New on Fetish.com

It's been a fair bit of time since I've last written an add, though I think it's about time I put out my feelers and see what/who I can find.

A Bit About Me.

My Day To Day Side


I have been active as a dom for more or less all of my adult life, both online and offline and have had many long lasting dynamics over this time as well as many more short term arrangements. Some have been simple scratching of one another's itches, filling a desire for a time before parting whilst others have been much more intimate, with me recently parting with someone on sad but mutual terms. I am a very geeky person, I love to share this nerdiness with those I can, I am an avid gamer, I love to read (and have a more recent infatuation with audiobooks), I like to write, I have a passion for dnd (sadly a forever dm, though given I like to write I do enjoy it quite a bit).
You don't not need to get to know the day to day side of me if you do not wish, I know some simply prefer to focus on the dynamic and that is fine, just be sure to make this intention clear early on.

The Dom I Am


I am an exceedingly patient person, I always have been and try my best to be this way. That being said, I'm not the sort of person to accept poor excuses and if someone shows a lack of effort, I will move on and part ways. I see a dom/sub ect. style of dynamic being made from mutual respect, regardless of if you wish to be treated as an object and dejected to constant I will still hold you're best interests at heart and hold you back from making choices I believe you would regret later. I respect peoples boundaries greatly, though will probe to find the limits of those boundaries quite early on, I like to use the traffic light safe word system, it's simple, easy to remember and clear in it's intent... assuming the other party is at least somewhat familiar with traveling by car. I will never be disappointed by something we are engaging in being stopped due to this so never push yourself beyond your comfort zone.
I like to use a mixture of live sessions and set tasks with set living rules for those who serve me, though I can adjust this to fit a potential applicant, at the end of this is a series of questions, answer them honestly instead of just in a way that pushes your buttons.
I will never share anything sent to me without your consent. Even then, I will verify with you about it. Trust is important to me and you feeling safe is important. You will be revealing the self you hide from the world to me and make yourself , even if that self likes to be talked to like a piece of dirt under my shoe you should be able to feel safe still whilst you explore your desires.


A Bit About You


I expect you to be honest, more then anything else I have always found this to be the single most important building block to any dynamic. Breaking a rule may result in an unpleasant punishment but it does mean you earn my trust.
You are not expected to be interested in everything I list, just be honest with what interests you and we can work around that.
Your level of experience doesn't matter, you can be brand new and don't nothing more then watch some porn of scenarios and want guidance or you could of been active for the last 20 years, everyone is different and it just changes the starting point simply.
If you are trans or other, please specify when it comes to the questions at what stage you are are, it can effect the potential tasks I can set after all.
Do not worry about your age (as long as you are 20+), many of my best subs have had up to 20 years on me, you would have just as much chance of being taken on as anyone else. I have been told people have been unsure about applying in the past due to this type of age difference, only to find we get along extremely well.
I expect you to know some of your boundaries out of the gate and to be up front about them. It's important to know what is too much, even if that too much is just the simple limits of not doing anything illegal ect.
You should answer the questions at the end of this add to the best of your ability, the more information I have to work with the more smoothly things can begin, as well as it's just handy to have a solid reference point as I get to know you.
You will not be expected to fit all potential criteria listed in this add, there is a good chance you will only hit on 1 or 2 points I mention and that is perfectly fine, every dynamic is different and I am happy to work within my subs boundaries/interests. For instance, you may love to try live sessions but find it hard to follow tasks or rules when your dom is not around, be honest about this at the start or as it becomes apparent so we can work around this.
I will expect frequent communication from you, even if its just a few messages a day to keep in touch, it helps me to more quickly get a grasp on your day to day affairs and how I can best work around them as well as just generally helps cement our dynamic.
You have a life, likely family, a job, a social life, I wont be taking any of this away with this dynamic, it's important that this dynamic adds to your life, that it doesn't interrupt it.
If you want something to become more serious, I would only consider it if you where at least within the uk, this is simply for practicalities sake, if I was to get that close to someone, I'd want to be able to wrap my arms around them.
Be sure to mention cookies somewhere in your response, so I know you've read everything.

Any open minded ladies out there looking to have some fun times together? It's been a long time since i have been on any sites and am hoping to find someone who's not afraid to explore and try new things. I am not really sure if the people on here are just looking to hook up or looking for something more serious i personally would welcome something long term but would certainly not turn down something casual lol I would love to find a woman who"s not afraid to test her limits in the bedroom including possibly bringing in a third from time to time i think women should get the pleasure of having two men please her if thats her thing am i wrong?

I’m looking for a powerful woman who would enjoy helping me explore my submissive side. I’m very open to trying out new kinks and experiences and would hope to eventually become the dedicated submissive to a beautifal Goddess.

I'm new to the scene but wanting to to learn. ....

I'll have pictures up soon. If you want them now, I'll get them to you. I promise, I'm not a douche. I am easy to talk to, and I was raised right, but I'm sexually ravenous. Go figure. I'm also a male and a Scorpio, so throw that into the mix. Can you keep up? I'm always open to ideas and new experiences, Still kind of new to Vegas. Show me around.

Hey there! Couple here from chicago looking for like minded ppl to connect with and see to what fun it leads to!

I never tried kinky and want to try something new

This could be the start of something new send me a DM

Hey there, I hope you’re having a great day! Honestly, right now, looking for some conversation it would be nice to get to know someone so feel free to message ☺️

I have a passion for travel and love discovering new cultures. Your country intrigues me, and I'd love to learn more, who better to guide me than a local? Would you be open to a friendship filled with cultural exchanges?

Any couples or single women hmu if ur interested by looking at my profile or dm me 🧟‍♂️💯

I’m in Dayton looking for a kinky date tonight! I love dom and sub, and I’m ready to try something new! What can you show me?

Hello everyone I'm a fit nerdy goofy ginger.
I'm new to this site I came from fetlife.if anyone is interested in meeting please msg me

💜🌈🏳️‍⚧️ Hey everyone 🏳️‍⚧️🌈💜

About Me:
Hey there! I’m Paige, a sissy/cd/trans gender questioning female with a passion for exploring the depths of pleasure and connection through BDSM. I’m a introvert-extrovert, curiously exploratory, friendly gurl next door individual who values clear communication and mutual respect. My journey in the world of BDSM has been empowering and exhilarating, and I’m eager to find like-minded individuals who are enthusiastic about exploring and expanding their own boundaries.

What I’m Looking For:
I’m seeking partners who are open-minded, respectful, and enthusiastic about the exploration of power dynamics and sensuality. Whether you’re experienced in BDSM or just starting your journey, I believe in building connections based on trust, consent, and genuine interest.

An ongoing FWB/situationship where I am simutanelously safeguarded and pushed into the submissive I am is my ideal goal. I love the idea of being told what to do and how to do it. A part of my competitive nature is to be given expectations and expect to meet or exceed them.

Interests and Preferences:
BDSM Practices: I enjoy crossdressing,outfits,roleplaying, bondage, roleplay, latex, and erotic photogrpaghy, but I’m always open to discussing new experiences and expanding my horizons.
I love all tyes of clothing, lingerie, and costumes. My willingness to try something atleast once is something I standby.
Communication: Open and honest dialogue is crucial. I value discussions about limits, safewords, and aftercare to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for both parties.

Respect for Identity: As a questioning individual, it’s important for me to engage with partners who are supportive and understanding of my identity. Respect and inclusivity are essential.
What I Offer:

A Safe Space: A non-judgmental and inclusive mind where we can explore our desires and fantasies.

Mutual Expirmentation: A chance to learn from each other, share experiences, and grow together in our understanding of BDSM and ourselves.

Adventure and Fun: An eagerness to try new things, whether it’s a creative scene or a simple, intimate connection.
If you’re interested in connecting and exploring the potential for a meaningful and exciting journey together, I’d love to hear from you! Let’s start with a conversation and see where our interests align.
Contact:

Feel free to reach out with a message introducing yourself and sharing a bit about your interests and what you’re looking for. I’m excited to connect and see what we can discover together!

Hmu with some new things to open up to and try😃😃 I'm an open book!!

I’m a woman who values love, respect, and honesty above all. I’ve been through my fair share of challenges and heartbreaks in the past, but I’ve learned from each experience and now look at life with a heart full of hope. I’ve decided to let go of past wounds and focus on the present, opening myself up to the possibility of creating something beautiful with someone who shares the same values. I’m here with nothing but good intentions—looking to build a meaningful connection with a genuine, kind, and respectful man. My past doesn’t define me, but rather, it has shaped me into someone stronger, more compassionate, and more ready to embrace the future. I’m excited about the idea of making new memories, sharing moments of joy, and building a real, loving relationship with the right person.

I'm looking for a new friendship and a relationship.

Looking for a play partner. I may can show you some things if you new to fetish play.
Like younger guys that like to have a fun time.
Interested in FTMs and would love to explore.

I love exploring and trying new things with people, just looking for a good time with chill company <3

I’m new to this… world, and would love someone to help teach me, hmu if interested.

Looking for my kinky person to match my energy and explore new things and dive into life together.

I just want to meet women, and chat

Lonely and looking for a Daddy/Dom, experience preferred as I'm a sub to a fault. I'm not opposed to teaching someone new to the lifestyle if the connection is there. I'm not here just to send nudes, I'd like to have some sort of attraction outside of sex with the person I call Daddy. I'm 5'7" and a BBW, but not into ***. I need a Daddy with a strong hand and an understanding that I'm a mess...but I'm trying! If you'd like to talk about kinks, limits, the meaning of life, aliens, or the pizza joint down the street message me.

Hi im new to this 🥲