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cumming46451
My gf wants to be cucked

She would love to watch me fuck someone’s brains out while she sits to the side and whimpers. No touching her. I promise to satisfy you first then break her ok. I also have the “good” kind of ED message me to find out what that means :3

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 90km around USA Cumming
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SubShineAndRainbows
Bratty service sub golden-retriever looking4softfe

I am devoted, soft, loving, emotionally + intellectually intelligent and I just wish to find a soft dominant caregiver lady who could make me feel cute and precious in exchange for my love, devotion and eagerness to please (bratty tendancies aside, I mean ;>>;) - anyone interested in making day n night(s)? HMU! :>> 💛😊😳🤭🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️👀✨️🐶🎀😇

Kinky Date ● 18 to 42 years ● 230km around Canada Trois-Rivières
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SweetHonkShoo
☺️Looking for my DommyMommy😻

💜✨️33yr old horny little* looking for attention!, ...I mean caregiver+Dom^__^. Check out my profile🎺 DM me and ask questions...pleaaassseeeeee 🥺✨️🎺


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BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Dallas
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Wildrew
Femboy in training

I want a woman or someone who's already a femboy to help me transition and teach me all the ins and outs of what it means to be feminine. Can someone help me out?

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 65km around USA Andover
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Supremebeam29
Nobody wants to play with a big younger guy?

Im can be anything you want and i mean anything, I can switch from sub to dom just like that and in my kinky adventures ive done nothing but learned and grown as someone who is down for or open to anything!

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Atlantic Beach
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Girlyyyy
Search for consistent Dom

Looking for an IRL dynamic with a caring mean dominant 😉

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Youngstown
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Natsu711
Sensual Massage (women only)

So recently, I’ve had a few female guests over at my place. I would give them a full and an exchange. They would write a review so far I only have one review but I would love to get more and hopefully one day start charging, even though I am by no means a professional massage therapist, but I have been told I am Very good when giving a full so if you are interested, please contact me don’t be weird don’t be gross 18+ only message me for details.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 40km around USA Blaine
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juinorlife
Ready to pleasure you queens. Down for whatever yo

Ready to fulfill all your needs. I can get nasty if I have to, love when older woman control me and tell me what to do. I can pleasure you lady’s by any means js message me😈😈😈

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 5km around USA Brooklyn
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Here2please-7184
Slave looking for my Mistress

I’m looking for a mature Mistress who can take ownership of me. In the past I would normally be the one who took control! Until I met a woman who was very dominant I’m pretty open minded and thought why not have a try. I discovered in that moment that I was meant to be a sub. So I’m here looking for my Mistress who I can worship and learn from

Kinky Date ● 40 to 80 years ● 100km around UK Swansea
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daytona-beachfreak
Discrete Freaks Hmu

BBC freaks who down to push my limits and expand my hole i mean mind 😏 hmu. Stays between us!!!

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 335km around USA Daytona Beach
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valdosta90463
Dominant looking for a submissive woman

Am looking for a submissive who wants to explore this lifestyle. I believe that the type of dynamic with a submissive depends on her needs not the dominants. For me the most important aspect to this type of relationship is the mental connection and trust that is earned. I am looking for friendship to start, with the potential to build a meaningful relationship by sharing and exploring our needs and interests together. Don't be shy about asking whatever you would like to explore and experience.

BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 68 years ● 195km around USA Valdosta
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burgundy90
Sub looking for her dom

Tbh I’m new to this, but I love to be told what to do…. But… just know, if you can tell me what to do, you totally can…. But if u can’t, you seriously can’t.
I don’t want someone mean… when no is said, it means no or we explore why…
I LOVE BEING WATCHED. I think sex is a performance and I’m going to make sure you never forget me.

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Canada Burlington
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HappyLady125
Peace

I'm a curious, down-to-earth person who loves good conversation, road trips, and finding humor in everyday moments. In my free time, you'll usually find me exploring new music (anything from indie rock to lo-fi beats), binge-watching true crime documentaries, or trying out new recipes—I love to cook! I'm also into fitness, hiking, and casual photography when the weather's nice.

I’m big on personal growth and looking for someone who’s kind, emotionally intelligent, and genuinely curious about life. I enjoy strategy games, the occasional sci-fi series, and deep talks about the future. My ideal weekend includes a mix of nature, creativity, and good coffee.

Whether we connect over Netflix shows, hiking trails, board games, or just meaningful conversation, I’m here looking for something real. Bonus points if you love dogs, podcasts, or random trivia nights

Kinky Date ● 60 to 85 years USA Brownsville
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BonkAndSnuggle
Soft hands, loud laughter, open doors

We’re a married pair — one cis man and one non-binary partner — looking to connect with others who value curiosity, communication, and consent above all. Sometimes that might mean sharing space with another couple, sometimes exploring with a third, and sometimes meeting someone solo for a fling or connection.

We aren’t in a rush; we’re open to seeing what unfolds when respect and playfulness meet. Enthusiastic consent, honesty, and aftercare are non-negotiables for us.

If you’re queer-friendly, kink-aware, and comfortable navigating boundaries with kindness, we’d love to hear from you.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 40 years ● 105km around USA Nashville
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funtimesmike
Wet and wild

Someone who’s not afraid of getting a lil wet or vice versa… yes you know what I mean. 💦⭐️🚿

I’ve been into it so much lately and would love to have some fun with someone who wants to do it! Can be first time or experienced!

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 145km around USA Glendale
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Hukon
No games

Im a traditional man in a lot of ways but I have deep and dark desires and a very creative imagination
If your married we can talk and perhaps have fun but if I can’t have you and make you mine then it’s not going anywhere
I want women that I can actually build a relationship with and come together
Doing what I want to do to you feels better if I own you as mine and means more when there is love involved.
I’m not waisting my creativity on women that I can’t have
You need to be feminine and submissive and want to be owned. You must be ready to start something real. It will take time to see how far it goes but I like to jump in feet first. I don’t like to fuck around and play games. I won’t submit to anyone ever so trying to get me to is just a waste of time. I’m not abusive but mistaking kindness for weakness is not a calculation that will work well for you. The less limits you have the more you like it. No limits is perfection

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 65 years USA Gulf Breeze
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passionatelicks
Just want to connect on a deeper level then just s

I want someone who can mean it when they say that they care about me. I want someone who will trust me and let me trust them in return. I want a friend a partner someone who knows how to handle me and handle my quirky nature and my stupid ticks. I want someone I don't have to hide who I am in front of them whos me fascinated by how I act and how I think and see the world. I'm on the spectrum so I have absolutely no filter as well as being able to read people very accurately. I just want someone who see me and want to be around me and doesn't shut me down every other minute or break me down just to build them self up. Narcissists no thanks. All I want is kindness. I'm such a gentle person so I can't understand why so many people enjoy hurting me and taking advantage of my trusting nature. Hopefully someone sees this and understands what I'm trying to say but if I'm honest I'm not very hopeful. Try and make me believe in people and in love again please 🥺

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Napa
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TommyTheDom
Dom looking for sub

Im a dom thats large down under if you get my meaning. Most get scared or intimidated.

Looking for a sub willing to learn and push their boundaries.

Don't be shy, message me.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Norwich
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seanamcclaryatgml
Alpha Dom Seeks

I am an Alpha Dom and have been in the lifestyle for over 30’years. I am strict, demanding, rough and aggressive Dom when in session and treat my sub like a queen when not in session.

I am only interested in a sub who is local to the Dallas/Ft Worth area. I need a submissive who knows exactly what it means to be a sub but who can also carry herself and be on my arm for high level business dinners and events. For me to consider outside of the Dallas/Ft Worth area you will have to be pretty special.

I will provide a lifestyle full of adventure, growth, exploration and ultimately trust and respect. Don’t dare to take me on and the life you have dreamed of?

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 76 years ● 180km around USA Fort Worth
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whatdo
Duality

Looking to jump start life after getting out of a hard LTR.
I’m a gentle dom, meaning I’ll be sweet and listen to what your needs are. Will make you feel like a princess out in public, but will treat you like a fleshlight behind closed doors. Once things start, I’m sir/daddy, and that’s how it’ll stay until we’re done. If you are obedient, then maybe we can cuddle or go out afterwards ;)
Open to most, but you must be up to giving oral and some cum play. Would prefer to host, and am ok meeting in person beforehand.

Looking for one time thing or consistent FWB

Kinky Date ● 19 to 45 years ● 325km around USA Baltimore
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Nene_singlemom
I am looking for a mean abusive dom

I want someone who wanna comment and make fun of my life my looks and degrade it telling what I deserve and making fun of me and mental *** and tell me how they would treat me

I don't do nudes or task though.

BDSM/Fetish Family ● Thailand Bangkok
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cecook1022
Looking for a kind and gentle switch

Looking to start simple, have a meet up out to see how we feel, and from there have cuddle and stay together dates till we both feel comfy enough together to try and do more! I mean I'll just be upfront, I'm looking for a relationship built on a strong connection, communication, loyalty, and the want to respect each other and work things out! Obviously I'm okay getting to be friends first and etc. With fetish and kinkyness as a part, not the whole, but a part of our lifestyle together and explore and experiment, pleasuring and allowing each other to feel important and safe!

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 330km around USA Fredericksburg
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