🌹 In the quiet before the storm, I imagine you
A kindred spirit who knows that desire is an art, not a frenzy.
A woman who craves the velvet weight of anticipation, the poetry of a whispered “please,”
and the electric dance between control and surrender.

Who I Am:
A connoisseur of contrasts—gentle hands that chart shivers, a mind that worships intellect as fiercely as it does the curve of your hips.
I thrive in the liminal: the space between a command and a plea, the gasp that follows a bite, the way trust bends but never breaks.
My kink is connection—ropes that bind like sonnets, power exchanged like sacred vows, and scenes ted with consent as the first brushstroke.

Seeking:
A woman unafraid to name her cravings, who sees submission as strength and dominance as devotion.
You might be a secret hedonist in lace and leather, or a quiet
who melts at the thrill of a well-placed touch.
Bring me your curiosity, your boundaries, your hunger to explore the shadows and the light.
Let’s blur the lines—between * and pleasure, reverence and rebellion, the sacred and the sinful.

Our Playground Could Be:**

  • Power Dynamics: A chess match of wills—sharp wit, sharper tension, and the sweet relief of yielding (or taking).
  • Sensation Alchemy: Wax, feathers, teeth… let’s turn nerve endings into constellations.
  • Roleplay Realms: Teacher/student, predator/prey, or a story we invent together—where fantasy bleeds into truth.

    Non-Negotiables:

  • Consent is our compass. Always.
  • Aftercare as ritual—warmth, whispers, and the quiet hum of “you’re safe here.”
  • Laughter as liturgy. Even saints smirk in the dark.

    First, Let’s:
    Share a fantasy that thrills you, a limit that guards you, or a scene that lives rent-free in your daydreams.
    I’ll match your honesty with mine, and we’ll build a world where wanting feels like worship.


    🔥 “Darling, let’s write a new language—one where every moan is a verb, every scar a love letter.”

    P.S. Safe words are sacred. Judgment is banned here. Magic is optional… but highly likely.


    🌙 Open to novices and veterans alike—curiosity and respect are the only prerequisites.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 35 years ● 500km around USA Rochester

IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A SMALL FRAMED LADY, id knock on my neighbors' door, skinny don't lIve here.
Also...
If you are in a romantically committed relationship or married- or there is another person who believes that you are- no need to send me any DMs, I'm not interested. Not interested in your polyamory ,not interested in your open relationship, not interested in your free pass , your hall pass, you're out of the zip code rule, or your threesome proposal....I am not fucking interested.
I will always take the female's side no matter what your sob story is. I WILL rat you out. 💋
Getting older only means you get more creative;-)
Must be at least 5'9" to ride this attraction and over the age of 35 but under 55* Also, Must be nearby as I'm not wanting a pen pal but rather someone to fuck me senseless and often if it's 🔥.
I like a lot of crazy things but it varies with each person. NO PILLOW PRINCESSES and NO, I will not Peg you!!!

Sorry, I am not a fan of newbies or fetish virgins who are timid, or can't decide on a sexual preference. I Love sexual freedom and everyone expressing themselves....But for the love of god, just say your f-ing gay if you're gay. I offer no judgement but instead- my sincere personal blessing and well wishes... I simply cannot compete with a cock.
I'm a powerhouse boss, stubborn, and natural redhead of Irish/swedish descent. That means I'm not desperate , I'm mouthy, and I also don't grow a lot of hair ;-), however, behind doors ....and sometimes not behind doors ;-)..... I am extremely submissive and love worshipping your body through sex.

BDSM Play Partner35 to 60 years ● 5km around USA Boise

I’m a 26 year old Bisexual(Leans fem) Pleasure Dom, Sadist and hypnotist looking for submissive, obedient women ready to be broken down and rebuilt to serve under my will. Your body and mind will belong to me entirely—trained, used, and molded into my perfect * slut and cum dump. I want complete submission and a commitment to online long-term control in a Total Power Exchange/BDSM dynamic.



You’ll listen to carefully chosen files to brainwash you deeper into obedience while also serving as a test subject for my hypnosis text scripts. Your transformation will be guided by my design, shaping you into exactly what I need—a toy that exists for my use and pleasure. Hypnosis changes will be long lasting State your kinks and limits, hypnosis kinks and fantasies. If you’re ready to surrender completely, contact me. No hesitation, just pure submission.



My Form:



Kinks: Evil tist, behaviour modification,
d Bi, Personality change, Gooning, power play, triggers, public play, *
, orgasm denial, Orgasm control, memory play, bimbofication, sluttification, slave training, Personality change, pet play, memory play, renaming, mental conditioning, brainwashing, , Objectification, wardrobe control, possession, corruption, transformation, mind break, mind fuck, bimbofication, sluttification, BDSM, Phantom touch, IQ Play, tentacle fuck, dollification, CNC Hypnosis, Covert, dronification, Housewife Patriarchy and miso, maid, mythology themes, occult themes, worship/Devotion, free use, exposure, slutboard/Only fans(ask if interested), Disinhibition

Limits: underage, gore, Vore, Being ghosted or lied to,
, underage, zero feedback, you barely converse outside of hypnosis session, MEN (READ THE AD)

BDSM Play Partner18 to 40 years Jamaica Mandeville

I’ve been scouring this site to see people’s views and perceptions of punishments and rewards. And of course, it’s a very subjective matter as there’s limits, preferences, and people’s opinions as well.
So let’s talk about what I consider punishments to be first:
Since I tend to like more extreme things, and have a higher tolerance, I’m going to need something that is more severe- especially since I have bratty tendencies, I’m looking to be corrected. And a punishment can be a NUMBER of things. Ex: infliction, control/restriction of outter communication (eg. family, friends); sensory deprivation, being tied up in a stress position (minutes, hours, days), , water boarding. Quite frankly I could go on. I want that psyche involvement. Make me so scared of you that I don’t want to act out because I know the punishment will be severe. I feel like with a M/s dynamic or most BDSM dynamics, the person who is not in a position of power should feel a sense of toward to person in power as a result of respect being integrated into the person who is not in power within the dynamic.

Now for rewards! Yay!:
Rewards are generally subjective to the sub/slave/pet/etc. personally, I love being rewarded with praise, cuddles and direct attention, taking care of any bruises or cuts you inflicted on me, princess treatment, less time in a stress position, allowing me to see my friends or go do something special, etc.
rewards shouldn’t be over given - as this sets the scene for greed and a sense of being spoiled, then the brattiness will never be corrected. But rewards are necessary because I need to know when I’m doing good, and you approve of those certain actions or you’re pleased with how I am.

But i definitely want to hear other peoples opinions, and what type of rewards/punishments you give or receive.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 500km around Canada Calgary
Kinky Date21 to 28 years ● 40km around USA Murfreesboro

57 male bi seeks a Femdom Lifestyle Mistress..

LOCAL TO SACRAMENTO ONLY.

NO OR ANYTHING FINANCIAL, NO PROFESSIONALS IN ANY SEX BUSINESS

MONOGAMOUS ONE ON ONE IS A REQUIREMENT

Kind but overwhelmingly Dominant. 23 years experience needs a Mistress with experience to run this one.

I wish to cook and clean and worship hand and foot day and night. I did so for 5 years being kept indoors the whole time except when Mistress took me out. No male clothing, no car,
, phone... No autonomy or human identity... My personal heaven. I just wish to repeat it and remain that way til the end.

We would start online learning about each other. Regular communication, transparency and truth in learning about each other and what we wish from each other. Then moving to Mistress's schedule. Days weeks at a time, at first we'd take it slower just to get to know, it won't take me long so it's up to my Owner.

Eventually I wish to ultimately move in, share expenses and have Mistress decide literally everything having completely command and autonomy over this sissy puppy toy.

24/7 POWER EXCHANGE

I have been exposed to most every form of kink and enjoy almost all of them. I'm very oral, sexually but also in play as my body is very expressive moaning, crying trembling stretching. It is a natural reaction but most who have seen me be played with enjoy the show. şïşşy is very intelligent, kind, loyal monogamous loving romantic and extremely slaveishly obedient. You will literally Own a true slave toy with zero resistance or drama. No guilt trips, this puppy firmly believes in chastity as an additional extension of Mistress's power and that she is this baby doll's SOLE SOURCE of, well, everything! Eating sleeping standing going potty they are all to be asked for. If Mistress rarely gives physical release that is the way She desires it so it is my greatest joy to be able to offer that kind of power. It truly is my personality and mentality.

COOK, CLEAN, WORSHIP HAND AND FOOT UNLIMITED.

I'm an EXCELLENT cook and baker. I clean floor to ceiling fan. I don't need to be constantly commanded. I am proactive and constantly learning and improving myself thru podcasts articles etc on how to be a better slave for my Mistress. Again, I did this before so it's not a hopeful fantasy. My former Mistress moved for the sake of work 😔 That was 7 years ago. I've been on dating sites since November. The only time I'm my life. I'm extremely monogamous and desire the same in a one on one loving power exchange lifestyle 24/7.

As I did before if I'm allowed to wait on You and make your most craved and crazy dreams come true -

YOU'LL NEVER LIFT A FINGER FOR YOURSELF EVER AGAIN!

BDSM/Fetish Family35 to 69 years ● 65km around USA Elk Grove

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