Curious to both queens and kings thoughts 💭 on the subject

Like how it first came to topic .
Who brought it up ?

Mainstream propaganda projects bbc is superior white guys are just weak ?

For me the idea of watching or allowing my queen explore with others is hot !! Even if the guy is bigger etc 🤷‍♂️ I’m comfortable enough in my own skin not to feel inadequate!!!


For a while now this is something I would like to explore with my long term friends with benefits ( no idea I’m on here btw never mind cuckolding) )

I don’t know how to bring the subject up. Or how she would react 😅


The reason for the question and hopefully great advice and understanding of my inexperience in the subject. ( go easy on me please lol I haven’t intentionally Ment to come across as rude etc but won’t hide from my inexperience on how to approach the subject.


Like I have tried to say during my message above 👆

Main stream influence projecting just bbc as the dominant in the lifestyle white woman black men

Rarely in the reverse dynamic

Find it quite discriminating and harmful to younger white men
Especially Tbe *** scenes BNWO

(btw all entitled to there own preference. Just personally seeing slot of white gate and mainstream or social media administration etc not act or keeping things clean . I. E away from racism!

As a curious newbie to exploring such things BNWO has been a massive game changer for me in regards to cuckolding . I’m all for preference. Playing roles to fulfil each other’s goals etc

So I guess amongst the many questions I have asked or trying to ask what is your opinion .


Please no hate . I purely understand I may have came across as ignorant or even confusing.😅😂

First time trying to write it as I see it . Apologies lol

BDSM Play Partner18 to 77 years ● 335km around UK East Lothian

working on updating this
Looking for an obedient female slave to train into hopefully a 24/7 slutty free-use fuck toy, one who’d give me full control over her body and even lifestyle if willing. At the same time, also looking for a connection, a magical one that exists only between a Master and his slave. I'm attracted to passion, desire and drive, and usually I'm drawn to women my age or older than me, and the look on their faces as they find themselves at my mercy, the way they blush, moan so desperately. I know there’s a lot of pride in being older than someone, and having that flipped, kneeling naked, bound, filled with toys ravaging your body, whimpering and moaning at my mercy - it's humiliating, degrading, objectifying (in a good way), it feels taboo yet exciting... and I like having that effect on someone. That you’d be a toy, an owned object, a plaything of someone younger - and when you realize that it cements you as one.

How would you feel if you were locked in a metal chastity belt or tied spreadeagled, naked exposed, your perky tits facing the ceiling, with remote controlled vibrators shoved deep in your dripping wet pussy and sexy ass, so I could control them whenever I wanted, wherever I wanted, however I wanted. So I could deny you an orgasm, or you to cum again and again … How would you like it if I rubbed your nipples roughly, pinching them, pulling on them, rolling them in my fingertips, then slowly moved my hand down to between your spread legs, over your pussy mound, sliding two fingers along your moistening slit, tracing them up and down between your pussy lips sensually. Feel your pussy, your fingers resting at the entrance to your leaking wet hole, how does it feel? Does it feel moist, dripping? If it is, I bet you feel like a pathetic, slutty whore right now, but at the same time -- you belong. Slide a finger in, slowly, in and out. Tell me how you feel…

How would you like to be my slave, owned fully, tied up, made to be naked while alone at home, trained into a
obedient fuck-toy whore. Played with, aroused… I’d train you to be a proper slave, to beg for permission to cum, to be aroused and horny wanting me to play with you. I’d develop rules for you to follow, you’d be denied permission to wear panties, I’d keep you naked often, filled with toys as often as possible. In person, you’d be fully free use, I’d love it if you let me take the lead and explore your body however I’d liked. And if you’re brave and interested, and you chose willingly, freely to give yourself fully, giving full control over not just your sexual life, but all aspects of your life, total power exchange in a way that I’ve found truly magical… in a way that’s freeing, that weight and stress of decisions being lifted off your shoulders, leaning into me… and at my mercy, yet safe, an ultimate form of submission and trust, that would mean the world to me. Knowing you do so freely, giving yourself fully, not because you feel d or pressured, or that you need that to heal from past trauma, or that you need to do so to be mine, but because it’s truly what you want, who you are deep inside, who you always were, that hidden desire that is yet to be unlocked, I’ll treasure that, and I’d want to guide you, in a way that’s structured, meaningful and truly amazing. I want to make you always feel like you belong, that you’re owned fully and completely - that you’re not alone or lost anymore. Being and naked, so that even when you’re wearing clothes, you still feel fully undressed, because you know that you’re known and understood. Your secrets, your s, your past. And despite that - you feel comfortable, safe. And if a spark blossoms within that dynamic, maybe we’d find love that’s passionate and beautiful, in a way that your submission brings you both pride and happiness- that you smile, to me, making someone smile and blush is intoxicating.

I'm fine with starting off slow if you’re a beginner, and showing you the ropes (though I really like cuffs!). I wouldn’t want to overwhelm you, I’d want to find your limits and push at them if you’d like that, help you overcome them.

I also have a fantasy of owning two slaves together and not separate, where it’s like a permanent threesome, and passionate, and they like each other as much or even more than they like and want me, where they both belong to me and only me, and I’m theirs, and only theirs. It’s not something I need to be happy, it’s a fantasy and I’m monogamous at heart, but if you did want it, it would excite me and mean the world to me. If I liked you, then you would be all that I need, you’d be enough for me. But I wouldn’t want anyone to feel like a third, so if this is something you wanted, I’d want to train you at the same time as someone else, someone you were attracted to, liked. So if there’s someone you’re interested in being trained alongside, someone you are interested in, approach me together. I haven’t been looking for people, I’ve been going through a lot and my grad applications are due December 15th, so I haven’t been messaging people first, but when people message me and are interested in me, or if I am talking to someone and getting to know them and it’s still in that early stage, I can tell you who they are if you’re interested in this, and you can reach out to them. Or some of the people in my friends list who are visible are people who’ve I’ve either been talking to recently and are interested in that (possibly) or people who aren’t active anymore but have touched my heart, if they are active feel free to reach out to them if you’re interested in this! I haven’t yet started training anyone yet. That way I’d start training you at the same time when I am ready, so it would be magical and safe for both of you, not hierarchical.

Tell me what you are into, your deepest fantasies, your hidden desires, I’m into a lot of things and I’d work with you to dominate you in the way that is personalized to you, tell me what you desire, as well as any limits you have.

I’m currently in the Boston, MA area, and hoping to find connections near there! I am still happy with dominating online those who are farther away, especially as I prefer dominating and getting to know each other online at first in general, though I’d eventually prefer something in person if possible eventually! Also open to this eventually leading to a live-in slave situation if you want that (and we really like each other ofc).

Also, if you are interested in latex, chastity belts (female), sex toys, or being tied up and naked like the slut you are, definitely message me. If you do end up wanting to message me, read my profile fully first, it’s long, I know, I’m working on shortening it, but it’s me. I’m also hoping to develop sex toys so if you’re interested in testing that out with me that’d be amazing! I have a few ideas 🤭

BDSM Play Partner22 to 50 years USA Boston

Hi I’ve logged back in after many months. Wasn’t here for very long before so am still new and a little cautious, but still very curious..

Looking to explore my little side. It’s something I’ve been curious about but not something I’ve ever talked about or pursued. I’m very independent in my day to day life and struggle to ask for help but I have a need to relinquish this and be taken care of, in and out of the bedroom without needing to ask (or help me learn to be better as asking) and to be a naughty and sweet submissive in the bedroom.

In my past I have dated younger men but behind closed doors (in my mind and imagination) I get the most aroused and wet when I think about an intelligent, calm, loving, in control daddy giving me love, attention. Making me feel desired and safe and touching my mind and body.

Psychologically, It’s all about feeling safe and desired and adored. I have some body insecurities so to have my daddy desire me and to feel cherished and erotically wanted by him, would make me feel such a special girl for my daddy and would iron out the anxieties or insecurities I have.

In return, when I feel that safety, nurture and attention is genuinely given to me, I will want to give my love and attention and my all to my daddy. If I trust my daddy, I will want to make him so very happy. I am naturally very attentive and I like to please and tease.. I love seeing daddy lose control when I give him my desire (thats the switch in me).

Please note:
Im all about nuance and sensuality and mental play that naturally builds to something more urgent and dirty. I don’t do 0-100, or mimicking hard kinks like you’re a pair of actors reenacting what you learn as being sexy from watching porn. I doubt anyone under 35 will know what this means. I want to FEEL REAL. Real sexy. Real anticipatory. Real naughty. Real dirty. Real wet. With a person that just understands
that sensuality and silence is erotic.
It’s not about headline grabbing black & white kink. (I understand why people chase the fun sensationalist highs of whips, chains, hardcore boundary pushing sex, but I personally find labels the opposite of nuanced and sexy!) Only the most emotionally intelligent men will understand the subtlety in the psychological difference and they’re the ones I would love to hear from. Thank you for reading x

Ps. I really crave a sensual erotic kiss at the moment before anything else!

BDSM/Fetish Family34 to 75 years ● 50km around UK Leeds

You are in the right place! I live and breathe shibari since I make my living selling rope, teaching and doing shows/related projects. You can see some of my tutorials here: https:" title="://bdsm-training-school.fetish.com/courses/shibari-the-easy-way">https:" src="/community/uploads/emoticons/" />//bdsm-training-school.fetish.com/courses/shibari-the-easy-way

Recently, amicably out of a 9 year relationship. Currently, looking to see what comes my way whether it be Miss Right or just Miss Right now.

In short, I'm a dirty old (gentleman) with a penchant for younger ladies who appreciate such things. Vintage but surprisingly good condition and in full working order. Sense of humour, often dark and inappropriate. Largely functional brain. I speak my mind and don't shy away from controversy...or is that just Foot in Mouth Disease? I don't do drama, so don't have an ex who won't talk to me.

No bigots prejudiced against the usual things or political views, Brexit or Covid...

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