Looking for a forever girl. I date with intention. I don't share my girls with other men.

I have a university degree, am retired, secure, and a good provider. I own a beautiful home on a park-like acre of property between , San Jose and the Pacific Ocean. I have no little ones or family, just a PITA parrot who has been my partner for 25 years. You will often find me working around my house, riding my motorcycle, attending kinky events, and enjoying good meals. I hope to do a lot of traveling with my future partners.

My goal is to find a girl without baggage that wants to live with me and share my life with me. I want someone with the time and desire to enjoy life with me from cuddling on the couch watching TV to traveling the world. NO: ONS, NSA, FWB, or ENM. I want strings attached. Make that chains attached. I believe in M/s style relationships and am very active in the local community. You should be comfortable in a Total Power Exchange relationship.

You should be fit, attractive, kinky, no little ones, not married to your job, and have a desire to live on the right side of the slash. I do love women and it would be great if you shared that interest with me. I love
s, however if you have a pet, it must get along with my parrot. He often wanders around the house and I can't put him at risk.

I have a lot to offer. I don't ask that you bring anything to the table other than yourself, along with the desire to give yourself fully to a loving, committed, relationship. If you show up at my door naked with a pizza I won't turn you away. I love pizza.

BDSM/Fetish Family18 to 50 years ● 500km around USA Belmont

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