HI asm a Master/Dominate my name is John they call me Rave.
I have been in the lifestyle 20+ years I first was a submissive under a great mistress who thought me a lot and I spend 5 great years learning.

I am looking for a LTR NSA or POLLY whatever your flavor. One with mutual respect respect for consent and a Dominate / Submissive With great communication so there is no arguments fighting or disrespect where we remain Respectful at all times of course you would have a say in everything and transparency would assure that there is no ghosting lying or problems Transparency and Communication . I would have the final say and I base it on a fair judgement of whats best for the relationship and I would not let things happen giving you to others unless in a Polly or NSA agreement and safety and safe sex is needed to have there way just to dangerous now days with STD and HIV Be Safe! Love care and mental emotional and physical support always in the relationship and I am a romantic at heart so I am not abusive mental emotionally or physically I am looking for some one that is ready to explore new things who enjoys impact play and bondage and Sabari and is ready to give them self to me fully after a year fully and is collared in 6 months that is a lot like marriage then the CNC contract after one year where she is ready to fully give her self to me for our needs. It is because of scammers I have made it where you must verify your pictures on this site to message me. I'm not a Sugar DADDY I am a Master/Dominate have respect when you message me I am not here to play games. I am willing to take time to get to know you as friends first if that's what you need. I have a very high sex drive so i am not looking for someone who has to take 6 months to make up there mind while they scout other men online If your out of the United States I could be interested in Internet relationship but video and voice is required. I can message you for the first 30 days after that you must be able to call me on the phone or video call me daily. I am not a perv I am a Master and have control over my sexual needs and I do not require nudes unless you want to send them to me or your taking part in our Nightly Ritual I am very kinky but I understand fully about the rights of consent and respect for my Submissive DDLG Slave Brat I take care of you menially emotionally and physically After care and Safe Words and make sure you have a safe space to grow. If you are interested you can message me here be happy to speak with you and answer any questions you may have and even fly you here by paying half the airfares if you need help but we must be well established for some time befor we do that so and you must be able to travel and relocate when the time comes. I love Brats I am a Sadist and Infor not into hardcore that's ok you don't have to be as long as you enjoy Impact play and Bondage you need to be Tamed message me. I am working on my Projects now Hanging the spanking rings on the wall and adding the tiedowns to my refurbished bed and have plans to build a beam in the back yard so you can do some Sabari Safety always first when it comes to suspension so if your a Rope bunny that's a pulse nothing more sexy then a bunny tied up in her submission and zone until then I am learning new things and will keep it to partial suspensions and practice is needed so hours of being tied up off and on trying new stuff "I am not a expert when it comes to Ropes but I enjoy Hemp Ropes they are my rope of choice to use in Sabari also like wax nipple and clit *** Thys and breast and butt impact play and others is a lot of fun all within safe limits "Hope to here from you soon Master/Dominate Rave.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 55 years ● 500km around USA Redfield

My different forms of pussy play or maybe it is pussy worship.

I'll put it into six bullet points:

  1. DEZ or deep erogenous zones starts with a colposcope or my camera on a dildo to show you your 4 DEZ and how each one feels and discover which you like the best and the best order to massage them. One you start orgasming, I will keep giving vaginal orgasms but will add clitoris orgasms and the combination orgasms are my true goal.
  2. Orgasm Research is where I give multiple orgasms in a ***d way, where like a mild form of CNC you can't stop me from giving you more orgasms and training you to have longer orgasms called Status Orgasmus. I have had to stop due to hyperventilating and will lookout for safety or medical issues.
  3. Medical play is where I will vacuum pump your clit, then pump inner labia and then outer lips to be puffy and swollen. At this point, I will give your swollen, sensitive pussy multiple orgasms. Then inserting a speculum and give more orgasms with a full sensation. This is in stirrups and not bondage.
  4. My Yoni massage has 30 steps and takes about an hour. These are the important things to understand before the massage. You have no need to feel rushed, or act (fake an orgasm) or feel any pressure. Just feel my hands making you feel good. Get out of your head. Solf music, no lyrics, red or blue lighting for soothing, and relaxing experience.
  5. Orgasm Control, making sub ask for every Orgasm. 75% of the time is Yes. 10% is is count to 5 or 10 then ask again for a yes. 10% it is ask nicely, and you must say "Mr Sting, my i please Orgasm". 5% or less I will ruin an orgasm. Edging falls under this category. I'm not really into making a sub not masterbate when not with me. I think female masterbation is very healthy and should be encouraged to a point. I have a clicker counter, subs have a hard time counting above five with me.
  6. Teaching to Squirt, not all women can squirt but but I have a lot of successful subs squirt for the first time with my training. I do not to this in a *d gimmick way but with, building trust and some time and my pelvic floor muscle coaching and a bit of specific squirt training. This isn't a single scene but a longer D/s training.

    My favorite munches:**

    • Peach Munch - in Peachtree Corners, my munch I started & run.

    • SAM or Sugarloaf Area Munch meets monthly in Duluth

    • Kennesaw Kinskters meets monthly near Maietta Square

    • HOT Hothouse Slosh meets monthly at a Brewery in Lawrenceville

    • Trivia Munch meets weekly in Sugar Hill

    • AASS or Atlanta Area Spanking Society, meets monthly in Dunwoody

    • Cobb Munch meets monthly in Kennesaw


      Sometimes I go to these:

    • Alpharetta Munch meets monthly

    • DAM or Decatur Area Munch meets monthly

    • N.A.K.E.D. educational Munch meets monthly in Woodstock

    • Alternative Woodstock Area Munch meets monthly

    • Hiram Munch meets monthly

    • Gwinnett Munch meets in Duluth bi-weekly or twice monthly.

      There are more in the Greater Atlanta Area, out further. Just ask me.

      I'm putting 500km, but remember you must travel to these munches.
      If you ask nicely, I can also help you find munches in your area.

Kinky Date19 to 70 years ● 100km around USA Atlanta

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