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13,000 Leagues Under The Sub Sea

Hey all! This is my first time on FET. Although I’ve been curious for years, I’ve been doing a lot of self work and personal growth to help me isolate what I’m hoping to find. I’d love to meet more dominant types to explore my sub self. Kind, antiracist, anti patriarchal, radical, consent aware, communicative types. I’m open to bondage, discipline, flogging, shibari and learning more.

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Dom looking for sub

Howdy I am a 21 year old white male Dom based and hosting out of Jacksonville Alabama. I have around three years experience with the kink scene but took a month long break from it. However, I am now looking to jump back into it and have some fun perhaps even building a long term relationship with someone if we click. I hope to hear from y'all soon and wish you all the best.

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Christian200520
Very bored Lately

Been a little Bored lately and I’m trying to Experiment New Things. Interested In Females Only. Looking to meet up, Or chat Online Doesn’t Matter.

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Submissive boy for use

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Dom Top looking for worship 🍆🙏

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BlackCat06
Experienced Dominant Seeking a Dedicated Submissiv

Are I am a , grounded Dominant seeking a female submissive trainee (30–50) who is genuinely interested in structured training, personal growth, and a meaningful Dom/Sub dynamic.

About You:
• Perth metro based
• Athletic build
• Shoulder-length hair or longer
• Non-smoker
• Open to tattoos and piercings
• Female, any nationality
• Comfortable with discretion & clear communication
• Able to travel domestically and internationally as my consort

About the Dynamic:
You will be trained in the ways of submission in a safe, ethical, and intentional manner, with an emphasis on trust, mutual respect, and consent. This is not about rushing or fantasy-only play, but about developing confidence, discipline, and depth within a Dom/Sub framework.

I value intelligence, curiosity, emotional awareness, and a willingness to learn. In return, I offer guidance, structure, protection, and a calm, experienced hand.

This is best suited to someone seeking a long-term connection rather than a casual encounter.

If this resonates with you, introduce yourself thoughtfully and tell me what draws you to submission and what you hope to gain from training.

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Looking for older sub women or sub women my age

Very new to this but I am looking for sub women that I can connect with & see where things could lead . I love older women but I also love women around my age !

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Confident Dom Seeking a Playful, Obedient Sub

I enjoy spanking, flogging, light to moderate impact play, and structured dominance-but onsent, communication, and aftercare always come first.

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Single outdoorsy type with a sex drive stuck in tu

All women have their own unique characteristics that I find attractive so its hard to list what Im looking for in potential lover, so Im going to be vague for now. Basically Im looking for a woman, Dom or Sub, I characterize my self as a switch, that likes the outdoors, especially fishing or camping, and is freaky enough to toss her fishing pole aside and put my pole inside. Someone who tells me to pull into a random side road because she wants a quickie before we get wherever we were headed. Im looking for an outdoor running buddy that is freaky AF! Ive never been with someone who can match my energy in the bedroom so a high sex drive and a willingness to go after what she wants should be added to the list of personality triats my ideal match would possess! I dont know if a woman like that exists but if she does, I hope we cross paths sooner rather than later!

NSA ● 21 to 53 years ● 90km around USA Fairfield Bay
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Submissive/slave looking

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Looking for a female with, at the very least submissive tendencies that need exploring, or a more experienced sub wanting some variety in thier life. Impact play, role play, or maybe just testing new toys. Probably best suited for mid-40's or older but will talk to anyone...who knows!

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Looking for sub

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Looking for my sub

Confident, grounded Dom looking to connect with a submissive woman who genuinely enjoys giving up control in a safe, intentional dynamic. I value communication, trust, and mutual chemistry just as much as kink.

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Master looking for slaver

my name is jonas smoot i live in woodstock va i have been in the lifestyly for long time looking for a sub. female for a real time realationship hopping it will turn into 24/7 realationship

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