🌹 In the quiet before the storm, I imagine you
A kindred spirit who knows that desire is an art, not a frenzy.
A woman who craves the velvet weight of anticipation, the poetry of a whispered “please,”
and the electric dance between control and surrender.

Who I Am:
A connoisseur of contrasts—gentle hands that chart shivers, a mind that worships intellect as fiercely as it does the curve of your hips.
I thrive in the liminal: the space between a command and a plea, the gasp that follows a bite, the way trust bends but never breaks.
My kink is connection—ropes that bind like sonnets, power exchanged like sacred vows, and scenes ted with consent as the first brushstroke.

Seeking:
A woman unafraid to name her cravings, who sees submission as strength and dominance as devotion.
You might be a secret hedonist in lace and leather, or a quiet
who melts at the thrill of a well-placed touch.
Bring me your curiosity, your boundaries, your hunger to explore the shadows and the light.
Let’s blur the lines—between * and pleasure, reverence and rebellion, the sacred and the sinful.

Our Playground Could Be:**

  • Power Dynamics: A chess match of wills—sharp wit, sharper tension, and the sweet relief of yielding (or taking).
  • Sensation Alchemy: Wax, feathers, teeth… let’s turn nerve endings into constellations.
  • Roleplay Realms: Teacher/student, predator/prey, or a story we invent together—where fantasy bleeds into truth.

    Non-Negotiables:

  • Consent is our compass. Always.
  • Aftercare as ritual—warmth, whispers, and the quiet hum of “you’re safe here.”
  • Laughter as liturgy. Even saints smirk in the dark.

    First, Let’s:
    Share a fantasy that thrills you, a limit that guards you, or a scene that lives rent-free in your daydreams.
    I’ll match your honesty with mine, and we’ll build a world where wanting feels like worship.


    🔥 “Darling, let’s write a new language—one where every moan is a verb, every scar a love letter.”

    P.S. Safe words are sacred. Judgment is banned here. Magic is optional… but highly likely.


    🌙 Open to novices and veterans alike—curiosity and respect are the only prerequisites.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 35 years ● 500km around USA Rochester

We’re 2 very discreet, regular, professional, sane, authentically masculine (acting & looking), MWM (w/kids) in our 50s with easy-going personalities. We’re both cis men, tops with very high sex drives and are ultra-clean, DDF, on PReP and DoxyPEP. We’re HWP and come complete with typical dad bods and endowments (5’9”, 205#, 6” CUT and 5’10”, 210#, 6.5” CUT), trimmed (NOT shaved), natural body hair in all the typical man places. We both work a lot, so it may take us some time to respond to messages.

We’re looking for similar men around our area to bate and/or play together with 1 guy or us with 2 guys or us with a few guys, throughout the following areas in Delaware: North Dover, Cheswold, Smyrna, Clayton and Townsend. Doesn’t matter if you are str8, bi or gay; married, divorced or single, as long as you’re cis-male, CUT, HWP, truly sane and masculine, under 65yo who is, ultra-clean, DDF, bottom-only, verse or side, and have natural or trimmed (NOT shaved) body hair.

Respectfully, our sexual appetites & preferences do NOT include any CDs (this also means no women’s lingerie!) or fem-acting/appearing guys, UNCUT guys or guys who shave their pubic, abs or chest hair. To put it simply:

  • we ARE turned ON by truly masculine men with masculine features like hair on your cock and balls and (if you can grow it) hair on your abs and chest…
  • we are TURNED OFF by feminine features and women.
    We were both married to women at 1 point in our lives but finally woke up and now have zero desire to be sexual with anyone or anything feminine ever again. Again, no disrespect meant: we are just stating OUR sexual appetites and preferences.

    Lastly, we are NOT into drama of ANY kind - full stop.

NSA18 to 65 years ● 50km around USA Smyrna

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