When reaching out to me if you do not include your age with your location city & state in the message it will be ignored.

I am seeking a male sub/switch who is between the ages of 28-60. Absolutely NO EXCEPTIONS to that age range, so don't even ask.

Looking for someone who can fully to commit to a minimum of 2+ sessions per month and medium online interaction between sessions such as kinky calls and messaging.

Where most people are only vetting for similar kinks and STI free, I'm vetting for compatibility, longevity, and overall satisfaction of the dynamic as well. This means I have an extremely thorough vetting process and do not do casual encounters. If you are looking for immediate play or one time interactions do not respond to this posting.

I’m seeking a cisgender male sub/switch between the age of 28-60 located in the Dallas/Fort Worth Texas area or Honolulu, Oahu, Hawaii. I would prefer someone who is into sensual domination, that also likes impact play and anal play. Must be drama and drug free and have a current full 10 test STI panel within 90 days or less. I’m not looking for a one time use sub/switch, but rather someone who is wanting regular sessions at least 2+ times per month or more. Weekly sessions is ideal. I am willing to take on subs/switches new to Femdom, but l have an extensive protocol regarding that type of interaction. I am open to all body types & ethnicities. Tattoos and body modifications are ok, and I like facial hair.

The expectations I have for my subs is pretty simple:

Transparency and honesty
Commitment to our dynamic
Consent
Respect my limits, consent, privacy, and boundaries

About me:

Kink since 2003. BDSM since 2012. Domme leaning switch since 2019. Currently I am engaging in M/s dynamics only as of late 2024.
What I offer my play partner is the opportunity to engage in a safe and consensual dynamic where their needs are met, their limits are respected, and their consent is required. I want to leave my partners better off than the way I found them.

I offer my partners:

Friendship
Emotional Support
Positive Guidance
Healthy Habits & Routines
Physical Intimacy
Safe Kink Exploration
Aftercare
Transparency & Honesty
Respect
Consent
Commitment
Respecting limits, consent, privacy, and boundaries

BDSM Play Partner28 to 60 years ● 25km around USA Dallas

I am a confident, experienced Dominant who thrives on control, structure, and the art of power exchange. In and out of the scene, I value intelligence, respect, and loyalty—and I expect the same devotion from those who wish to serve me. My style is assertive yet intentional: I command with both authority and care, knowing that true submission flourishes under trust and clarity.

I enjoy exploring a wide range of kinks—from ritualistic discipline and protocol training to *** play and psychological dominance. I believe in balance: I take pleasure in pushing limits, but never at the expense of safety or trust.

What I’m Looking For
I seek a genuine, loyal submissive who understands that service is not just an act, but a mindset. I want someone willing to dedicate time and attention to becoming the best version of themselves under my guidance. Obedience, consistency, and communication are non‑negotiable.

Qualities I value in a sub:

A natural desire to please and surrender control

Reliability and honesty

Readiness to learn and grow under training

Emotional maturity and patience

Dynamics I Enjoy
Protocols & rituals (daily check‑ins, tasks, structured rules)

Tease and denial, edging, psychological control

Discipline (spanking, impact play, corrective measures)

Service-oriented submission (domestic service, personal tasks)

Worship (body, feet, clothing, or symbolic objects)

Hard limits: Non-consensual harm, unsafe practices, dishonesty, disobedience.

What You Can Expect From Me
You will receive guidance, structure, and the satisfaction of knowing you belong to someone who values your devotion. In return, you’ll find discipline, challenge, and pleasure in service. I reward obedience and dedication with my attention and care, while failure or disrespect has consequences.

Looking for a loyal sub

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If your goal is quick hookups, casual meetups, or free-flowing erotic content—I am not your playground. I will not be sending photos or videos for your entertainment. If that’s all you’re after… scroll on. [addition: this is a hard limit for me, anyone requesting photos will be blocked. I will choose when and at what stage i am happy to progress to sharing my irl life with an online dynamic, if this is not acceptable, then do not engage]

For those still reading: I am happy to engage in remote toy play, though I am not seeking in-person meetings in the near future. If the dynamic, relationship, or interactions ever reached a point where meeting in person or sharing media became relevant, that could be discussed—but only if I feel a genuine connection worth sharing.

I am a fully submissive woman with strong masochistic tendencies, craving the nuanced interplay of intellectual and physical dominance from a partner who may be a sadist, a Daddy, or a Sir/Master. I thrive in dynamic, mentally stimulating interactions where words, gestures, and intent carry weight, where obedience is never hollow, and commands are meaningful because they are earned and understood.

I am flirtatious, bright, and capable of filthy indulgence when the moment calls for it, yet I also carry a quiet need for care. I crave a Daddy who can guide, nurture, and attend to the subtler layers of a submissive’s mind and heart, helping me find comfort even in moments I struggle to reach it myself.

My submission is genuine—I to it. I carry a spark of oppositional defiance, but that fire exists to be challenged, directed, and ultimately consumed by a Sir or Master who truly understands the art of dominance beyond s***w orders. I also recognize that obedience cannot be inspired through ego alone, but through mastery, presence, and the ability to balance intellect and control.

If you can navigate that delicate interplay—acknowledging each person’s unique moods and needs as much as I do—then perhaps you are the one, or the ones, I am searching for. I am open to these roles being fulfilled by different individuals if no single person embodies them all, as long as each connection is respectful, attentive, and thoughtfully dominant.

BDSM Play Partner30 to 60 years ● 500km around UK Exeter

Hi I'm Goddess Kitty 🐈‍⬛✨A Dominant Kitten looking for obedient worshipers to serve as my minions in the DC Baltimore Area I don't like my time wasted so let's get straight to the point

I'm looking for Service Oriented Submission from good boys only:

  1. 🐕‍🦺 Guard Dog / Bodyguard ~ Collared, obedient, protective. You’ll follow me everywhere, events, outings, even the bathroom. Always ready, silent unless commanded to bark, keeping me safe and adored.

  2. 🚘 Chauffeur ~ Drive me anywhere I wish, whenever I wish. A Goddess should never have to worry about getting anywhere. An up-to-date clean vehicle is required for this position.

  3. 💇🏾‍♀️ Hair Carebear ~ Wash, detangle, braid, wrap, and style my crown exactly as I command. Massage my scalp until I purr. Treat every strand like silk spun from divinity. This is a weekly devotion.

  4. 💸 *** / Cash Cow / Human ATM ~ Your wallet is my property this week. I drain you until all you have left is enough to pay your bills. You’ll fund my pleasures, my projects, my needs of the week. I’m not stopping until I decide you’re empty.

  5. 🏡 Cuck Host ~ Provide me with a kinky safe space to play, create content, and escape vanilla life. Cucks worship from the sidelines and serve upon command. My comfort and creativity cums first.

    I have more holes I- I mean roles to be filled🤭 but this is what I'm looking for at the moment. I'm looking for actual players who want to submit to me👸🏾Not someone who just wants a quick taste. Go waste somebody else's time. I do not respond to just anyone. I only respond to respectful messages of intent. Tribute💵 30

    Not looking for a dominant these are submissive roles

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