A group for ABDL enjoyers anywhere! NOTE: Applicants must have a verified profile to join.
    Creating a group where local members interested in fetishes can connect, share upcoming events/locations of interest, and establish connections and a community
    A group for people in Oregon's Portland Metro and Surrounding areas. Whether looking for a quick hookup, new kink partners, Munches, Events, or whatever.
    This is a group for those that are into chastity. If you are the chased or the holder please come join. I'll work on a better description lol
    A gentle corner for all who embrace age regression, caregiver dynamics, and nurturing roles. Whether you're a little, middle, or caregiver — this is your space to talk about routines, rules, plushies, and care rituals. Respect and consent come first. Please do not attempt to use this safe space for random invitations to message with members you don't know.
    A group for all spankers and spankees from the UK.
    A group for all those into BDSM living in the UK
    This group challenges the old script. It's a space for men — and anyone exploring masculinity — to share feelings, ***s, softness, and strength without judgment. Let’s talk vulnerability, emotional openness, and what it really means to be a man today.
    From dark academia to magical realms and mythic creatures — this group is for everyone who gets lost in books (and maybe develops a crush on a morally questionable character). Share your favorite fantasy reads, book recs, and plot obsessions.
    Israeli BDSM community so we can talk and meet people a like in Israel
    A place to connect with other kinksters in the southern pennsylvania area. please be civil and respectful!
    Glen Mills - Pennsylvania - USA
    This is a DDLG group for anyone in the Midwest. IE: Kansas, Missouri, Nebraska, Iowa, or Midwest in general.
    A place for subs in the near the 314 to make themselves known and available to femdoms for their pleasure.
    The House of Consent is a community dedicated to fostering understanding and education about the intricacies of the BDSM lifestyle. Our group serves as a safe haven for individuals to explore and discuss various aspects of consensual power dynamics, emphasising the paramount importance of respect, communication, and mutual consent within all interactions. Through open dialogue and shared knowledge, we aim to promote a culture of empathy and empowerment, where all members can find support and guidance in their personal journeys of self-discovery and fulfilment.
    Very simply a group for People who enjoy Dungeons and Dragons, or other Table Top Role Playing Games, to gather and discuss their love of the game.
    Kinky/taboo talk and confessions. No judgment disrespect or bashing A safe place to express and know your not the only one 🤐😍🤞🏾💦💦
    Bem-vindes a BDSM Brasil! Nosso objetivo como comunidade é possibilitar trocas entre os membros, promover debates interessantes acerca do BDSM e garantir a segurança de todos os participantes. Essa casa é 100% SSC (São Seguro e Consensual) Se você está afim de fazer novos amigos, compartilhar seus gostos com pessoas que vão te compreender, aprender e/ou ensinar sobre práticas ou até apenas jogar papo fora e reclamar da vida seu lugar é aqui!
    Rio de Janeiro - Sudeste - Brazil
    From fresh curiosity to seasoned experience — this group brings together all generations of fetishists. Share perspectives, bridge gaps, and learn from each other. Age isn’t a limit — it’s part of the story.
    A respectful space for men who love to surrender — and those curious about it. Share your experiences, explore your desires, and connect over the unique pleasures of submission, service, and control play.
    A space for queer women, femmes, and the full LGBTQ+ spectrum to connect, share, and be seen. Talk identity, community, love, and fetish life from your unique perspective — loud, proud, and always inclusive.
    For those who love to watch – or be watched. Whether you're into discreet ***king or putting on a show, this group is your safe space to explore the thrill of exposure and observation.
    Just joined? Come say hello! This group is your first stop to introduce yourself, meet fellow fetishists, and start finding your vibe. No pressure — just a warm welcome from your new fetish-friendly crew.
    A space for Black, Indigenous, and People of Color to share experiences — in fetish spaces and beyond. Talk identity, community, joy, and challenges with others who understand the layers. Centered on respect, connection, and pride.
    Let’s unpack the script. This group is for anyone exploring, critiquing, or rewriting traditional gender roles — in life, love, and fetish play. Share your experiences, ask questions, and challenge norms in a safe, thoughtful space.

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Masochists enjoy having pain inflicted on them. It might not be all kinds of pain, but only specific types. They usually match up with sadists because sadists enjoy inflicting pain. Masochists tend to be submissive, but can be switches too. Masochists know what it feels to take a punishment do can make effective tops in a scene. Some Dominants have masochistic streaks, enjoying a certain level of pain themselves. Masochism is centred on the pleasure of pain but many masochists enjoy being controlled and dominated too. Masochists are often bratty, to get the pain they want. The worst torture for a masochist is totally withholding punishment as they crave pain. In day-to-day life masochists may find non kinky ways to satisfy their desires such as pushing themselves hard during exercise. Masochists often use pain to feel free from the pressures of day to day life.
A sadist is a Dominant who enjoys inflicting pain on a submissive partner or partners. However, it isn’t always that a sadist enjoys inflicting all kinds of pain on others. They may well enjoy specific sadistic tortures. They may prefer using a particular instrument like a whip or a cane or they might enjoy adding a sadistic element to other BDSM activities such as rope and restraints. Sadists get pleasure from inflicting pain on others. This is always consensual and agreed in advance. They can enjoy the visual evidence of the pain they’ve inflicted in bruises and welts and red skin. They often enjoy the noises a masochist makes while they are inflicting pain on them and enjoy watching the way that masochist moves as they are tortured. They may even enjoy restraining the masochist so they can’t easily move. Not all sadistic torture leaves marks. Sadists can use electric that inflicts lots of pain on their masochist but doesn’t leave lasting marks. Not all sadism is focused on the physical. Sadists often use fear and control to play with pain without inflicting any physical damage at all. This is called a mind fuck. Many people often ask what is a sadist? There isn’t one simple answer. Every sadist is different. Sadists are most often Dominants but can be switches. Even masochists and submissives can have a sadistic streak. Enjoying inflicting pain on another person, maybe because they understand the thrill of feeling the pain themselves. Sadists can become sexually aroused by inflicting painful torture on others, it can also be simply about submission and control. Sadists often spend many hours honing their skills with one particular torture implement to get the most sadistic pleasure out of their implement of choice.