So I had a perfect situation going: she was also married in an ENM relationship. Let’s call her “Jen”. Jen wanted a regular, recurring thing and so did I. She was cute af. Out of respect for her, I won’t go into any details, but we went on a couple of dates and played a couple of times, then I had to end it.

Why?

Jen and I were sexually incompatible: It turns out that through this “girlfriend” experiment, I realized that my own sexual identity is around how hot and erotic my relationship with my own wife is.

However, my beautiful, sweet, owned wife and sub’s actions may have ruined vanilla sex for me - at least in a 1:1 setting. When we play together with others, our dynamic is still active even if it’s invisible…

Back to my mini relationship: she wasn’t into BDSM, but she was a natural Dom. She loved to take control and keep it. The power struggle was sort of fun at first, but then it just became sort of…blah.

Of course, I asked my wife for advice since we’re communicating this whole time anyway, and she at least didn’t call me crazy when I said that I would strongly prefer a slightly kinkier relationship, and that I thought I would start to lead with that approach…

So here I am! Looking for someone that feels easy to hang out with, and can be real, and honest, and your *** true self - the Sub who needs to be praised when she’s a good girl, and gets delicious spankings if she’s being a brat.

In return, you’ll get a kind-hearted friend and Dominant play partner. I won’t be your Dom on principal, but I will act JUST like one - based on your boundaries, needs and desires - once a week or so 😈

Don’t be shy😘

NSA25 to 50 years ● 95km around USA Argyle

I am a confident, experienced Dominant who thrives on control, structure, and the art of power exchange. In and out of the scene, I value intelligence, respect, and loyalty—and I expect the same devotion from those who wish to serve me. My style is assertive yet intentional: I command with both authority and care, knowing that true submission flourishes under trust and clarity.

I enjoy exploring a wide range of kinks—from ritualistic discipline and protocol training to sensory play and psychological dominance. I believe in balance: I take pleasure in pushing limits, but never at the expense of safety or trust.

What I’m Looking For
I seek a genuine, loyal submissive who understands that service is not just an act, but a mindset. I want someone willing to dedicate time and attention to becoming the best version of themselves under my guidance. Obedience, consistency, and communication are non‑negotiable.

Qualities I value in a sub:

A natural desire to please and surrender control

Reliability and honesty

Readiness to learn and grow under training

Emotional maturity and patience

Dynamics I Enjoy
Protocols & rituals (daily check‑ins, tasks, structured rules)

Tease and denial, edging, psychological control

Discipline (spanking, impact play, corrective measures)

Service-oriented submission (domestic service, personal tasks)

Worship (body, feet, clothing, or symbolic objects)

Hard limits: Non-consensual harm, unsafe practices, dishonesty, disobedience.

What You Can Expect From Me
You will receive guidance, structure, and the satisfaction of knowing you belong to someone who values your devotion. In return, you’ll find discipline, challenge, and pleasure in service. I reward obedience and dedication with my attention and care, while failure or disrespect has consequences.

Looking for a loyal sub

BDSM Play Partner25km around USA Rockwall

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