Women seeking Men - BDSM

If BDSM dating is your thing, if you're kink-curious, or if you've been quietly hoping to meet someone who actually understands the beauty of bondage, discipline, dominance, and submission… hi. Welcome home. 

On FET, we're here for the full kinky spectrum. That includes BDSM in every shape and shade, of course, but also everything beyond it: roleplay, power dynamics, sensual curiosity, niche desires, and real community vibes. 

Because kink isn't one-size-fits-all. And neither is attraction. 

 

Not Just Profiles — A Proper Kink Community 

FET isn't a vanilla app with a dark mode toggle. 

We're a worldwide kinkster community powered by curiosity, candor, and consent that actually means something. 

 - Some members love the ritual — the preparation, the scene, the aftercare. 

 - Some crave the adrenaline rush of pushing limits with someone they trust. 

 - Some are drawn to the negotiation, the vulnerability, and the deep intimacy BDSM demands. 

 

Whatever your entry point, you've found your people. 

This is what kink dating was always meant to be: deliberate, exciting, and honest. 

 

Women Seeking Men: BDSM Dating Connections 

This space was made for women seeking men who speak the language of kink. 

 - Maybe you want a partner who knows safe words, aftercare, and real scene negotiation. 

 - Maybe you're into restraints, impact play, or the psychological edge of domination and submission. 

 - Maybe you've outgrown the awkwardness of hinting at your desires on mainstream apps. 

 - Or maybe you're a guy looking for a place where BDSM dating is treated with the respect it deserves. 

 

On FET, you connect with people who came here for the same thing: intensity, trust, and shared hunger. 

 

Discover BDSM Personals Built for You 

Mainstream dating platforms treat kink as a checkbox, not a lifestyle. 

That's why BDSM personals actually work in a space like FET. 

Here, you can be detailed, specific, and completely transparent about your desires. 

You can: 

 

 - Design a profile that captures your kink identity 

 - Post a free Kinky Ad outlining your scene preferences 

 - Spank someone's profile to get noticed 

 - Start conversations with compatible kinksters in the BDSM Chat 

 - Learn, share, and debate in the Forum 

 

Whether you're exploring for the first time or you've been in the scene for years, it all comes down to finding the right match. 

 

More Than Just BDSM Dating 

FET is one of the internet's most active BDSM communities, but it's built for so much more than matchmaking. 

FET is where dating, education, and kinky culture overlap. 

 - Where first-timers learn from experienced players. 

 - Where safewords aren't just respected, they're expected. 

 - Where discovering a new kink is just a conversation away. 

 

Great scenes don't happen by accident.  

 

Curious About BDSM Scenes or Ongoing Dynamics? 

Some kinksters prefer one-off explorations and variety. Others want a committed D/s relationship with depth and continuity. 

On FET, you chart the course: 

 - You choose what to try and what to skip. 

 - You negotiate every scene on your terms. 

 - You decide whether it's a night or a lifestyle. 

 

No scripts. No assumptions. Just kinksters connecting with intention. 

 

Ready for Fetish Dating That Means Something? 

Whether you're looking for BDSM personals, women seeking men who understand the scene, or a community that takes your desires seriously… 

FET is where it clicks. 

Sign up, explore profiles, enter the conversation, and meet kinksters who match your intensity. 

Keep it kinky. Keep it consensual. Find your match on FET today. 

So… I am writing this because a lot of people seem to be confused with…let’s call it “The inner workings” of
B.D.S.M. ( not here of course, just in general)...
Bdsm and M/s are separate things, M/s may or may not contain elements of bdsm.
The bdsm community outnumber the True M/s people by a huge amount.
True M/s couples (or groups) are not that common.
They appear common because bdsm people mostly believe that M/s is a part of bdsm.
And bdsm people often, in fact usually blur the distinction between M/s and Dom/sub.
They throw around terms such as slave and Master like candy but those words are like the word love to me and should never just be thrown around.
Mostly, they do not understand (or accept) slave, as property.
In the bdsm world most activities revolve around “scenes”
This is where the term slave gets *d, people always used to use the term submissive which is the correct term, but the word slave seems to be in fashion. Something that people don’t understand the totality of the word slave.
Now in True M/s lives, the slave gives permission and consent to her/his Master when the slave is collared.
Therefor the Master never needs consent again.
However, many in the bdsm world won’t understand or appreciate this.
They also mostly won’t appreciate that the slave is Master’s property and He can do anything He so wishes, so **
and **** are largely mute points.
Because for it to be real, there cannot be any limits.
Sex, massage, dancing, seduction etc.
She always looks and smells divine.
A true slave weaves the essence of love, honor, high ideals, and strong desire to grow spiritually in these areas…as well as all aspects in life. It is well to see how the Master describes this subject. To Honor…To Love…High Ideals…And a strong Desire to grow Spiritually…Are not only how the Master describes this subject…But is the reason why Master…is…Master…
But everyone must take responsibility for their own reality. It is an art, and as such requires not only study and practice but also the inspiration and the love-hate relationship all artists have with their craft.
Through experience of Master’s…They can tell you what the two trademarks are of all True women are:

• The ability to laugh, even at the worst horrors…And…

• The ability to throw jargon out the door and discern the heart of every matter while never taking any matter too seriously.
The simple reason for these abilities is that by actually doing Your own reality and actually experiencing the magickal universe instead of merely reading about it, these abilities are automatically developed.
T/they should be overjoyed with T/their common connection…W/we all recognize the potential that results in the formation of this union…it is merely the beginning of something new…
T/they should be empowered by T/their sexual Magick…and though it transforming into the beginning of who T/they should be…The Beauty of the connection that is so Strong…no Limits…total Trust…above all Loyalty… Did You all read that?? Above All Loyalty… If Master and slave can not be loyal then it is Not a true M/s relationship, it is Dom/sub relationship. A M/s relationship is stronger than Any Marriage anywhere on Earth and should be treated as such! It is a lifetime commitment! That is why there are only a handful of “True” M\s relationships in the world!
Everything in balance.
A True slave should trust in her intuition and nurture her environment of deep devotion, patience, and intense passion…sometimes in silence…
Master and slave together set the standards for which direction they want their life to go.
The slaves’ opinion is always listened to by Master; but in the end the slave knows that His decision is Final.
Every Master strives for “the slave that comes willingly on bended knee” that His slave learns to just pick up on these things over time and doesn’t have to be told or punished anymore.
Its understanding more than just sex, its learning about each other

BDSM/Fetish Family5km around USA Seattle

I won't respond to you, if you are not local to me.
I visit Mexico during the winter... Canadian winters suck lol. I am able to work remotely. 🎉

Seeking service oriented boys for real life service in Pickering Ontario. Also another service sub in Mérida Mexico during winter. No cybersex. No meet and beat. Long term service only.

If I get distracted, please do not take offense and just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. So it's your responsibility to keep in contact. With multiple businesses and in and out of the country, things get hectic lol

In Canada I require my boy to serve in my home, warehouse, computer work, etc. CFnm. Please read my profile. Available hours are critical. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month.

In Mexico, Seeking an English speaking service oriented boy.
Helping me with my Spanish, serving as a translator, helping me with whatever service I require. In my garden, in my home, foot massages, etc.

I move slowly, I love to train and keep a boy for years. Not into Mommy or AB play.

For my dedicated personal boys, this is not meet and beat. We spend multiple dates getting to know each other BEFORE any play or service occurs. I will use your personal talents and knowledge to better my life.
I enjoy CFnm, collar/leash, sensual to medium intensity bdsm play. Optional interests are violet wand, male chastity and going to local events... those we can discuss and compromise.
Not looking for sex, long distance or sexting. Cock cages are hot but not necessary. Not interested in cbt or your cock.
I am married to a kinkster and I am looking for a casual play partner only.
Are you seeking a long term play partner, submission to a mature realistic Domme, friendship and serving a Mistress... Message me.

BDSM Play Partner30 to 99 years ● 100km around Canada Pickering

BDSM Dating - Fetish Personals

Women seeking Men - BDSM

If BDSM dating is your thing, if you're kink-curious, or if you've been quietly hoping to meet someone who actually understands the beauty of bondage, discipline, dominance, and submission… hi. Welcome home. 

On FET, we're here for the full kinky spectrum. That includes BDSM in every shape and shade, of course, but also everything beyond it: roleplay, power dynamics, sensual curiosity, niche desires, and real community vibes. 

Because kink isn't one-size-fits-all. And neither is attraction. 

 

Not Just Profiles — A Proper Kink Community 

FET isn't a vanilla app with a dark mode toggle. 

We're a worldwide kinkster community powered by curiosity, candor, and consent that actually means something. 

 - Some members love the ritual — the preparation, the scene, the aftercare. 

 - Some crave the adrenaline rush of pushing limits with someone they trust. 

 - Some are drawn to the negotiation, the vulnerability, and the deep intimacy BDSM demands. 

 

Whatever your entry point, you've found your people. 

This is what kink dating was always meant to be: deliberate, exciting, and honest. 

 

Women Seeking Men: BDSM Dating Connections 

This space was made for women seeking men who speak the language of kink. 

 - Maybe you want a partner who knows safe words, aftercare, and real scene negotiation. 

 - Maybe you're into restraints, impact play, or the psychological edge of domination and submission. 

 - Maybe you've outgrown the awkwardness of hinting at your desires on mainstream apps. 

 - Or maybe you're a guy looking for a place where BDSM dating is treated with the respect it deserves. 

 

On FET, you connect with people who came here for the same thing: intensity, trust, and shared hunger. 

 

Discover BDSM Personals Built for You 

Mainstream dating platforms treat kink as a checkbox, not a lifestyle. 

That's why BDSM personals actually work in a space like FET. 

Here, you can be detailed, specific, and completely transparent about your desires. 

You can: 

 

 - Design a profile that captures your kink identity 

 - Post a free Kinky Ad outlining your scene preferences 

 - Spank someone's profile to get noticed 

 - Start conversations with compatible kinksters in the BDSM Chat 

 - Learn, share, and debate in the Forum 

 

Whether you're exploring for the first time or you've been in the scene for years, it all comes down to finding the right match. 

 

More Than Just BDSM Dating 

FET is one of the internet's most active BDSM communities, but it's built for so much more than matchmaking. 

FET is where dating, education, and kinky culture overlap. 

 - Where first-timers learn from experienced players. 

 - Where safewords aren't just respected, they're expected. 

 - Where discovering a new kink is just a conversation away. 

 

Great scenes don't happen by accident.  

 

Curious About BDSM Scenes or Ongoing Dynamics? 

Some kinksters prefer one-off explorations and variety. Others want a committed D/s relationship with depth and continuity. 

On FET, you chart the course: 

 - You choose what to try and what to skip. 

 - You negotiate every scene on your terms. 

 - You decide whether it's a night or a lifestyle. 

 

No scripts. No assumptions. Just kinksters connecting with intention. 

 

Ready for Fetish Dating That Means Something? 

Whether you're looking for BDSM personals, women seeking men who understand the scene, or a community that takes your desires seriously… 

FET is where it clicks. 

Sign up, explore profiles, enter the conversation, and meet kinksters who match your intensity. 

Keep it kinky. Keep it consensual. Find your match on FET today.