Hi! My life partner in both life and kink recently passed away after 30 years together. As such, I am hoping to expand my horizons and circumstances by reconnecting with the greater kink community. While I am considering exploring a LTR, I am at present in no hurry to commit to anything permanent as I am still adjusting to this.

I am primarily seeking a situation involving a sub or slave female that might lead to a LTR. I can host for mild to wild BDSM play; prefer subsemphasized text with masochistic tendencies and desires. SORRY NO MALES!

Me? I'm a 63 y/o widowed Dom WM with a dry but dark sense of humor; 6'3" 195 HWP, professional, pierced nipples. I'm presently recovering from some health issues but am moving along very well and am very much a fighter; not a quitter! College educated and although mature, very in touch with my inner child. I can transition from NPR to Bob’s Burgers without flinching nor being embarrassed about doing so. Music is a vital part of who I am as is humor. The ability to maintain a sense of humor without arrogance when it comes to BDSM play is, in my eyes, vitally important.

I am not looking for someone squeamish but someone adventurous, who is intrigued by spankings/paddles, restraints and nipple clamps, wax play, blindfolds, latex, leather, tight restraints, watching/ voyeurism, large objects and. . .?

I switch on occasion if the chemistry is right and am open to CBT, pegging, sounding, and pretty much many of the other interests I’ve already outlined. In other words, I can take in what I dish out...

I have a wide variety of gear to add to the total ambience… Anything from mild to wild, as I do have a bit of a sadistic streak…

You? ...are sane and secure, clean and discrete. Enjoy some curves, but sorry- no extreme overweight. Prefer mature but will consider any age or race with a willingness to test your limits and maintain creativity with a certain degree of humor and humility. LOVE tats, piercings, ebony, goth and...

Limits will be respected but tested; also receptive to sexting. Because of scam efforts and ulterior motives of some responses I have received, I actually prefer meeting at a neutral location first in the general Milwaukee area although, yes, I can host...

Desires and Fantasies
My partner and I have explored plenty of things in the past including play dungeons, pet play, role playing etc. I've already explored plenty of fantasies, so just let me know what yours might be...

If you are looking for pay for play or if you’re a “” seeking s, move on… I have better things to spend my on including partners that are actually interested in something more LT and stable, and who actually play instead of yanking chains (rhetorically rather than literally)... If you’re looking for someone to send you or gift cards sight unseen, well… while I appreciate you’re thinking that I was born yesterday, I wasn’t…

BDSM Play Partner30 to 70 years ● 50km around USA Milwaukee

Who am I
Hey I am Hristo, 35 years old. I am enjoying my life, with all the joys and challenges that involves.

I'm an introvert who enjoys watching Sci-Fi movies, listening to music, playing video and board games from time to time. I also like to go for walks and hikes. I tend to be shy, but once I get to know people I can be very open. Love learning new stuff and if somebody offers to teach me something I’m hooked. Am respectfully and caring person.

I am a switch, as I love the idea of both submitting to and dominating someone. It’s so intimate and involves trust from both sides.

I enjoy a lot that bdsm has to offer. I'm open to try new things.

Some of my main kinks include: spanking, , , bondage, anything to do with orgasm control (tease/denial, edging, multiple orgasms, ruined orgasms, post orgasm ), play,
My hard limits so far are , , needles play.



What I am looking for

I'm looking for a long term D/s dynamic with someone who is interested in a serious relationship. Prefer someone with some shared vanilla interests in addition to the kinky ones. I don't expect anyone to submit right away, I expect to talk, build rapport and trust. When you do submit I want it to be because you respect me enough and know me enough to have decided that I'm someone safe, capable, and healthy for you.



What to expect from me

I personally feel that trust is the single most important key to any healthy relationship. I feel that it is important for a submissive to feel secure in the care of their dominant. My arms should be their safe place where they will always feel cherished and free to be themself. I strongly believe that actions will always speak louder then words and that actions should be consistent in nature. If you don't mean what you say or can't back up your words then don't make empty promises.

My partner will always know that they can talk to me about anything. I will never take my submissive or their feelings for granted.

Healthy communication is very important and I will be just as open in sharing my thoughts and feelings.

I feel that there is beauty in a relationship that is built on honesty, healthy communication, and mutual trust.



I am always interested in meeting new people, and would like to meet and talk with like minded people, get to know them, and make new friends. If someone special enters my life, I will welcome them and we will see where it leads.

BDSM Play Partner150km around UK Swindon

Looking for a Dom to train me as you see fit.Let me kneel before you head down by your feet let me lick 👅 suck you’re feet and toes.emphasized text

I am a male sub very shy I have been trained to keep my head down and to only speak when spoken to and never answer back. I am happy to be locked 🔒 in your collar to show your ownership of me. I last Mistress trained me to except maintenance punishments when she felt I need it. I have had a weeks training in Germany, where I had three dom’s to serve one male and two female. I was not spoken too as I could not speak Germany. I was stripped and put in to a neck collar and pad locked in. A leather body harness was then fastened tightly round my body. I was now there slave. My first morning was cleaning the house from top to bottom. They pointed to tell me to clean again it was not good enough. Food for me was oatmeal and nothing else. In the evening I was told to stand still and serve drinks when told which was different when I don’t understand. I think they started calling me names and humiliating me. Then I was punished with a hard long spanking on my bare bum with belt,wipe and crop leaving me in a lot of discomfort ,sore and bum feeling like it was on fire all very humiliating in front of people I did not know.
I know what to expect this time I am still shy but more obedient will not answer back. I will take my duties very seriously and not question your commands.
I am happy to dress as you say. Eat what I am given and not question punishment and
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Hope to start training with a new Dom soon.

BDSM/Fetish Family25 to 70 years ● 200km around UK Harrogate

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