TL;DR: Sassy, and at your service

Greetings, traveler,

I only stepped out of the hypno fetish closet and into true mental manipulation early last year; with that said, I have had a lifelong affliction of hypno-horniness that has led to reading, role-play, and regret of never exploring a foundational part of my sexuality. The majority of my relationships have been female-led, but if you find yourself intrigued don't hesitate to reach out.

Interests I would like to explore
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  • IQ play with a bubbly persona, a loss of the perception of time, contentment, and a fuzzy awareness

  • I pride myself on my skills of deduction, and the idea of the use of amnesia triggers to create a sense of confusion and mystery is highly alluring.

  • Conditioning over a period of time; I find the idea of playing with my sense of self like a form of edgeplay, and with my fascination with fictional characters who take on multiple identities, I would love some true roleplay.

  • I have always enjoyed a good brat taming experience; ergo, resistance play where there is a gradual...or sudden loss of control is something that I find myself fantasizing about often.

    Outside of hypnosis I have a gluttonous love of horror media and would like to see what really scares me, my reactions, and play with that loss of control.

    A combination of a humorous gift and how I've received affection in the past has instilled a curiosity in pet play and the sensations that come with that.

    What I enjoy in a hypnotist
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    Someone with an equally vivid imagination, a storyteller who loves to use the theater of the mind to become a director of a scene and enjoys collaboration

    Voices that create resonance by playing with cadence, pitch, and tone

    Deviously minded but with kindness, kind of like a double chocolate habanero cookie.

    Clever wordplay; I enjoy a flowing use of language layered with suggestion.

    Boundaries


    I'd like to establish a rapport and trust, allowing the dynamic to be organic.

    It goes without saying: respect. I fully intend on being kind and empathetic, and I'd like to hope the same.

    If you are an active listener, wickedly creative, don't mind working with someone new to exploring the edges of experience, and you don't mind a little whimsy, you may absolutely DM me.

BDSM Play Partner29 to 80 years ● 500km around Canada Orleans

An ideal playdate for us begins well before we ever meet in person.

We value thoughtful pre-date planning with someone who is collaborative, communicative, and respectful. We want to talk through interests, limits, consent frameworks, and logistics together in advance. During planning, we expect mutual input—but once a scene begins, we are looking for someone who is comfortable deferring to me as the dominant partner and final decision-maker.

Structure & Energy

Clear negotiation beforehand; no assumptions

Defined roles, expectations, and boundaries

A shared understanding that power exchange is intentional and consensual

Comfort engaging with both of us as a couple, not separately


During the Scene

I take the lead and direct the scene. The ideal partner is someone who:

-Is eager to participate within a power structure where I am in control

-Is attentive, responsive, and grounded

-Can stay present and adaptive while following direction


My wife enjoys intense, consensual roleplay centered on submission and captivity themes, which are always negotiated ahead of time. These may include:

-Captive or ownership-style dynamics (e.g., caging, collaring, restraint as symbols of control)

-Heavy impact play, within agreed limits

-Verbal and that reins her femininity
(gender-affirming language only; demeaning terms used intentionally and consensually, never dysphoric)

-Clear consequences or punishments for disobedience, as discussed in advance


Some interests—such as bottom play—require very thorough prior discussion and are never assumed.


Care & After

Strong attention to aftercare for everyone involved

Emotional check-ins and accountability

Space to decompress, reconnect, and communicate


What Matters Most

We are looking for someone who understands that:

CNC is a negotiated fantasy, not a license

Consent is ongoing and revocable

is intentional, specific, and affirming—not careless

Trust is built through communication, patience, and respect


Chemistry matters—but compatibility, emotional intelligence, and respect for our dynamic matter more.


Please read our bio before sending me a DM

BDSM Play Partner29 to 59 years ● 140km around USA Richmond
Kinky Date18 to 37 years ● 325km around USA Arkadelphia

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