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Looking for a powerful strong giantess goddess that towers over me, easily overpowering and terrifying presence. A goddess that treats me like food.

I’m interested in someone curious, self-aware, and unhurried. Someone who appreciates subtle power, emotional safety, and tension that builds rather than explodes.
You don’t need to be loud to be interesting—you notice moments, pauses, and presence. You’re open to being guided by someone calm enough to wait and attentive enough to listen.
If psychological connection, trust, and deliberate pacing matter to you, we’ll likely understand each other.

The Soho Mean Girls are an exclusive collective of NYC based Dominas who specialize in safe, sane, consensual, legal, BDSM/Fetish play.

We strive to maintain an impeccable reputation within the BDSM world, with our fellow kinky professionals alike. Our diverse, multi-talented, and powerful legion of badass Dominas pride Ourselves in the ability to create cathartic experiences for those who seek real & authentic BDSM play with a true understanding of the necessity of kink.

I’m not here to play innocent, and I’m definitely not here for boring.
I like desire that’s spoken out loud, boundaries that are clear, and tension you can feel before a single touch happens. I flirt with intent. I tease on purpose.
I’m comfortable with craving, and turned on by mutual hunger. I appreciate control, surrender, and the delicious space where power shifts back and forth.
If you’re curious, open-minded, and not afraid of wanting more than “just chatting,” we’ll probably get along dangerously well. I’m not promising anything—but I am inviting you to find out.
Message me if you: • like tension that borders on reckless
• enjoy direct words and lingering thoughts
• want someone who knows what they’re doing—and why
Fair warning: once the spark hits, I don’t do half-measures.

Hey I’m usually a goofball so excuse the overly serious tone here.

The following applies to kink and life in general. I am attracted to subversion and eccentricity: not the performative variety but the unselfconscious kind. I abhor mindless ritual (like watching TV for its own sake) and strict rules that arbitrarily police the bounds of acceptable behaviour. I cherish exploration and carnal spontaneity.

I’m seeking a switch, but really what that means is I want someone who favours fluidity over one set dynamic. Assertiveness may not be your default state for example—that’s fine, I don’t care about “experience” or familiarity with a given state or role, I want to see that part of you because it is you who is the subject of my interest.

Quick stats
Mischievous, non-malicious troll
Love languages of kink, humour and song playlists.
Ironic media enthusiast
Crossdresser
Monogamous, childfree (and seeking same)

My kink philosophy
Kink is the shared exploration of our authentic selves (but hot). It is a love language, a marriage of deviants.
I don't see the need for an always firm line between dominance and submission. And I love flipping traditional dynamics on their head.

Kinks I like most in a SO:
Power struggle
Name-calling / verbal *** / hatefucking
Something weird

My kink results
100% switch, brat, brat tamer, ageplayer, degrader, degradee, hunter, prey

ISO single female or lesbian couple looking to add some spice to their holiday season. I’d love to take care you orally before moving on. Looking for multiple rounds so please have a high sex drive and enough stamina to stay in the game. I enjoy choking, hair pulling, power control, cnc, breeding and overall hot passionate sex as well as other kinks on my profile. If this sounds like something you’d be interested in experiencing then please reach out I’ll be in touch with you shortly. I’m a small business owner so I am a busy guy but I’ll make time for this. I need it as much as you want it.

Wanna a find a dominant or submissive partner to play with

Looking for good conversation, steady energy, and someone who understands the power of praise and intentional care. Princess treatment appreciated. 😇

I’m a Dom drawn to order, authority, and deliberate imbalance.
Mid-century domestic aesthetics (house dresses, aprons) paired with negotiated discipline and clear expectations.

I explore consensual gender-role and *** fantasies as roleplay only. This is about power, ritual, and control within agreed boundaries… not real-world beliefs.

I’m interested in a submissive partner who understands layered dynamics:
submissive with me, dominant with women, capable of confidence, discretion, and clear communication. Everyone involved is informed, consenting, and adult.

I value patience, vetting, and negotiation.
I’m not impulsive. I’m intentional.

If you understand the difference between fantasy and reality, and you’re drawn to structured power done thoughtfully, we may align.

I’m someone who values intention, communication, and real chemistry. I’m drawn to kink because it’s where trust, consent, and creativity intersect—not just labels or aesthetics. I know what I enjoy, I’m clear about my boundaries, and I respect yours just as much.
I’m thoughtful, curious, and a little mischievous. I appreciate humor, emotional intelligence, and people who can talk openly about desires without ego. I enjoy exploring power dynamics with those who value consent, presence, and mutual respect—and who know how to balance seriousness with play. I’m here for genuine connections and intentional dynamics, not rushed assumptions. Quality over quantity, always.

Grounded. Confident. Discreet.
I enjoy chemistry, consent, and exploring power with intention.
If you’re curious, communicative, and appreciate restraint as much as release—we’ll get along.

Not into chaos or collect-and-discard.
I prefer tension, trust, and taking my time.
Curiosity rewarded. Boundaries respected. Privacy guaranteed.

Discreet. Intentional.
Power exchange with patience and respect.
Message if you understand the difference between fantasy and care

I like to tell myself I have a lot of self control and willpower, but I do give in to a lot of urges that form bad habits and I do kinda wish I could have someone to remind me how *** I am while also wielding that power to make me behave better and form better practices for my benefit and theirs. Looking to give service to a proper Dom, too. I want to do things to learn to be a better sub and a better person in general! Maybe someone wants to join me on this journey? Idk. Hit me up if you want; I am on Discord and Fetlife also. We can do this all online correspondence or even meet irl if things go well. Also please if you ever wish to meet in person at all, you have to have your own transportation; I have mine also.

An ideal playdate for us begins well before we ever meet in person.

We value thoughtful pre-date planning with someone who is collaborative, communicative, and respectful. We want to talk through interests, limits, consent frameworks, and logistics together in advance. During planning, we expect mutual input—but once a scene begins, we are looking for someone who is comfortable deferring to me as the dominant partner and final decision-maker.

Structure & Energy

Clear negotiation beforehand; no assumptions

Defined roles, expectations, and boundaries

A shared understanding that power exchange is intentional and consensual

Comfort engaging with both of us as a couple, not separately


During the Scene

I take the lead and direct the scene. The ideal partner is someone who:

-Is eager to participate within a power structure where I am in control

-Is attentive, responsive, and grounded

-Can stay present and adaptive while following direction


My wife enjoys intense, consensual roleplay centered on submission and captivity themes, which are always negotiated ahead of time. These may include:

-Captive or ownership-style dynamics (e.g., caging, collaring, restraint as symbols of control)

-Heavy impact play, within agreed limits

-Verbal and that reins her femininity
(gender-affirming language only; demeaning terms used intentionally and consensually, never dysphoric)

-Clear consequences or punishments for disobedience, as discussed in advance


Some interests—such as bottom play—require very thorough prior discussion and are never assumed.


Care & After

Strong attention to aftercare for everyone involved

Emotional check-ins and accountability

Space to decompress, reconnect, and communicate


What Matters Most

We are looking for someone who understands that:

CNC is a negotiated fantasy, not a license

Consent is ongoing and revocable

is intentional, specific, and affirming—not careless

Trust is built through communication, patience, and respect


Chemistry matters—but compatibility, emotional intelligence, and respect for our dynamic matter more.


Please read our bio before sending me a DM

I am a Dominant who leads with presence, patience, and structure rather than . My authority is calm, consistent, and intentional. While my energy leans toward a Daddy-style dynamic, there is no age play or infantilization. I do not use or cruelty. I build my submissive emotionally, mentally, and physically. Obedience is met with care. Respect is mutual and non-negotiable.

I am seeking a submissive who values routine, service, and harmony; someone who finds peace in clear expectations and fulfillment in alignment, not resistance. I am not interested in bratty dynamics or constant power struggles.

This is for someone seeking more than occasional play, but not yet full-time cohabitation; a woman who desires a lifestyle-oriented power exchange grounded in consistency, care, and intentional leadership.

Further expectations, routines, and compatibility details are shared through thoughtful conversation.

Endowed, and aching; I am looking for a Woman (or a dominant-led Couple) who finds power in dismantling a man of my stature.

I suffer from profound decision fatigue and crave the relief that only total psychological and physical surrender can provide.

I don't want a seat at the table; I want to be at your feet.

I'm looking for a long-term live-in relationship with a confident, dominant woman who knows what she wants and enjoys being in control. I'm open, loyal, and eager to please, seeking a powerful connection based on trust, honesty, and shared fantasies.

I’m especially drawn to women who embrace their sensuality and take pleasure in exploring cuckold or FLR (female-led relationship) dynamics, including experiences with well-endowed Black men (BBC). I’m ready to devote myself fully to the right woman—one who wants to be adored, spoiled, and treated like the Queen she is.

If you’re a woman who enjoys power, passion, and complete devotion, I’d love to connect and see where our chemistry takes us.

Dom Daddy with a variety of kinks and fetishes, thriving at exploring boundaries whilst caring and molding you to becoming the best baby/sub/pet for Me. If you're still interested in connecting with Me, please know that I do not suffer fools gladly. I expect anyone reaching out to take our potential connection seriously because I am very selective about who I engage with.

We’re a confident, kinky couple (M/5’7 & F/5’2) who love exploring power, pleasure, and the delicious tension that builds when trust and attraction collide. Secure in our connection and hungry for more, we’re looking to meet women and couples who enjoy shared experiences, creative scenes, and the freedom to get a little filthy without losing the human connection.

We’re into:

• Kink with a mix of tenderness and filth
• Power exchange, sensory play, and teasing restraint
• Voyeurism, group energy, and shared partners (not always same-room, but always consensual)
• Feminine energy that takes charge, melts into trust, or both

• Couples who crave play that starts with curiosity and ends with tangled limbs and big grins
  
  ❌ Single cis men (thanks but no thanks)
  ❌ Lack of clarity or people who ghost after “hi”
  ✅ Communication, consent, and aftercare — even in casual encounters
  
  Whether you want to be watched, touched, edged, or shared — or you’re just craving a space to be wanted without judgment — slide into our inbox. Tell us what you fantasize about. Tell us what you’ve never said out loud.
  
  We’re ready when you are.

I take the lead and deliberate.
I’m drawn to men who enjoy structure, surrender, and clear authority, where power is intentional and fully consensual.
Submissive energy is valued, experience respected, and silver foxes step straight to the front.

We are an androgynous, dominant couple from the Gothic scene - two men who view power, control, and submission not just as a game, but as an expression of trust, intensity, and mutual respect.

We are looking for a woman with a masochistic, submissive nature who understands that submission is not a loss or self-sacrifice, but a conscious choice and personal fulfillment. A Powermaso or Service-Sub who finds strength in letting go, following structures, and enjoying the depth of such dynamics.

We live polyamory consciously and transparently. What we seek is not a quick encounter, but a connection where dominance, emotion, and intellectual closeness are equally important. Clothing, stereotypes, or societal expectations do not interest us. We are androgynous and live freely, with an open mindset. One of us was born intersex, so we desire openness and understanding regarding this.

You should bring emotional maturity, curiosity, and the ability to engage in intense dynamics with mind, heart, and body. We are not looking for a puppet, but a woman who knows what she wants, while still being willing to be guided.

If you love dark aesthetics, understand BDSM not as a mere technique but as an energy between people, do not view practices as strictly dominant or submissive, and feel that submission for you is more about trust than weakness, then we would love to meet you.