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kingdingaling199069
Dominant, Not Delicate – Apply Within 😈

Looking for someone who knows the difference between “Daddy” and just a guy with a beard and opinions.

I’m a very dominant man who doesn’t shy away from taking control—in the bedroom, the playlist, or the group text. I don’t do “maybe.” I do yes, no, and on your knees.

Kinks? Oh, I got ‘em. Rope? Yep. Choking? Love it (within safe, sane, consensual limits, of course—I’m not a monster). You into power play, obedience, brat-taming, and being told exactly what to do? Good. You’ll thrive under pressure—my pressure.

I’ve got a commanding voice, calloused hands, and no problem grabbing the reins (or a handful of hair). Aftercare? You better like snacks, praise, and strong arms that don’t let go easy.

Must love music, mischief, and making bad decisions I fully orchestrate.

Apply now. Safe words welcome. Submissions required

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 50 years ● 175km around USA Blackwater
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dom-master1234
Master Looking for a Slave

I am a dominant master. I am looking for a slave who wants to submit to me. I am very controlling. I love inflicting ***.

I last very long in bed. (45 mins).

If you submit to me, I will pleasure you until your head explodes. (Or until I explode on your face).

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 40 years ● 15km around Philippines East EDSA
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djams1881
I am all yours

A fun friend and playmate that likes to be in control

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 145km around USA Manassas
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ManSub34
Looking for Training

I am new to BDSM and being a sub.
I am 20 years old, muscular physique and have always wanted to be trained as a sub and learn my place in this world at your feet.
I would love to give you complete control both in the bedroom and out and give you whatever you want no matter where we are whether in a relationship or as a one-time thing

BDSM Play Partner ● 25km around UK Birmingham
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Kmack
Take over

Looking to meet up and you can either take control and do as you please or I take you over my knee and spank you till your ass is red then edge you out of existence while you plea and beg.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Greenville
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Sirduck01
Looking for a sub

I’m looking for a play partner. Are you in need of a spanking? Looking to be controlled? Or do you just want to hang out, cuddle, watch a horror movie? I’m in need of some kinky friends, and hopefully find an additional play partner. I am married, but we are ENM/open and date separately!

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Saint Paul
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Jmaybe2
Just looking for a bratty FWB

Looking for a bratty sub who knows how to push buttons just enough to earn the consequences. This isn’t about control for the sake of it — it’s about the tension, the teasing, and the satisfaction of watching a smart mouth slowly learn its place.

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA San Antonio
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Itishw16
Dommy mommy

I need a dommy mommy that is looking for a sub to control and punish and peg.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 55km around USA Spring Lake
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seekingAnOwner
Obedient sub seeks Mistress

I crave structure, take over the control, put me in my place, own me.
If you are interested DM me, I'm happy to provide pictures.

I'm into: chastity, denial, spanking, ***, 24/7 dynamic or just sessions.
I'm also open and interested in other approaches.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 46 years ● 500km around Hungary Budapest
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kalamazoo827263
“Submissive Soul. Dominant Tastes. Let’s Rewrite

I'm not just looking for someone to tie me up—I’m looking for someone who can hold space while I fall apart and rebuild in their arms. Someone unafraid of depth, intensity, and the shadows we carry. You’re equal parts dominant and divine, grounded and intuitive. You crave connection that burns through surface layers and touches soul.

You understand power exchange isn’t just play—it’s prayer when done right. You know what it means to nurture a little side without controlling it, to push limits without betraying trust. You’re sensual, creative, emotionally intelligent, and just a little wicked. You value honesty over comfort, presence over performance.

You might be:

A rigger who finds poetry in rope and stillness in surrender.

A caregiver-Dom who can hold softness in one hand and control in the other.

A lover of contrast—rough and gentle, primal and sacred.


Above all, you’re not looking to conquer me—you want to witness me, unwrap me, worship me, challenge me, and meet me in places words can’t touch

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Kalamazoo
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Thepromisedone
Looking for my forever girl

Hi. I'm looking for a mate who is genuine, kind, patient, and is naturally submissive. Somebody who's willing to give up control and is willing to be trained, molded, and is seeking guidance. I live a life of structure, discipline, order and respect. Also, I want a mate who shares my interest inside and outside the bedroom.

Kinky Date ● 25 to 35 years ● 25km around USA Natchez
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brisbane10624
Looking for Real Chemistry & Filthy Fun Northside

Looking to meet confident, open-minded women or couples who love exploring kink with someone who knows how to listen, tease, and play with purpose.

I’m into D/s, voyeurism, slow-building tension, filthy talk, praise, and “rules” that are made to be broken. I love the dynamic of being invited in—watching her fall apart under his hands, or being the one to make her squirm while he watches. I’m not here to take over—I’m here to amplify what you already have.

If you’re into connection, playful control, and nights where we all leave aching and grinning, slide into my DMs but bring more than just “hey.”

Let’s make something hot happen.

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 145km around Australia Brisbane
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HazeyMan
This is my first one aha

I would like to meet or talk or ft anyone around Leicester that has a big heart, comfortable to be around and who makes me happy, then in the bedroom I turn from an absolute gentleman to a beast within seconds, I actually love being a dom and barking orders and being in control (obvs safe words) so if your into being a sub to someone tall dark and mysterious then let me know

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Leicester
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TheArchitect
Loving, tender little needed for Daddy

Are you a tender-hearted little who feels safest when someone else is in control? Do you long for a Daddy who gives you structure, praise, rules, and all the affection you secretly crave?

I’m a mature Daddy Dom — calm, confident, and consistent. I take care of what’s mine. If you’re a good girl, I’ll spoil you. If you’re a brat… well, I know just how to handle that too.

I want a little who:
🍼 Feels safest with rules, routines, and daily check-ins
🎀 Loves being called “good girl” (or punished when she’s not)
🍓 Has a stuffie collection, bedtime rituals, and a playful heart
💋 Wants real connection — not just play, but purpose

You’ll get from me:
👅 Firm but fair discipline
🫶 Warm aftercare, loving attention
📋 Daily structure and rituals tailored to you
❤️‍🔥 A Daddy who means it when he says, “You’re mine.”

If you’re ready to submit, surrender, and feel seen — send Daddy a message and tell me what kind of rules help you feel safe.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 26 years ● 125km around Canada Sutton West
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yourworstslaveandrei
I will obey and serve you

I am a submissive seeking to be dominated , I can be your slave however you want me to
My kinks are , , I like being bullied and I would obey everything you say, I really love feet and spit (I could worship your feet and spit all day), I wouldn’t mind being punished for being bad and etc
I would love to worship you and let you have control over me, I can do calls (also video if you do too) and text

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Romania Bacău
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Gooner139
Interested in hypnosis and mind control

Have you ever wondered,really wondered,what it feels like to become so relaxed and trusting that you give your mind willingly to be led into deep relaxing and enhanced levels of arousal and orgasm

Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 80 years ● 175km around UK Southend-on-Sea
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kysub1982
Looking to be controlled

What I am looking for is someone to control what attire I wear (womens). I want to be required to send proof and at some point they would get stuff for me to wear or lock on. What do you get in return is unlimited use of me and to humiliate me. Looking for asap

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Cecilia
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Louieee07
Ready,?

“Dominant. Calm. In control. Looking for a woman who knows she wants to submit and isn’t afraid to explore it fully. If you’re ready for something raw, real, and intense — reach out.”

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 20km around USA Buffalo
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YELRAH
Hi am looking for a domme

Hello, Fellow Kinksters,
A little about me: I am 6'4" with a somewhat toned build, and I have red hair. I am also a very hard worker and a quick problem solver who strives to learn new methodologies for each subject I explore or new concept I encounter. My hobbies include chess, hiking (the harder the hike, the better), anime, and going to the gym.

A small biography: I got into BDSM at a very young age due to certain events. From then on, it has become an increasingly integral part of who I am. I just really love the idea of a woman having complete control over my body and even degrading me. The kinkier, the better—that’s how I see it. The very idea of a beautiful lady who has full control over me gets me super excited! I love surprises and not knowing what will happen during a session. I also enjoy taking a lady on a lovely date to a place she would never expect—surprises always seem to work out best.
I'm looking for a mistress/mommy who would be interested in letting me serve them or starting a relationship with me. I am quite experienced in BDSM, so I would prefer someone with experience, though inexperience is also welcome.

Thank you for considering my ad.
Yours Truly, YELRAH

BDSM Play Partner ● 5km around Australia North Booval
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yourworstslaveandrei
sub looking for a dom

I am a submissive seeking to be dominated, I can be your slave however you want me to
My kinks are , , I like being bullied and I would obey everything you say, I really love feet and spit (I could worship your feet and spit all day), I wouldn’t mind being punished for being bad,etc
I would love to find someone that wants to make me their slave and be in control of me, I also can’t do ***

Pro-Dom/me Session ● 18 to 49 years ● 500km around Romania Bacău
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versatile_vows
Birthday

Anybody down to chat? Take it from there? My birthday is this weekend, and I’m tryna have some fun!

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 155km around USA Carlsbad
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