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The Equalitarian Dominant is one who controls by teaching, mentoring and leading. This Dominant feels and knows that when they find a comparable submissive that things will happen as a progression of the interaction. It is not the activities but the surrender as the result of the Domination that is the objective and enjoyment. Creativity is an important part of this situation. These are the more intellectual, into the philosophy/psychology mechanism of this lifestyle. They do not need many "rules" like the Democratic type, nor do they like the heavy S&M activities; preferring submission to occur as a result of an instilled desire in the submissive to surrender. Sensuousness is the rule and is given as a form of sensuous stimulation. Light as opposed to severe. Sensuous *** is a popular activity in this area. They attract a submissive who truly and naturally wants to please, and who will observe and sense what the Dominant is communicating. They understand the concept of respect and surrender and can make it happen after initial learning with little or no additional instructions. There is not much downside to these relationships, because they not only grasp the concepts, but can make it happen too; and their attraction is based on strong mutual respect. Their strong relationship is not readily apparent to the unobservant, but they are always subtly in the 24-7 mode.

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