Well lets begin , i ve been into the BDSM lifestyle for 30 years , i ve meet amazing people from different places over many years , but one thing that always comes up why do you do it , very interesting question , one must see the themselves , truly see , to truly be free of judgement for what they are Dom or Sub each have great qualities to both , but when you find your soulmate you will just know , so everyone is welcome , this forum is to help , talk and become true friends and maybe more , and yes Iam very skilled and Experienced .