We’ve been in an open relationship since the day we met and have lots of experience. Everything we do is built on clear communication, radical honesty, and deep respect. We don’t do jealousy games or silent expectations. Whether it’s romance, friendship, or play, we treat everyone we connect with like they matter because they do.

If you’re emotionally open, sensually curious, and ready to live a little differently - we’ve saved you a seat. Let’s make this life unforgettable!

Open to short or permanent relationships (I am ok with short term would love forever) strong willed personality is ok but combative drama love of arguing fighting not ok. Fun to be around easy to talk share with understanding I prefer submissive never been a true dom but I am dominate. Honesty respect upfront open loves sex and pleasing your partner. Whatever it is know what you like but also be open to new things . Eager to please enjoy pleasing and love to give oral and finish along with any and everything else. Like naughty maybe nasty like A T M kinky like restrained or exhibition or threesome like a little nothing over the top but maybe a smack or slap on the ass tap on her bite on neck nipple rough know how to ride filming and then watching filming while filming (fantasy being able to see 7 different times all being watched by the next time in one video) dirty talk not offended by words language nothing taken personally like saying my own personal (naughty whatever) whatever belongs to me and capable of being inflating my ego (my penis, me, worship) water sports. I like being a little aggressive intense . Only hard nos is me being pegged I am ok with a tongue or even a finger maybe two no either way and no receiving *** and tying me up well let’s say if I allow you to tie me up restrain, it better mean something to you and you better be grateful lol there are lots I have idk maybe touched apon some maybe not at all that I would love to do . Oral finish is kinda a hard must and I am a butt man (play with lick eat bite squeeze and of course poke) but not as hard must tho if you were into it and can get off from it and naughty enough to beg to taste it I would fall so inlust with you. Tell me what you like etc so it can be worked into included in even if I am being dominant or master ( a happy pleased slave sub is a slave or sub that is happy to please) (happy woman happy man) so I know it is better if you are into what I am or into pleasing ( there are some things I love to do to please but I like pleasing my woman whatever way she likes) but it is nice to be all about me at times . And you want to rule me back to back oral satisfaction and you won’t need a leash for me to follow you around like a puppy lol