Why give her a Yoni Massage?

Yoni massage or yonic massage, derived from the word Yoni, a representation of the vulva, which comes from the Shakti word that means sacred place. The Yoni massage is a type of Tantric full-. It primarily focuses on the breasts, thighs, and stomach and then focuses on the labia, perineum, clitoris, G-spot, cervix or C-spot, A-spot, which is behind the G-spot, and other erogenous zones. When done right, this is a healing, theutic massage.


Women's bodies are so used to being understimulated, overstimulated, disregarded, shamed, and penetrated too quickly.

You get to give her the gift of bringing conscious intimacy to this beautiful part of her body and give her the opportunity to fully relax and receive intimate touch without needing to worry about judgment, performing, giving someone an orgasm, having an orgasm, or faking an orgasm...the gift of pussy massage is allowing her body to feel safe to be held, seen, surrendered, and to feel whatever she feels and to have whatever experience she needs to have.

Regular pussy massage can:

  • Help her get out of a performative mode in sex
  • Help her get out of her head and become relaxed and present with her sensations
  • (necessary for most women to have an orgasm)
  • Help to heal "I'm taking too long" syndrome
  • Open her up to new/unexplored sensations
  • Increase intimacy between partners
  • Help to release expectations of her body
  • Help to release any need for external validation
  • Help to heal a habit of faking orgasms
  • Release shame around the appearance of her vulva
  • Increase *** flow and circulation (important for natural wetness)
  • Increase sensitivity
  • Relax tight pelvic floor muscles, release tension and can help alleviate ***
  • Intensify orgasm
  • Reduce stress

    Sharing the purpose and/or benefits of Yoni pussy massage with your partner can help you both to ground into why you'd like to have this experience together. Kindly remind her that this massage does not require her body to have any response. She is not expected to appear aroused, to be wet, or to have an orgasm. It is for pure relaxation for her body to fully surrender and receive and feel whatever she needs to feel. Invite her to be present with her body and sensations and to communicate if she wants any changes to the pressure, sd, or touch type. Your role is to honor her body's every request without question or judgment. Lovingly inform her that you will ask permission before penetrating her with your finger(s) and that she is free to say no. Penetration is not a necessary part of this message.

    Set your intentions for the massage and the energy you're bringing with you. (ex. Total mental and physical relaxation; a chance to experience new kinds of sensual touch and sensations with no-pressure-to-perform [it is not about her having an orgasm]; creating a space for her to feel safe and surrendered in your loving hands, etc.)

    Not many women have had a Yoni massage. I have a massage table. I have four sensual messages:

    The Yoni massage which is focused on the front and builds up to the pussy massage. It is great for healing and making your pussy feel wanted and appreciated and even healing past sexual trauma. Also great, if you have issues reaching an orgasm, the Yoni can help; if you can't have multiple orgasms, the Yoni can help with that too.

    The Tantric massage starts with the back and a bigger total massage and ends with a shorter version of the Yoni, but I use a vibrator for g-spot orgasms. This has a lot of edging before I give the multiple orgasms, and if you feel comfortable, you can squirt. I have special absorbent flat pads.

    Chinese cupping massage I use vacuum cups on the back, and it leaves two rows of bruises from
    being pulled into the cups. I used to do fire cupping but my ex got the fire cups in our divorce. I now use vacuum cups which are more accurate and consistent. I also have cups for making nipples stand proud and a pussy pump cup that will fatten up your pussy, and swells with more liquid, and this makes your pussy more sensitive for sex toy play.

    The Velvet Wand massage, which is an electric device invented 100+ years ago, this tool and its attachments are fun, but a body mode where my hands become electric or your body becomes electrified. There are many metal tools in the Velvet Wand kit for teasing your tits and pussy with electricity, it sounds ***ful, but the power is fully adjustable and is incredibly erotic.

    These are all sensual and relaxing, but the Yoni can heal some sex trauma issues. I'm experienced with couples classes but not certified; there is no Yoni certification in the USA. I have done all of these many times. The Yoni is my favorite. But you can pick whichever you want.

    Would you like to meet first in a public place or better a BDSM munch with other kinky people. Where in Atlanta do you live? I do not travel. Just a zip code is fine, then I can suggest a local munch or a good place to meet. I will travel to munches and a first meet.

    Tags: #Yoni, #Tantric, #Tantric massage, #Sting's Massage, #Yoni #Pussy Massage

BDSM Play Partner20 to 70 years ● 100km around USA Atlanta
Kinky Date28 to 58 years Finland Helsinki

38 Illinois F MidWest -Sensual Demisexual/
Sapiosexaul Sublime Poetic bottom.
voluptuous doll.

Feed me with your mind . . .

Slex/Relationship not really the first thing
on my mind more be my peace don't be a headache just bit selective when comes to the right connection with the soul. Not just anyone that just enters with looking for a relationship, not the right taste of breakfast. The lifestyle in my eyes more of art not a fetish bit old school respect with dignity comes in favor. D/s has always been love and trust with bond. The best things come unexpectedly at the right time when you least expect it. You can't a connection to be in the right vibration at the right time. More of a feeling a soul spark, it's very rare. Only one for one not in sharing sorry to break it to you.Range 37-50 on the same page on the same level with the vibe and feeling. Not anti social just selective social as soul selective feeling connection.

Well Written as a bottom yet submissive with a beautiful mind with Art is more of a passion to be embraced as erotica but the soft classic core of it.
with pleasure to be under a man Classic curvy 1950’s/Stepford Sensual bottom to be under a Head of Household know my place but in a fair manner. With love, romance & .Old Soul Fond of vintage and art with classical things but loves the universe with sci -fi , supernatural ethics of things. 25 years on this Ferris wheel lifestyle as a maso 1950s/Stepford. Take the right HoH, take the hand Lead the way one bit grown and secure can carry yourself well good to my eyes.

Our souls do not speak a human language; they communicate to us through symbols , metaphors , visions , poetry , deep feeling , and everyday magic.

There are those who say they love you.... And then there are those who lace your heels ,hearts are crossed.

Your Naked body should only belong to those who fall in love with your naked soul.

Just want good company, a guy to vibe with connection & conversation converse with laugh without in a rush. Start simple m and let the test find itself. Having someone to talk to and feeling comfortable around them is quite a beautiful thing and it's a good feeling.

Trust chemistry , Chemistry that you don't have to question , at all. Where nothing feels
d. it;s just natural. Everything just flows & it is so obvious. It's such a rare connection with another person.

My favorite sex position is one where you are down to grow with you as a person and care about your mental health & well being.

Arouse me mentally so I can feel you spiritually then when we touch physically we'll fall in sync soulfully.

If you want to know mine , Study my soul . explore poets I read , listen to my favorite songs and learn about the stars , the oceans and beautifully wild things.

Does have to be a Romantic relationship to be romantic just be conversation and laughter. Just genuine Bond

Without attachments , without judgment , no ***d love , without jealousy , enjoy the moments , growing friendship , the company , be each other's peace , things grow and flow , Buddha level. If we let go of the old ways we just accept each other, be a bond, be each other peace see if we click the whole relationship thing comes later.Last thing but genuine friendship, partnership , if we click we vibe.

Love is rare , But to love first love you first Master that so you can love another then go on with loving.

Munch Buddy50km around USA Holiday Hills

38F kitten
38 Illinois F MidWest -Sensual Demisexual/
Sapiosexaul Sublime Poetic bottom.
voluptuous doll.

Feed me with your mind . . .

Slex/Relationship not really the first thing
on my mind more be my peace don't be a headache just bit selective when comes to the right connection with the soul. Not just anyone that just enters with looking for a relationship, not the right taste of breakfast. The lifestyle in my eyes more of art not a fetish bit old school respect with dignity comes in favor. D/s has always been love and trust with bond. The best things come unexpectedly at the right time when you least expect it. You can't a connection to be in the right vibration at the right time. More of a feeling a soul spark, it's very rare. Only one for one not in sharing sorry to break it to you.Range 37-50 on the same page on the same level with the vibe and feeling. Not anti social just selective social as soul selective feeling connection.

Well Written as a bottom yet submissive with a beautiful mind with Art is more of a passion to be embraced as erotica but the soft classic core of it.
with pleasure to be under a man Classic curvy 1950’s/Stepford Sensual bottom to be under a Head of Household know my place but in a fair manner. With love, romance & .Old Soul Fond of vintage and art with classical things but loves the universe with sci -fi , supernatural ethics of things. 25 years on this Ferris wheel lifestyle as a maso 1950s/Stepford. Take the right HoH, take the hand Lead the way one bit grown and secure can carry yourself well good to my eyes.

Our souls do not speak a human language; they communicate to us through symbols , metaphors , visions , poetry , deep feeling , and everyday magic.

There are those who say they love you.... And then there are those who lace your heels ,hearts are crossed.

Your Naked body should only belong to those who fall in love with your naked soul.

Just want good company, a guy to vibe with connection & conversation converse with laugh without in a rush. Start simple m and let the test find itself. Having someone to talk to and feeling comfortable around them is quite a beautiful thing and it's a good feeling.

Trust chemistry , Chemistry that you don't have to question , at all. Where nothing feels
d. it;s just natural. Everything just flows & it is so obvious. It's such a rare connection with another person.

My favorite sex position is one where you are down to grow with you as a person and care about your mental health & well being.

Arouse me mentally so I can feel you spiritually then when we touch physically we'll fall in sync soulfully.

If you want to know mine , Study my soul . explore poets I read , listen to my favorite songs and learn about the stars , the oceans and beautifully wild things.

Does have to be a Romantic relationship to be romantic just be conversation and laughter. Just genuine Bond

Without attachments , without judgment , no ***d love , without jealousy , enjoy the moments , growing friendship , the company , be each other's peace , things grow and flow , Buddha level. If we let go of the old ways we just accept each other, be a bond, be each other peace see if we click the whole relationship thing comes later.Last thing but genuine friendship, partnership , if we click we vibe.

Love is rare , But to love first love you first Master that so you can love another then go on with loving.

Munch Buddy5km around USA Holiday Hills

Hi I’ve logged back in after many months. Wasn’t here for very long before so am still new and a little cautious, but still very curious..

Looking to explore my little side. It’s something I’ve been curious about but not something I’ve ever talked about or pursued. I’m very independent in my day to day life and struggle to ask for help but I have a need to relinquish this and be taken care of, in and out of the bedroom without needing to ask (or help me learn to be better as asking) and to be a naughty and sweet submissive in the bedroom.

In my past I have dated younger men but behind closed doors (in my mind and imagination) I get the most aroused and wet when I think about an intelligent, calm, loving, in control daddy giving me love, attention. Making me feel desired and safe and touching my mind and body.

Psychologically, It’s all about feeling safe and desired and adored. I have some body insecurities so to have my daddy desire me and to feel cherished and erotically wanted by him, would make me feel such a special girl for my daddy and would iron out the anxieties or insecurities I have.

In return, when I feel that safety, nurture and attention is genuinely given to me, I will want to give my love and attention and my all to my daddy. If I trust my daddy, I will want to make him so very happy. I am naturally very attentive and I like to please and tease.. I love seeing daddy lose control when I give him my desire (thats the switch in me).

Please note:
Im all about nuance and sensuality and mental play that naturally builds to something more urgent and dirty. I don’t do 0-100, or mimicking hard kinks like you’re a pair of actors reenacting what you learn as being sexy from watching porn. I doubt anyone under 35 will know what this means. I want to FEEL REAL. Real sexy. Real anticipatory. Real naughty. Real dirty. Real wet. With a person that just understands
that sensuality and silence is erotic.
It’s not about headline grabbing black & white kink. (I understand why people chase the fun sensationalist highs of whips, chains, hardcore boundary pushing sex, but I personally find labels the opposite of nuanced and sexy!) Only the most emotionally intelligent men will understand the subtlety in the psychological difference and they’re the ones I would love to hear from. Thank you for reading x

Ps. I really crave a sensual erotic kiss at the moment before anything else!

BDSM/Fetish Family34 to 75 years ● 50km around UK Leeds

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