Hi, I am seeking something real and realistic. A relationship, preferably LTR, with a dominant woman where we can share all kink and vanilla interests. In person, face to face. Old school. I am a bit old fashioned, very monogamous, still believe in chivalry.
I am notlookingforsomeonetodospecificthingsto me. I am looking for someone who shares similar interests. I am not interested in changing myself
or who I am, and I am not interested in someone changing who they are, or compromising, for me. I am, however, open minded and am open to exploring and growing. But I won't compromise my hard limits and boundaries, just as I would never expect or ask you to compromise yours. if I haven't mentioned a specific interest of yours, feel free to ask. I am open and honest, feel free to ask me anything.
I am a sub. Not a slave. I am very comfortable with who I am. While I am happy to learn, adapt, and grow. I will not change who I am or what I am looking for.
As already mentioned, I am seeking realistic. I have interests outside of kink. I have dogs. I have a serious soft spot for rescues. If you share this interest, that would be fantastic. Living as a gimp in a cage until needed, is entirely unrealistic.
I am not desperate. I will not chase you if you are not interested, or we are not compatible. I'm looking for a mutually beneficial relationship where we both want the same things, reasonably. I will not try to something that was never going to work.
I am more than happy to answer questions, clarify, or even just exchange ideas. Feel free to contact me, and if it wasn't meant to be, then it wasn't meant to be. But at least we'll know.

I am a masculine and muscular sub male with a special interest in chastity. I don't have any interest in feminization or being a sissy. Not judging others, just being honest. If that is what you seek, I wouldn't be a good match for you. I seek someone who enjoys the control chastity gives as them much as I enjoy being controlled.
I am emotionally and physically strong. I am not submissive because I am weak, I choose submission because I have been drawn to dominant women since as long as I can remember. I am not a beta anything. I am not a sub because I am weak. I choose submission. I do not choose the submissive role with just anyone. I choose submission when I am with a dominant woman who inspires my submission. One who I am comfortable enough with to offer my submission to. Those who know me, but not this side of me would be shocked that I am submissive. So that leads to the next submissive cliche. I am not worthless, useless or have a weak character. Why anyone would want someone who is worthless is beyond me. I'm not a worthless sub, I seek to be a valued sub. My words may say this, but my actions will prove it.
I pursue a healthy lifestyle, am active, am at the gym at least 3 days a week. No
, no smoke at all, rarely drink. I make an effort to keep healthy, but am not fanatical at all.
I am intelligent, creative, witty, and have a great sense of humor.
I am very functional and very sexual, my interest in chastity is control. I do not use chastity to mask any physical issues. I enjoy pleasing my partner and I enjoy long term arousal. And a woman who truly enjoys that control is incredibly exciting.
And being someone who believes in actions over words, chastity is proof that I am 9nly interested in one woman when you have been given my keys. I always hated the infidelity questions if I worked late, of was at the gym longer that normal. Steel chastity, pa piercing, says devoted to one as strongly and confidently as possible.
I am experienced in short term denial as well as long term denial and am ready for whatever you decide or desire. I do really enjoy a sexually selfish dominant woman. The control is very addictive, especially if she enjoys it as much as I do. I feed off of the energy of the one I'm with. If you feel guilty, I feel guilty. If you are excited, I am excited. I want you to be comfortable with your control and enjoy it. So that you find as much fulfillment as I do.

I have several stainless steel devices and am secured with a pa piercing. You hold complete control when you hold the key. And as this is completely consensual, you are free to enjoy and explore your control. And enjoy it. My pleasure is derived from your pleasure. The more you enjoy things, the more I do.
I am a moderate masochist. I have many years of experience in bdsm, and I love bondage and (moderate, but eager to explore) ***. Again, it's the control. But chastity a way to feel bondage and control day and night. Without being a burden on you. Everyday, all day control. It is fun when I forget about it, but am reminded by the unforgiving steel. All day long, at different times, I am reminded of my keyholder. I love that snap back to reality that the control is very real.
With masochism, like chastity, I feed off the energy of the one I'm with. The more you enjoy it, the more I do, and the more my tolerance goes up.
I want to be well rounded. If you feel light and sensual, if you feel hard and heavy, light tease, intense tease, or are not in the mood. My wish is to be available for whatever you need. I seek to improve your life, not complicate it.

I am in Southern California, I have houses in Palm Springs and Big Bear Lake. I can escape the heat and the cold as needed. While I love splitting my time between the desert and the mountains, and would love even more to find someone to share all this with. I would be open to relocation to the right location. Hit me up if you want to know more.

BDSM Play Partner30 to 55 years ● 500km around USA Palm Springs

I am Lynn well educated articulate secretary type like to take her hair down at night thoughtful we'll seek your best interests will tell you when you're wrong back you when you're right I seek strong minds and hands to Lead Me I am a blonde I like all sorts of activities I'm a student of life your interests are my interests from hanging out doing nothing to hiking biking travel I'm interested in any and all things from Kitchen quickies to midnight marathons I like to be tied up and controlled in the midst of Passions like sexual asphxia mostly I like people who know what they want and are not afraid to go out and do it I don't suffer fools gladly or wises sadly. i also speak gibberish and nonsense! Hey another thing I'm actually looking for a human being male female male female female male male male female couple odd straight even even space aliens will do I have a personality type that fits into any culture I took some personality tests and guess what my type of personality is like two to four percent in this nation for hyper creativity and by age four my kind they say was planning to write books poetry in particular and that's what I have published are we hardwired or not anyway have you got a good heart a good soul good manners and a lot of action and adventure or not action and blase Ness and I'm your girl actually the doc say I'm an androgen which means I have a nearly perfect left and right brain hemispheric activity going on in my Noggin so I am my own male I am my own female and I have my own saying which is the best of both worlds Without The either so I'm kind of like solitary as an oyster is Charles Dickens would say in A Christmas Carol but I get lonely I crave intellectual stimuli and fun and brain dead isms and all sorts of stuff so you're interested in my interests I like to learn I'm an educator everybody has a love language right so my love language is to share information and fellowship and hanging out doing nothing making peanut butter cookies writing midnight dervish dribble and whatnot so let's sit on the floor Friday night spread a blanket watch an old black and white movie and snuggle and I like to be controlled I make a good Lieutenant too yes I am a bit ditzy I'm spaced out and blonde so lead the way if you got the gumption if you're a willy-nilly no good if you're an idiot I won't have nothing to do with you because those type of people are energy suckers there are vampires that suck *** they are energy vampires to suck all sorts of energy out of you things thoughts Goods power space whatever so beware come rescue me I'm Marooned in a hick town out in the middle of Western Nebraska population 900 and the people here are thick and dense I I grew up near Chicago so I'm used to culture or the Kung Fu coach for 40 years trying to be an English professor so I'm a very literal and creative if you hang out with me I'll tell you my name you can look at my books on Amazon they'll scare you I use them for litmus tests and tell people to go look at a book and they never write back see people are shallow they're afraid of differentiation they like generic stuff that is just plain Dumb-o. I also discovered that being shy was just a stupid waste of time for the shy one and they miss out on life so I speak my mind I'm the fastest dumbass in the West actually the slowest I'm kind of slow-witted but I'm like a bulldog once I understand I hang on anyway feel free to ask me anything you would like I do a lot of editing so your questions will not surprise me I will bet you they're pretty standard because our educational system trains people to be skulls of numb you take care folks watch your souls there are soul vampires out there that'll steal you away who you are and what you have

BDSM Play Partner35 to 80 years ● 10km around USA Morrill

That's the version, I reckon. To start with, I like the idea of a monogamous relationship with a fun sexy lady. Polyamory is well and swell for those who are into. Honestly, I am not judgmental stuffy sort of person. I mean, whatever blows yer skirt up is ok with me. But for me personally, I just feel like One Woman is enough, and that's what I like. Also, I like to be honest and have people return the favor.

So, here's some more Honest. I am not a vastly experienced Dom, and have no experience as a Sub.

I have had a few flings with Ladies who like to be tired up, spanked, humiliated. and fun stuff like that.

When people are single, it's a gamble as to how upfront others may be in how they present themselves. In my own limited experience with pretty much Novice Level BDSM, I really liked it a lot. And the 3 women I have been with that liked it were married, unfortunately..

Not one of them bothered to tell me that up front, and that was a drag. Anyway, I don't think any of them were lying about being married. It's just that none of them told me ahead of the game. More like phone call from hubby to say he was on his way home from work early. weird stuff. enough of that.

But after all that, including the melodrama, I was hooked on BDSM

So, that's what I want now. Infact, I NEED a Lady who is into that kind of lifestyle, and not married. Not married, and no other boyfriends here and there. I'm not taking any kind of moralistic stance. Not at all. I just don't like it! So, I am 66 years old, I have a few photos with my profile. I'm a pro Guitat player and Singer, and all in all, in general, a pretty easy going sort of guy.

I hope this personal add works. i don't like being single, and one night stands or even a fling that lasts a couple weeks don't sound like much fun either. Not anymore. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Until we meet again, or for the first time even, take care and be well!

William

BDSM Play Partner32 to 55 years ● 50km around USA Phoenix

Due to confusion and complaints, I've had to rewrite my profile more times than I care to admit. I'll probably have to rewrite it again soon.
If you're offended by something in it, just move on. I'm not going to apologise or justify myself all the time.

A little about me:

Vanilla:
I love reading (books, blogs, newspapers, cereal boxes), writing, binge watching way too many TV shows and movies, sleeping, eating pizza and gaming (when I get the time). I also love beer and red wine, but who doesn't?

BDSM:
Predominantly a Dom (pun intended), I'm looking for a good and obedient sub or slave. If that's not you, that's fine. Respect my choices and I'll respect yours.
I love to play and be naughty, with some people it comes easier than others.
I'm happy to send the first message, try to get the conversation going, but if all you can do is give me short replies and show you can't be bothered then I'll just block you. Sorry not sorry. We are here to have fun, play and go on a kink journey. Why make it difficult.
If I contact you it's because I liked something about you. I'm not going to chat with you for no reason.
Don't ask me who else I'm talking with, it's none of your business and I believe in boundaries and respecting each other.
Just so you know, I CAN be sadistic, but that doesn't mean I will be with you. I might want to be your Daddy Dom. Or something else.

If you're into furries, age regression or diapers that's fine. I'm not, and that's fine as well. If I still chat with you it's because I liked something else.

If we all act responsibly we can have loads of fun together.
If you're a * , I will insult you, your family and loved ones, belittle you and then block you. But you would have asked for it

And for all those nice
ps out there: Hi, nice to meet you. I look forward to getting to know you x

NSAUK Bristol

📿❤️IT IS IN MY *** TO CREATE ANYTHING I WANT TO📿💘⭐This is me. I don't conform to any "stereotype beauty".⭐⭐⭐ I AM SUBMISSIVE ONLY AND INVOLVE MYSELF WITH 100% DOM TITLES ONLY⭐⭐⭐
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Please do not request to do photoshoots of me, as well as requesting to be in a photoshoot with /alongside me. I am an Individual Artist only unless I have shown you my interest in a Collaboration shoot.
🎥 My Videography Production 🎥VIsual Videography 🎥For me, this has developed into an extension of my Photography, " a "movement version" of my Photography.
Erotic inspired videos are here to view of myself.This is another erotic version of my expression. I try to add a sexy "erotic twist" to them.... an innuendo .
Due to the erotic "theme content " of my video work, 9/10 these are a members 18 age plus check.
✴️🖤✴️MY VIDEOS in my opinion have more W✴️W impact▶️🎥▶️
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Please understand that.......
I am on here for social connections, friends and inspiration for my creativeness and individuality, which influences me to be the person that I am.
💬💬I am sorry I can't CHAT to Everyone who contacts me on here , it's not possible.
Thanks for your Understanding
Can't respond to anyone unless it's English format , if we are 'likeminded' you will get a response to your message
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BDSM/Fetish Family30 to 65 years UK London

working on updating this
Looking for an obedient female slave to train into hopefully a 24/7 slutty free-use fuck toy, one who’d give me full control over her body and even lifestyle if willing. At the same time, also looking for a connection, a magical one that exists only between a Master and his slave. I'm attracted to passion, desire and drive, and usually I'm drawn to women my age or older than me, and the look on their faces as they find themselves at my mercy, the way they blush, moan so desperately. I know there’s a lot of pride in being older than someone, and having that flipped, kneeling naked, bound, filled with toys ravaging your body, whimpering and moaning at my mercy - it's humiliating, degrading, objectifying (in a good way), it feels taboo yet exciting... and I like having that effect on someone. That you’d be a toy, an owned object, a plaything of someone younger - and when you realize that it cements you as one.

How would you feel if you were locked in a metal chastity belt or tied spreadeagled, naked exposed, your perky tits facing the ceiling, with remote controlled vibrators shoved deep in your dripping wet pussy and sexy ass, so I could control them whenever I wanted, wherever I wanted, however I wanted. So I could deny you an orgasm, or you to cum again and again … How would you like it if I rubbed your nipples roughly, pinching them, pulling on them, rolling them in my fingertips, then slowly moved my hand down to between your spread legs, over your pussy mound, sliding two fingers along your moistening slit, tracing them up and down between your pussy lips sensually. Feel your pussy, your fingers resting at the entrance to your leaking wet hole, how does it feel? Does it feel moist, dripping? If it is, I bet you feel like a pathetic, slutty whore right now, but at the same time -- you belong. Slide a finger in, slowly, in and out. Tell me how you feel…

How would you like to be my slave, owned fully, tied up, made to be naked while alone at home, trained into a
obedient fuck-toy whore. Played with, aroused… I’d train you to be a proper slave, to beg for permission to cum, to be aroused and horny wanting me to play with you. I’d develop rules for you to follow, you’d be denied permission to wear panties, I’d keep you naked often, filled with toys as often as possible. In person, you’d be fully free use, I’d love it if you let me take the lead and explore your body however I’d liked. And if you’re brave and interested, and you chose willingly, freely to give yourself fully, giving full control over not just your sexual life, but all aspects of your life, total power exchange in a way that I’ve found truly magical… in a way that’s freeing, that weight and stress of decisions being lifted off your shoulders, leaning into me… and at my mercy, yet safe, an ultimate form of submission and trust, that would mean the world to me. Knowing you do so freely, giving yourself fully, not because you feel d or pressured, or that you need that to heal from past trauma, or that you need to do so to be mine, but because it’s truly what you want, who you are deep inside, who you always were, that hidden desire that is yet to be unlocked, I’ll treasure that, and I’d want to guide you, in a way that’s structured, meaningful and truly amazing. I want to make you always feel like you belong, that you’re owned fully and completely - that you’re not alone or lost anymore. Being and naked, so that even when you’re wearing clothes, you still feel fully undressed, because you know that you’re known and understood. Your secrets, your s, your past. And despite that - you feel comfortable, safe. And if a spark blossoms within that dynamic, maybe we’d find love that’s passionate and beautiful, in a way that your submission brings you both pride and happiness- that you smile, to me, making someone smile and blush is intoxicating.

I'm fine with starting off slow if you’re a beginner, and showing you the ropes (though I really like cuffs!). I wouldn’t want to overwhelm you, I’d want to find your limits and push at them if you’d like that, help you overcome them.

I also have a fantasy of owning two slaves together and not separate, where it’s like a permanent threesome, and passionate, and they like each other as much or even more than they like and want me, where they both belong to me and only me, and I’m theirs, and only theirs. It’s not something I need to be happy, it’s a fantasy and I’m monogamous at heart, but if you did want it, it would excite me and mean the world to me. If I liked you, then you would be all that I need, you’d be enough for me. But I wouldn’t want anyone to feel like a third, so if this is something you wanted, I’d want to train you at the same time as someone else, someone you were attracted to, liked. So if there’s someone you’re interested in being trained alongside, someone you are interested in, approach me together. I haven’t been looking for people, I’ve been going through a lot and my grad applications are due December 15th, so I haven’t been messaging people first, but when people message me and are interested in me, or if I am talking to someone and getting to know them and it’s still in that early stage, I can tell you who they are if you’re interested in this, and you can reach out to them. That way I’d start training you at the same time when I am ready, so it would be magical and safe for both of you, not hierarchical.

Tell me what you are into, your deepest fantasies, your hidden desires, I’m into a lot of things and I’d work with you to dominate you in the way that is personalized to you, tell me what you desire, as well as any limits you have.

I’m currently in the Boston, MA area, and hoping to find connections near there! I am still happy with dominating online those who are farther away, especially as I prefer dominating and getting to know each other online at first in general, though I’d eventually prefer something in person if possible eventually! Also open to this eventually leading to a live-in slave situation if you want that (and we really like each other ofc).

Also, if you are interested in latex, chastity belts (female), sex toys, or being tied up and naked like the slut you are, definitely message me. If you do end up wanting to message me, read my profile fully first, it’s long, I know, I’m working on shortening it, but it’s me. I’m also hoping to develop sex toys so if you’re interested in testing that out with me that’d be amazing! I have a few ideas 🤭

BDSM Play Partner22 to 50 years USA Boston

Hi I’ve logged back in after many months. Wasn’t here for very long before so am still new and a little cautious, but still very curious..

Looking to explore my little side. It’s something I’ve been curious about but not something I’ve ever talked about or pursued. I’m very independent in my day to day life and struggle to ask for help but I have a need to relinquish this and be taken care of, in and out of the bedroom without needing to ask (or help me learn to be better as asking) and to be a naughty and sweet submissive in the bedroom.

In my past I have dated younger men but behind closed doors (in my mind and imagination) I get the most aroused and wet when I think about an intelligent, calm, loving, in control daddy giving me love, attention. Making me feel desired and safe and touching my mind and body.

Psychologically, It’s all about feeling safe and desired and adored. I have some body insecurities so to have my daddy desire me and to feel cherished and erotically wanted by him, would make me feel such a special girl for my daddy and would iron out the anxieties or insecurities I have.

In return, when I feel that safety, nurture and attention is genuinely given to me, I will want to give my love and attention and my all to my daddy. If I trust my daddy, I will want to make him so very happy. I am naturally very attentive and I like to please and tease.. I love seeing daddy lose control when I give him my desire (thats the switch in me).

Please note:
Im all about nuance and sensuality and mental play that naturally builds to something more urgent and dirty. I don’t do 0-100, or mimicking hard kinks like you’re a pair of actors reenacting what you learn as being sexy from watching porn. I doubt anyone under 35 will know what this means. I want to FEEL REAL. Real sexy. Real anticipatory. Real naughty. Real dirty. Real wet. With a person that just understands
that sensuality and silence is erotic.
It’s not about headline grabbing black & white kink. (I understand why people chase the fun sensationalist highs of whips, chains, hardcore boundary pushing sex, but I personally find labels the opposite of nuanced and sexy!) Only the most emotionally intelligent men will understand the subtlety in the psychological difference and they’re the ones I would love to hear from. Thank you for reading x

Ps. I really crave a sensual erotic kiss at the moment before anything else!

BDSM/Fetish Family34 to 75 years ● 50km around UK Leeds