Believing you have an unusual fetish or kink is quite common, especially if you don't fully understand it or have others to explore it with. This week, our BDSM advice guru Molly serves up some practical advice for one FET member looking to understand her kink: a poop fetish.
 

Dear Molly, 
I'm a lesbian, and my biggest turn on is watching people while they sit on the toilet and poop. The part that I like is watching the person and them being embarrassed. While I prefer it to be a girl, I've discovered that gender doesn't always matter. I have tried to find videos of people sitting on the toilet, but since my fetish is very specific and unusual, they can be complicated to find. The problem with all this is that I'm finding I can't orgasm without thinking about my poop fetish and I don't understand my kink. Does this kind of thing have a name, and how can I possibly find someone to share it with me?
A. Watcher

 

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Dear A. Watcher,
The fetishization of anything related to fecal matter (poop) is called coprophilia. However, in fetish and kink circles, it's commonly referred to as scat fetish or poop fetish. This fetish relates to any forms of arousal that involve poop or pooping in some way, such as using poo in various sexual acts, seeing poo, or in your case, watching someone while they're defecating. While it may seem like a very niche or unusual fetish, there are quite a community of folks for whom various forms of this kink are a big thing.
 

Poop fetish is definitely a fetish

The definition of a fetish is something you have to have to become aroused/orgasm. We all have various kinks, but for most, those things add to the experience and don't always have to be part of sex for the person to get off. While having a fetish is not a bad thing in itself, it can become an issue if someone is unable to become aroused any other way because it makes their sex life a relatively narrow activity. When it involves a somewhat unusual activity, it can, as you've found, be challenging to find someone to share it with you.
 

Humiliation fetish?

You mention that the part about your kink that turns you on is the other person's embarrassment; that makes me wonder if actually what you have is a humiliation fetish. Being turned on by other people's embarrassment and humiliation is not an uncommon fetish, especially when it comes to kinky relationships.
 

“It might be worth exploring other types of humiliation play to see if they work for you. That way, you would have different types of kink play aside from your poop fetish that could widen your opportunities.”


Being used as furniture (forniphilia), being discussed by people sexually, being called names, are all forms of a humiliation fetish. Therefore I'm wondering if it might be worth exploring other types of humiliation play to see if they work for you. That way, you would have different types of kink play aside from your poop fetish that could widen your opportunities for connections with other kinksters.
 

Exploring kinks with sex workers

One solution when it comes to exploring kinks with another person would be to consider hiring a sex worker. When doing so, it's important to remember that different sex workers provide various services. So it's essential to do your research and be upfront with anyone you find about precisely what you want. If that isn't a service they offer, then you can always politely ask them if they can recommend someone they know who might, but respect their decision.

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Poop fetish: would watching someone go turn you on?

 

Finding like-minded folks

Searching for others is always a challenge when it comes to more unusual kinks, but the truth is, there are other folks out there who like the things you do. You only need to find them. Now you have some names for the things that you like; it should make it easier for you to search online for porn and communities where people gather who enjoy poop fetish and humiliation-related play.

Additionally, if you find there are other aspects of play that involve humiliation, then you can search for those things too. There are groups on Reddit dedicated to scat fetish, and other fetish-focused sites. There's also the scat fetish forum here on Fetish. Remember, search engines are your friend – and hopefully finding those groups will help you to meet kinksters who like the things you do and maybe would be interested in exploring them with you.
Good luck!
Molly x
 

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Seems I'm alone in mine

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Mr****

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What about a Giantess Kink

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I like doctor play...is that a kink or fetish

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I love performing oral on a woman on her periods. Also drinking piss from the source

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I'm not into scat or piss but I love enema play, primarily receiving

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Is cfnm humiliation weird

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I want to be ass fucked and filled with piss
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Years ago my sister(19) and I(28) got drunk and had some of the best sex ever. Kinkiest part is we did this in my Dj booth @ a packed club.

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da****

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Love wearing women's panties and have my wife pick them out for me

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ABDL?

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I don't have any body fluid kinks and im not dommy or anything, but I do like making fun of hentai gooners, mwhahahaha >:)

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I like 69 and I really love to kiss pussy and ass hol and next I love 3some with boys and girls and I don't know but in my mind comes always very dirty ideas Wich is I always love it just now it made night but I can't going to sleep because I'm very hot and I don't know what to do if someone fuck me or I fuck someone I really love to drink alcohol but I don't know how because I'm new here I'm living in trier

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An****

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I like this too! A hot/sexy girl defecating really turns me on...don't know why.

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cu****

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Feet fetish

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po****

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I like ladies feet and dirty panties

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If you like sph, please write me 😳

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I really feel that I need to clear a few misnomers here. I have a scat fetish and have had one for 35years. 1st. Coprophilia refers to eating scat and may also include smearing.
What Watcher is indulging in is referring to what is known as Effro, which is an entirely different world of shit. It's being turned on by watching the act of defecating. Witch usually entails not getting off to the act itself more in sharing the intimacy of sharing a very vulnerable and a very private moment with another person that most don't get to share.

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Need meth give head
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🎈 Never had a playmate so far. Definitely lonely
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I’m little slut ready to be commanded
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ha****

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Tell me where to shit and I’ll do it

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mr****

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drinking pee, or having someone drink my pee. not in a Dom/Sub way, Just love the taboo nature of it, and the trust involved in sharing another bodily fluid. The pre-er has to be well, well hydrated

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Not far from me, would love ti chat but waiting for my picture to approve

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in****

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I'd tie you up and not just tickle your feet, I actually have a foot fetish so I'd be sniffing them and licking them too x

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in****

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Love vampirism and witchcraft, never practiced but always been into the fantasy stuff such as vampires and the likes

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Is there any woman who want to have sex on camera for fun or money?? I love recording and love the experience the girl decides to use the video or not if she does she gets the money I'm just happy to be there eugene oregon sex

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Iam a pantyboy cuckhold

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Fetishguy33

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I love to watch women smoke cigarettes

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TowelFetish17

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Towelssss 🤤

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do****

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I love EFRO, its very arousing

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Luv hairy pussy

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ho****

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Feeling seen with this post lol. It’s definitely one of the more uncommon fetishes and hard to find girls into it, but more often open to it

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I want to be tied up and my mouth duct taped so I'm forced to smell with every breath. Then a woman wearing cotton panty briefs slowly grinds the gusset of thise panties on my nose and "marks" my face with her scent. I have a vibrating ball gag that I haven't tried yet. Can you imagine, forced to smell cum-soaked cotton panties? Yes, please!

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Na****

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I tend to fantasize about being sedated in a way that I'm barely conscious and tied up and choked until I'm nice and half conscious then made to cum by being stroked and fucked (so I'd say Its pretty out of the ordinary)
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JohnBlack

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I think I have a kink of exploring my partners kinks. I get incredibly excited when I get to fulfill my partners weird desires.
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sw****

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I have a scat kink is it okay?

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ki****

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Is wanting a girl to pee on me weird

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Robhynne

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Scroll up - several males have said this is their bag. 😋

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Robhynne

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Nothing wrong with that. We all like some part of someone anatomy. Its actually normal and more common than people think. I've had so many people be into this. I love a males hand Where their tendons along the back of their hand pop up. big hands are what I like. This makes shopping hard for me. I get distracted by it.

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Robhynne

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I love the growling bit 🤤🐺

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Robhynne

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That's not weird. We are taught that as kids and some people still play at this and have a good giggle together. Not weird at all.

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PrinceCruel

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Thank you for the walkthrough.

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Robhynne

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Shits sake! Zero pun intended. It's not showing my comments as a thread to other people's comment 🙈 I do not like toilet stuff at all. Just in case my inbox 📥 gets filled with requests. 😂 Not for me. Without wanting to, I've seen enough relatives on the toilet 🤢😷 to last a life time and I am horrified by it. 🤣But I'm not judging anyone who likes it. As I say, as long as it's legal to do, then it is what it is.

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Robhynne

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I feel like I wrote this 😉🌈🦄

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Gr****

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Definitely sadism, I love watching my most loved ones hurt for me. Alternatively, I go feral for my ears getting played with, more than any other sensory experience point blank.
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Leohornyman

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And I like to tickle girls feet sometimes

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Leohornyman

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I like feet and very little when she pisses, idk why it’s just a bit hot

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Robhynne

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What is your kink?

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Robhynne

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This is cute 🥰

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Robhynne

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What do you hear that turns you on?

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ka****

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I fantasize about doing abortions on cheating housewives
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ka****

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I have some dark medical kinks.
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Raymysterio1981

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I have a scat fetish and it almost impossible to find anyone else (female) that’s into it, unless you want to travel to Europe. Haha. 

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Ge****

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I have a foot fetish and love to lick sexy feet while I creampie pussy
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Think is I notice a common theme where 3 out of 5 profile states no bodily fluids or similar statements like it’s a fad all of sudden, I get most kinksters are not into this stuff but I find those who I managed to interact In other avenues consider as a soft limit rather then hard. Just my take on this.

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Ma****

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I have a hand fetish as much as a deep voice kink. Plusss I’m a sapiosexual. So I really get turned on by charismatic traits and how people talk to me 😩
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I just want a man who can tie me up & tickle my feet

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jc****

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My kink is getting put in the sleeperhold and gagged with a dirty rag or sock stuffed in my mouth by a gay, bisexual or straight guy in a non sexual way
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A5wad

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Searching for a dominant Mistress to serve online
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Jackthestripper

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Wish I could just find a dominant woman lol
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any open minded Sub(Slave, Sissy,Pet, Sadism) I’m a Dom, Kinky, goddess,Mistress, I love to have things all my way. I will only accept true servitude with integrity because I am superior and as much as I’m strict I’m always devoted to my sissy,Sub or Slave. Add me kik app via Please let’s not waste each other’s precious time if you’re not willing to devote yourself
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MCMLXXIV

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Well I like feet, which isn’t that unusual, but finding a woman who’ll indulge me has proven impossible thus far in my life. I also find women’s armpits incredibly sexy, which I guess is a little stranger!
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Ch****

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Mine is unusual, nobody ever wants to show interest in it. People would rather assume than ask
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SilverEyedSirian

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I hear you. I’m seeing a lot of profiles where the response rate listed is “very low.” It’d be one thing if it were just me, but if people aren’t responding in general, maybe the thing to do is to pack up and explore elsewhere?
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Watching girls piss, I don’t consider it as unusual tho there are quite a few who would consider it a soft limit as much as consent goes.

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SilverEyedSirian

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I thought my fascination with hypnokink wouldn’t be that uncommon, but it appears to be less common (even within the kink community) than I thought!
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Tw****

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Abdl, putting women into diapers
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Mi****

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Necks and women wearing things around their necks especially metal jewellery.

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cl****

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My unusual kink must be having harmless conversations on FET because while everyone claims they want to, no one actually wants to! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Abdl
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Iamthedriver20

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It's been more difficult than I expected to find a lady who's interested in exploring watersports/pee play as a fetish. I'll need to have a look on Reddit, which I'm not yet a member of

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Hull_Dom

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Voyeurism , I love watching women dressing/ undressing, walking around in underwear, having a pee, seeing up skirt, down blouse x
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NeckRomancer

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I like looking , touching and kissing necks <3
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BalloonBoy

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I like balloons and sucking helium

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Dark_Norse_Heart666

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I forgot to add erotic hypnosis, mental stimulation, or general hypnosis they are underrated and fun with someone you trust and feel safe with 😊
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Dark_Norse_Heart666

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Astral sex, Auralism, asmr, men growling, sensory deprivation.

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Mezmerism

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I believe my Auralism kink is a little unusual? 👂🥵
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Tickler101

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I think some may consider a fetish of mine to be weird. Or at least controversial 😆. And that is tickling.

Edited by Tickler101

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Soleman76

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I like to tickle women, but have been told I'm weird..... Really?

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Solace-1054

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🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

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I took have a poop fetish. I love a woman's face when she's defecating. The sounds and smells as well.

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Totalcumslut

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One of my fetishess is probably weird. I have a nostril fetish.
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Dark_Norse_Heart666

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Vampirism as a kink, or witchcraft that involves BDSM
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Lord_Talion

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Sex while vomiting-giving
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fr****

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Ya diapers and dling what I'm told

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Thanks for posting.

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Hi @shaggy77, if you want to contact Molly, you can do that by searching for her profile and sending her a message. mollysdailykiss

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Th****

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This post is what I needed thanks!

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Chazz

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Excellent!

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Ms****

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Going to keep my eye on this!! 😇

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How do we submit a post to this

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Love it! 😈

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