Ding ding, going down! Cunnilingus is the technical term for giving oral sex to a woman or any person with a vulva in fact. Oral sex is not talking about sex, no, it’s using your mouth to turn the other person on by licking, sucking and even biting. It’s not dirty talk, though you can combine the two as long as you don’t talk with your mouthful.
It’s a sex act that doesn’t have to include penetration, which is great for anyone who isn’t a fan of PIV sex or just wants to change things up. It’s very intimate and some people absolutely love it where other people find it a complete turn off. If the idea of going down gets you excited, add cunnilingus to your fetish list on feitsh.com then look for others who love it too.
Oral sex refers to all the sexual practices that involves the lips or tongue being placed on your partner’s genital area. Some more technical names for oral sex are cunnilingus, anilingus and fellatio.
Whether you're more into getting or giving, if you're a fan of oral sex the possibilities are endless. The trick is to remember that everyone is different. What sends one person wild with desire might make another cringe away in discomfort, so ask your partners how they like it and have fun experimenting.
There are a million ways to go down on someone, and one popular favourite for many is facesitting - where one person, usually (though not always) someone with a vulva, sits on their partner's face to be pleasured orally from underneath. Some fans simply enjoy the sensation; it's a pretty intense feeling, and the sitter is completely in control of things like speed and force in a way that makes it easier for a lot of people to climax. For others, though, this act of smothering is part of a BDSM dynamic and perhaps a kink in its own right. Fullweight facesitting comes with heavy overtones of control and domination, and can feel like a wonderful act of service from the person being sat upon.