Kinky Date28 to 58 years Finland Helsinki
BDSM Play Partner18 to 68 years ● 550km around USA Chino Hills
NSA18 to 80 years ● 550km around Spain Murcia

I am a black man, 5’'11" tall, 280 Lbs with black hair (currently wore shaved), and deep brown eyes. An ex-powerlifter I'm somewhat soft around the middle but still as strong as an ox. (Yes, I'm big but I'm working on reaching proper WPH.) I'm clean, vasectomy safe, emotionally stable, dependable, honest, patient, loyal, considerate, supportive, loving, and affectionate, fun-loving, and have a good sense of humor.

I am a strict, fair, and demanding Dom and as such I will be the final authority on the limits/parameters of your training, discipline, punishments, rules, and pleasures. Understanding, of course, that such limits and rules will depend on your gifts and any mutually agreed upon standards/rules we've established beforehand.) I play safe and sane. Your safety and well-being will be my primary concern and responsibility. Your primary responsibility will be to serve and please me.

My Ideal Person: You are a submissive female with an ardent desire to please. You have a wee bit of masochist in your nature as well and you find joy in serving. You are at peace with yourself and your sexuality.

Every day, you may be a mother, wife, daughter, career girl, student, boss, white-collar exec, blue-collar drone, waitress, butcher, baker, or candlestick maker…. etc. You are emotionally stable, dependable, honest, patient, loyal, considerate, open-minded, supportive, loving, and affectionate, fun-loving, and have a good sense of humor. (You are not a hater, nor are you bitter or negative)

Kinky Date20 to 65 years ● 150km around USA Houston

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