Hi, my name is Molly and I am the writer of 'Molly's BDSM tips' on Fetish.com. If you’re new to fetish and BDSM and need some things explaining or would like some BDSM advice in general, send me a private message detailing exactly what you’d like to know. *Unfortunately, I can't enter into personal correspondence.
More about me: I am writer on Molly's Daily Kiss.com and the Director of Operations at Eroticon.co which is an annual conference for sex bloggers, erotic writers, journalist etc held annually in London - and run the successful meme sinfulsunday.mollysdailykiss.com and kinkoftheweek.mollysdailykiss.com.
I live just outside of London with my two kids and husband. We are in a 24/7 D/s relationship and he is Dom.
For a few years I was involved with a dominant woman who made me go to gay masseurs and tease them. The goal was to try and get them to become aggressive with me. If they did, I'd have to submit to them and return with photo and video proof of the encounter. She enjoyed putting me in Read more… those situations where I would have to orally service random men and often bottom for them. She would then humiliate me. After a while she stopped sending me, because she felt I was enjoying the sex with men too much. The relationship then fell apart. Did I poison the Dom/sub relationship by becoming too eager to please her?
Sorry that I missed this, my bad. I will put it on my list and write a reply for you
A really good pro domme should want to exchange lots of messages with you beforehand. They should be asking you questions about what you want but also about health and fears etc. If they are not then that tells you something and I would move on and look for someone else. It is also worth making Read more… Twitter profile, lots of pro-dommes are on there, and spending some time seeing how they react with people and possibly if they have regular clients they talk to that will help you build some trust in how they operate
So I am working on my next piece but after that I have a potential slot for a question in my schedule.... So if you have a question for me please do get in touch. I am happy to tackle pretty much any subject and you can remain anonymous if you wish.
So I will say that I do know that Anonymous H is female. I also think that we can't judge whether someone is being played or not because we just don't have enough detail or know enough about the relationship. I do know that it is clearly a complex situation but as I said in my piece his married Read more… life needs to be ring fenced from their D/s dynamic
Thank you. It was a tricky one for sure
Definitely get out and meet people in your local community, make friends and the rest will come. Find your local munches and try all of them out. If you are near a big city there will definitely be more than one I suspect. Also find online communities to be involved in. Fill out your profile here Read more… properly. Tell people about you, not just kinky you but what else do you like doing and talk to people, read lots, get advice and make friends. Do not submit to the first arsehole dom who lands in your inbox demanding you call him Sir Shithead.... If he is not willing to work to get to know you before he asks for that he is not a Dom you want to be with