Groups

For lovers of the thud, the sting, and everything in between. Whether you enjoy giving or receiving, this group is your spot to explore spanking, flogging, caning, paddles, and more — with skill, consent, and a good dose of aftercare.

One catch...we want you to be open about your love...either you've got pics enjoying latex, leather or smoking, or you've added the fetish to your profile. No lurkers that have blank or vanilla profiles!

Hear no evil, speak no evil, see no evil? If that turns you on, this is the group for you! Hoods, blindfolds, whiteout or blackout lenses, body bags...whatever keeps your or them from their 5 senses, let's share!

This group is for neurodivergent fetishists — whether you're autistic, ADHD, or identify in another way. Talk sensory needs, communication styles, and how your brain shapes your play. All brains welcome, no masking needed.

For those who love to watch – or be watched. Whether you're into discreet ***king or putting on a show, this group is your safe space to explore the thrill of exposure and observation.

For those who enjoy pegging and talking about strap on play

From dark academia to magical realms and mythic creatures — this group is for everyone who gets lost in books (and maybe develops a crush on a morally questionable character). Share your favorite fantasy reads, book recs, and plot obsessions.

Life gets heavy — let’s talk about it. This group is a safe, non-judgmental space to share how you're feeling, what you're struggling with, or what’s helping you cope. No therapy, no pressure — just support from those who get it.

Love is complicated — even (or especially) in the fetish world. This group is for open, respectful exchange around dating, communication, breakups, poly life, jealousy, and more. Bring your questions, stories, and support.

From spicy fiction to personal blogs, educational reads to protocol-heavy novels — this group is for all things written in the world of BDSM. Share your favorites, discover new titles, or post your own stories.

A group for all spankers and spankees from the UK.

Lovers of all things large, big, and Inflatable. BBW, size difference, Growth, shrinking, and Balloons

This is a group for those that are into chastity. If you are the chased or the holder please come join. I'll work on a better description lol

Just joined? Come say hello! This group is your first stop to introduce yourself, meet fellow fetishists, and start finding your vibe. No pressure — just a warm welcome from your new fetish-friendly crew.

From collars to canes, cuffs to clamps — this group is all about the gear that makes your fetish world go round. Share reviews, ask questions, and show off your favorite toys, tools, and accessories.

More than just a phrase — it's the foundation of fetish play. This group dives into what “Safe, Sane & Consensual” means in practice: setting boundaries, building trust, and making sure everyone’s on the same page before the fun begins.

Whether you're deep into RPGs, MMO raids, or cozy games — this group is your respawn point. Talk games, share recs, or geek out over your current obsession. Looking to focus on one title? Start a thread and find your fellow fans.

Very simply a group for People who enjoy Dungeons and Dragons, or other Table Top Role Playing Games, to gather and discuss their love of the game.

Curious minds welcome! This group is your space for open, respectful discussion about fetishes, pleasure, boundaries, and safer play. Whether you’re a first-timer or seasoned fetishist, come share advice, ask questions, or explore new ideas.

Got a burning question? Not sure where to start? This is your safe space to ask anything fetish-related — no shame, no judgment. Whether you're exploring something new or looking for honest advice, the community's got you.

Words that arouse. Share your favorite erotic stories, fantasies, or personal experiences in written form. Whether you're here to read, write, or get inspired — this group celebrates the art of turning you on with language.

This is a DDLG group for anyone in the Midwest. IE: Kansas, Missouri, Nebraska, Iowa, or Midwest in general.

All new kinksters must be approved. Due to nature of this kink we must be careful on advise for this subject

Calling all creative minds — whether you write poetry, personal essays, fiction, or spicy tales. This group is for sharing ideas, getting feedback, and talking craft. NSFW content is welcome, but this is not an erotica dump — think storytelling, not sexting.