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Hi! I have a very high sex drive and adore women. I love foreplay and pleasuring women. I am well endowed and have been complimented a lot on my sexual abilities.
I have had several long term partners in the past and prefer that to quick hookups. I am not looking for something deep and meaningful at the moment just someone to have long term fun with. But who knows where that will lead.
I like exploring someone sexually and find it mentally fulfilling as the more you know someone the more I can excite them and turn them on easier. I think sex and orgasms are more mental than physical so until you are in someones head you cannot get that fulfilment.
Once I know someone I love using that knowledge to orgasm them over and over. I get a kick out of finding out those buttons and spots that I can play with to excite someone. Its a lot more pleasurable for me to orgasm with someone who is already very excited. Feeling a tight wet pussy orgasming on my cock is such a turn on.
If you both haven't got wobbly legs by the time you have finished then something has gone wrong.
Dont get me wrong it doesn't have to be full on every time, the odd quicky or grope on the sofa is good, but also I like to make sure I press ALL the buttons quite frequently.
I do have quite a high sex drive and I hope I can can find someone to match. I think this has not helped in past relationships where I have more needs than my partner. I am not upset about having to sort myself out occasionally but some women feel like this is not acceptable. I love foreplay and especially giving erotic massages. I have very warm and healing hands and love rubbing soft warm naked skin.
I dont have many donts. I am very keen to try new things and love mixing up positions, but I always do come back to my favourite as doggy. I get so much pleasure from that. I get so much depth and control.
Anyway enough about me waffling on. I would love to hear from you. I am very open honest and easy going. Please drop me a line and I will reply. xx
PS. I have a goatee. Reading a few profiles I guess its a marmite thing. If it did come to it I can shave it off! I would sooner have a sex partner than a goatee!
For reference. I have my own teeth, my own hair, I own a car and house, I shower at least once a day and like to dress and smell nice. I have a 7 inch cock that I find the perfect size to reach all those important places.

NO MORE MEETS AT THIS CURRENT TIME
I have selected my current crop of subs and once I am done with them, I’ll move on to the next set of victims!

UNFORTUNATELY I FEEL I HAVE TO THIS, AS IT SEEMS PEOPLE EITHER DON’T READ MY PROFILE OR CHOOSE TO IGNORE IT! SO FROM NOW ON DON’T CONTACT ME IF YOU’RE UNDER 45, LIVE A HUNDRED MILES AWAY OR MORE AND IF YOU THINK YOU CAN JUST TELL ME WHAT I WANT!

Just a side note to the big babies (not in a fetish way) on here! I have been ignored by a few guys on here, I can only assume this is because I didn’t respond to them in a timely manner? GROW UP, I get a lot of messages and sometimes Iit takes me a while to reply. Those that have acted like *** are actually the older men on here. Put your dummy back in!

OK, so starting from fresh. Going to delete all my messages, so message me by all means but let’s act like we’ve never had contact before. Why? It’s part of my game, also shows me who wants to play? Play what I hear you ask? Well, quite simply I want to punish you, tease you! There’s no sex, no oral, in fact the less contact the better, I do CFNM play, voyeurism, cock slapping, ball squeezing, that sort of thing, and if yiur down for filming it, even better. Married men and over 50’s get preference. In fact, don’t bother messaging if:
You’re under 40
Not in a realistic distance, especially if tou not even in England!
You want sex or BJ
You want cybersex or dirty talk
And please please please don’t ask me how I’m finding it on her, I have been on here for years! Don’t ask me what I’m looking for either!

I'm someone who would like to experience more, Please don't be immediately mean or rude, be respectful and don't be expecting or asking for *** of any kind from me. Would love to meet more people as long as they're interesting enough and are actually accepting and open with others. Hmu to know more.

Hey everyone I’m a 26 year old guy from upstate New York looking to with a girl in the bathroom. I want you to help me meaning you’d pull my pants down and hold it while I and I’ll pull your pants down and wipe you after you . I can host or I’m willing to travel up to 45 minutes. Message me if you’re interested.

Hi, my name is Eric Wolfsbane. I'm a 55 year old SWM 5'-6" with a large body. I have green eyes and brown hair. I currently live in NYC. I've been involved in the BDSM scene since 1990.


I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious preferably long term relationship with a sane woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a sane woman enjoys being a disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I'm interested in being someone's significant other not their slave. I am not a slave. I am not a servant. I am not particularly submissive, people in this confuse obsequiousness and sycophancy with submissiveness anyway. I just enjoy being with a dominant woman who enjoys being the disciplinarian in domestic discipline relationship and administers it like she means it, not like it's a game.


First off, I have a medical condition, fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue syndrome, neuropathy and arthritis, which limits how I can play and what I can do. I have difficulty playing standing up and I have a lowered tolerance. I don't mind some and deserve to be punished when I'm bad, but I'm not a stoic either. I need a dominant who understands that it does hurt a lot and that I'll need bondage and a gag in order to take much of a beating. I believe that binding and gagging is an important part of the ritual of domestic discipline.


Personally, I prefer dominants who have the imagination to come up more interesting things to do than just beating for no reason. While I need a strict woman who is not timid about meting out deserved punishment it's when it's called for it's not for play. Beatings are for punishment not play.


For play I'm into cbt, dildo play, hot wax. sexual harassment, sharp fingernails, electro , being bound, gagged and blindfolded and tied down. I also enjoy being smacked[as in not on the head], as opposed to slapped, around. When I'm comfortable with a woman and the relationship I'm willing to engage in oral servitude. I'm open minded and are willing to try new things. I'm not into , cross dressing or verbal ***, [teasing is ok] Nor am I into cuckoldry. If you're not honorable enough to be faithful then you're not someone who I'd consider trustworthy enough to be a dominant to me.


I'm seeking a single dominant woman who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian and believes that a man never outgrows the need for corporal punishment and that it's the role of a significant other to administer it when needed.


She will determine the seriousness of any transgressions I may commit and will employ traditional modes of discipline such as paddles, hairbrushes, straps, canes, birches or simply smacking me around as she deems appropriate for correction. Single tails are okay as long as they're used skillfully and intelligently. When I'm not being punished I expect her to be a warm, affectionate sexually aggressive down to earth lady with a sense of humor who's my best friend, lover and life partner. She should be an educated, intelligent, soft spoken, genteel lady whom I can respect and who understands that through that respect she earns her right to judge my behavior and apply discipline.


I prefer dominant women who are aggressive, both sexually and dominantly. I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. So many dominants only seem to see submissive men as pieces of meat that they can beat on. I looking for a woman who wants to do B&D 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment, please contact me.

Hi, my name is Eric Wolfsbane. I'm a 53 year old SWM 5'-6" with a large body. I have green eyes and brown hair. I currently live in NYC. I've been involved in the BDSM scene since 1990.

I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious preferably long term relationship with a sane woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a sane woman enjoys being a disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I'm interested in being someone's significant other not their slave. I am not a slave. I am not a servant. I am not particularly submissive, people in this confuse obsequiousness and sycophancy with submissiveness anyway. I just enjoy being with a dominant woman who enjoys being the disciplinarian in domestic discipline relationship and administers it like she means it, not like it's a game.

First off, I have a medical condition, fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue syndrome, neuropathy and arthritis, which limits how I can play and what I can do. I have difficulty playing standing up and I have a lowered tolerance. I don't mind some and deserve to be punished when I'm bad, but I'm not a stoic either. I need a dominant who understands that it does hurt a lot and that I'll need bondage and a gag in order to take much of a beating. I believe that binding and gagging is an important part of the ritual of domestic discipline.

Personally, I prefer dominants who have the imagination to come up more interesting things to do than just beating for no reason. While I need a strict woman who is not timid about meting out deserved punishment it's when it's called for it's not for play. Beatings are for punishment not play.

For play I'm into cbt, dildo play, hot wax. sexual harassment, sharp fingernails, electro , being bound, gagged and blindfolded and tied down. I also enjoy being smacked[as in not on the head], as opposed to slapped, around. When I'm comfortable with a woman and the relationship I'm willing to engage in oral servitude. I'm open minded and are willing to try new things. I'm not into , cross dressing or verbal ***, [teasing is ok] Nor am I into cuckoldry. If you're not honorable enough to be faithful then you're not someone who I'd consider trustworthy enough to be a dominant to me.

I'm seeking a single dominant woman who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian and believes that a man never outgrows the need for corporal punishment and that it's the role of a significant other to administer it when needed.

She will determine the seriousness of any transgressions I may commit and will employ traditional modes of discipline such as paddles, hairbrushes, straps, canes, birches or simply smacking me around as she deems appropriate for correction. Single tails are okay as long as they're used skillfully and intelligently. When I'm not being punished I expect her to be a warm, affectionate sexually aggressive down to earth lady with a sense of humor who's my best friend, lover and life partner. She should be an educated, intelligent, soft spoken, genteel lady whom I can respect and who understands that through that respect she earns her right to judge my behavior and apply discipline.

I prefer dominant women who are aggressive, both sexually and dominantly. I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. So many dominants only seem to see submissive men as pieces of meat that they can beat on. I looking for a woman who wants to do B&D 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment, please contact me.

Would love to meet someone that is into smells like me. I have a slight mysophilia and that’s why I like all kinds of smell like feet, armpits and ***. I search for someone who likes to participate in those games and even loves to combine it with others. Sexually I am very open but that doesn’t mean I have not any No Go’s

Looking for someone who is sexually aggressive in the San Antonio Texas area someone that won't take no who thinks struggling means they are doing something good and it's about them so they do it the way they want how bring who ever they want to help or join and how ever long they want

this isn't about sex so gender race religion body type doesn't matter must be of legal age

Taking Video or picture is acceptable and can be uploaded where you want but must give a copy for myself if interested please send me a message

The lockdown has taught me I love being locked down XD

Princess Pony Potty Pants
Rubber Baby Huggie Humper
Dumb Dickloving Diaper Diddler

I am looking for a very controlling loving and smothering owner who would like to make me their *** toy. This does not mean not working etc.. in fact I am a programmer who works remote and would do so to afford transformations, toys, and fantasy creations.

I am looking for that someone who would welcome me into their home, take all my choices and control and smother me in doting and humility.

I have a fetish for very heavy consensual/ noncon play and would be the perfect babydoll bimbo for a Mommy or Daddy and would make your fantasies reality through dedication.

I am a very experienced slave with many years of real-time service.
I want to help build and empire and make my owner stronger together. My soul yearns for connection.

Please reach out and soothe the hungry fire raging in this little ones soul.

Mild mannered but serious dom looking for subs, I also enjoy being dominated by the right lady or group of ladies. Because I’m a switch that doesn’t mean I neglect one dynamic for the other, I find knowing one makes me better at the other both ways round. I require a little sub i can nurture and dominate and generally make whole like a good dom should. If you are “the one” We will become a couple, where you have all the respect and love you deserve, second to no one. I will support you in your hobbies and passions, in work and life.
I will be the lover and partner you haven’t found yet 😈 My specific kinks and fetishes are available to those who show they’re serious by asking. Thanks for reading hopefully we can chat soon.
Kik hirdieross.

I love shower sex i mean there is something so sexy about the hot wet water the hugging and the wet kisses

New Edit - June 23

First of all if you are into of any kind, I am not interested.

If you have an OnlyFans account or likewise, then I am not interested.

I am not interested in one night stands, never had one, never will. I want something meaningful.

Now we have got that out of the way.....

Personal:
48 year old
Larger build - Dad bod, but not a dad !!
Broad shoulders
Big arms
Big shoulders
Hairy chest
Approx five foot ten
Single
No
Professional career
Car
Flat share so do not accommodate.
Sarcastic
Weird sense of humour
I do not put face pics on here, I will however skype to prove I am totally genuine
Brutally honest

Hobbies:
Fishing
Computing
Photography - Aviation, military aviation, wildlife and landscape
History, particularly military history
Badminton
Squash

TV Shows
Red Dwarf
Taskmaster
QI
Ray Mears
Would I lie to you
Any fishing programme....
Many more

Kik
Masterforslave1

Skype
live:masterforslave1

What am I looking for?
Well a meaningful dom/sub relationship.
Good communication
Connection
Honesty
Loyalty


Likes - (not limited to...) But feel free to ask
Teasing, mentally and physically
Caning
Nipple
Clit
Spanking
Kissing
Restraints
Orgasm denial
***d orgasm
Aftercare......

Dislikes

Needles
*** play

Geeky older guy with kinky tastes - loves submissive women who enjoy being spanked as a prelude to sex.

Just looking at present so will come back to this later and complete it

in the meantime feel free to ask...

Just wanna see who's available for fun if you know what I mean.

I've been around long enough to know she tastes like sweet ambrosia.
I know what I want. Now I'm here for those that find me interesting.
If you are kindhearted, free-spirited, single, friendly female. By all means, pull up a chair help yourself to my hospitality. Send a message towards endless possibilities of spontaneous combustion we will share between us in abundance until the cows come home.
That will be the time to discover the perfect passion for love.
An experience you will not soon forget. Amen sweet love is for lovers

PLEASE ONLY MESSAGE ME IF

• YOU HAVE READ AND COMPREHENDED MY ENTIRE PROFILE
• YOU LIVE LESS THAN AN HOUR FROM THE LANCASTERMANHEIM AREA
• YOU ARE BETWEEN THE AGES OF 32 AND 52
• YOU ARE NOT ATTACHED IN ANY OTHER WAY
• NO OR HAVE FLOWN THE COUP

• YOU HAVE A DRIVERS LICENSE, CAR, MEANS OF INCOME, PLACE TO RESIDE
  (I am merely looking for someone with, at the very least, the same amount of adult responsibility that I have. I cannot believe that I have to request this, but the amount of people, my age and older that have none of those is astounding.)
  
  My tag line is pretty much how I wish to live my life, and is also a quote from one of my favorite movies.
  
  I have been involved within this lifestyle for all of my adult life about 20 years of experiences and as always, the journey has led me down many paths, and it is always ever changing.
  
  Im smart enough to know what I want and need, and open minded enough to know that I still have much to learn.
  
  I have become jaded with the lifestyle over my years of involvement, and perhaps I do have a bit of a chip on my shoulder.
  
  While I may identify as submissive on the lifestyle spectrum, it does not mean that I am this way with random internet strangers. Take the time to talk to me, show interest in wanting to know me, and the rest will follow.
  
  I am only seeking long term situations. I would, for the right match, make of them the axis that my world spins upon.
  
  I have been on the submissive end of the spectrum for the majority of my involvement in the lifestyle. Some of my happiest times were when I was involved in a 247live insubmissivegirlfriendwife.
  
  I have also experimented, and found a fondness, for the top end of the spectrum for situational play. This is usually just for play or fun. For me, it can almost be described as being a service top.
  
  For me, the lifestyle is so much more than the physical. For me the mental and connection is more important than the physical.
  
  I am NOT motivated or focused on sex and physical play. If you are only here to get your rocks off, please, just pass me by.
  
  On the physicalkink side of things, the activities I enjoy, in time with someone, range from flogging, cell popping, sensation play, orgasm , deep thuddy play, and especially on the top side - tease and denial.
  
  For non-kink interests...
  I am a taphophile at heart and am genuinely intrigued by, obsessed with, addicted to, have a strong appreciation and respect for etc. all things regarding taphophilia, death, dead things, mourning, grieving, cemeteries, etc. These interests CAN and DO filter over into my kink life in varying degrees. Always happy to talk more in private about them.
  
  I do have hobbies (addictions), inlcuding WoW (TaphNoir1200), horror movies, industrial and metal music, bellydancing (to industrial and metal music), reading, coloring, enjoying nature, crocheting, playing various boardcard games and am a VERY casual Magic The Gathering player.
  
  I have a strange sense of humor, use sarcasm as my second language and am a shining example of an introvert.
  
  Im also a hobbyist artist, mainly ting various whimsical things on stone, with a focus on dragon eyes.
  
  I am lightly tattooed, and have small gauges in both of my ears as well as a daith piercing.
  
  Yes, I am pale, chubby, freckled, crazy fuzzy chemo-hair regrowth, I have scars, I have health ailments, I have physical limitations for bondage, and am nowhere near the most gorgeous thing youll see. In saying these things I wish to get the physically focused, all about the look people out of the way.
  
  I also have a few health ailments including Diabetes, Intracranial Hypertension, and am currently in remission from Ovarian Cancer as of 3419.
  
  I am looking for a legit connection with someone for something long term and lasting.
  
  I have NO interest in hookups, merely play partners, etc.
  
  I look forward to any sincere messages.

I'm an intelligent, creative, experienced masochist, submissive, brat, who enjoys all things D/s related, interesting conversation and many other deviant and non-deviant activities. Things I'm interested at the moment include: body modification, scenarios, CNC, mental, physical and emotional sadism, group play d * and gang bangs, This is by no means an exhaustive list, but just gives an idea of what's been itneresting me lately.

I'm looking for someone preferably around 30 - 50 years old, but I will consider anyone I find interesting and who is interested in developing something long term and can stimulate and challenge me. Domination happens in the mind, not the body and each D/s dynamic is unique. This understanding and approach to Ds is crucial for me. With the right dynamic almost anything is possible, with the wrong one, almost nothing is.

My preferences are towards the more extreme aspects of Ds and I'm hoping to find someone who is able to take me there. Having a vivid imagination myself, creativity with the D/s relationship is important to me. I have experience but I believe that imagination is much more important. Why talk about what you have experienced already when you could talk about what might happen? So much more interesting.

I am a straight male with a love and respect of submissive females, which means I am not a bull/Master, rather a kink lover with a sadistic side.
My Damsel In Distress fantasy needs a willing submissive to be put into a devious predicament while dressed according to my requirements, and will include cosplay and uniforms, leading to gradual undressing, oral and masturbation using sex toys and photography.
I prefer slim to medium build up to size 14 for any meaningful friendships, but am very happy to play with larger ladies if you have a specific kink you’d enjoy playing out.

Hello everyone! I have several fetishes.
I'm also a member of several fet sites.
But I'm here spacificly for ass worship.
I love big booty's and nothing can stop it! Lol.... Before I go deep in this. (no ***, no face farting!) I can't stress this enough! Lol...

I wanna try face sitting so bad it hurts!
Actually! You can even send me pictures. If your wondering if you're qualified. I've never been a big fan of regular sex! But I love oral! I have no problem with rimming, face sitting, kissing ass ect.... I also think it be hot to be humiliated this way! I'd love for you and your girlfriends to take turns smashing my face in! Lol... While your all standing around laughing. Cracking jokes, etc... Lol... I'd also like it rough!
If your a mean girl, or hate men. And doing a guy like this is your dream come true. (were already friends) lol...

So when I say special, I don't mean "The One" or anything like that (wouldn't say no though). I mean someone to connect with. I crave feeling emotionally and mentally submissive, not just physically. I need to feel like they dominate my mind, not to the extent they control me (though again, wouldn't say no) but that I'd happily drop to my knees if it'd make you smile.

I'm in Central Arkansas. I love to perform Cunnilingus. I'm a really sweet guy.
I like mean girls who would enjoy humiliating me. I like merciless tease and denial. Id like to be in the next room listening to her being thoroughly satisfied. Afterwards, I'd eagerly and thoroughly service her and lick up the creampie. I'm open to anything really. Pm me please.

Anything below this line is coded to be invisible to bots

IN OTHER WORDS IF YOU DONT READ MY INFO AND THEN ASK THE QUESTIONS THAT ARE ALREADY ANSWERED I HAVE NO INTEREST IN TALKING TO YOU

Hey everyone, i am Genderfluid Bondage Submissive/Pup looking for owner(s) and handler(s), my experience so far has not been so stable in the mono relations so i wouldnt mind trying Poly
I dont know what else to really to write being that i suck with this dating stuff

Mainly i am here to get to know people and find people that i can possibly get into a serious relationship with as their mate and pet maybe slave.

One idea i really like is always on a leash and silent and even with my pup hood on with a dog muzzle sorta thing and i have a fantasy to maybe even go as far as getting an ear tattoo or ear tag for that perfect someone or couple to rub in the mornings to remind me i belong to them. (And i am actually afraid of needles or generally anything that penetrates skin) i also fantasize about a nearly 24/7 in depth role as a pup (learn to track hunt do show and agility)... but i do understand that it is not 100% possible as life is a thing.

I am really weird in alot of ways, and many have said they like that about me. willing to try new things and some crazy things. but i am really touchy on trust and honesty, meaning they are EXTREMELY important to me and it does sometime take a while for me to get comfortable with anyone. i try not to hide things. but i also have a tendancy to say exactly whats on my mind with no filter or hesitation. so meeting as friends and doing vanilla people stuff (lol) is a good start like going for a drive exploring, coffee, helping you do things like work or beating that over powered boss on your video game

I do live in Aldergrove quite a ways from main roads or malls and do not go out much currently (at least until i can pass my damn roadtest) but i can host.



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99% Bondage receiver
87% Pet
85% Submissive
68% Primal (Prey)
65% Experimentalist
65% Masochist
62% Slave
57% Non-monogamist
57% Exhibitionist
56% receiver
53% Brat
53% girl/boy
39% Vanilla
31% Switch
24% Voyeur
24% Ageplayer
18% Sadist
17% Dominant
17% Bondage giver
13% Primal (Hunter)
12% Owner
11% Brat tamer
9% Master/Mistress
6% giver
6% All-Rounder
5% Daddy/Mommy

Hello I'm very passive/tactile takes a bit of pushing to get me going, know what i mean? .Do like crossdressing, sexy outfits and very convincing so I'm told. Currently going through a PVC/rubber phase, so nice and tight and smooth! Prefer shaven and clean and tidy no body hair if poss.)So you got this far...…..