**GEEN REACTIE IS GEEN INTERESSE**
NOT FROM THE NETHERLANDS? PLEASE SKIP ME!
Hallo daar!
Aangezien je dit aan het lezen bent, heb ik dus toch je interesse.... dan zal ik maar eens wat over mijzelf vertellen;
Transparantie, respect, hygiëne, ruimte en vertrouwen zijn voor mij de welbekende standaards. Als dit er is, ontstaat connectie vaak vanzelf...... Ik ben goed gezelschap voor leuke mensen met een lekkere energie, en houd van contact dat oprecht en ontspannen is.
Na een tijdje uit de scene geweest te zijn, wil ik nu weer voorzichtig de temperatuur van het water aanvoelen. Van nature ben ik wat gereserveerd en kijk eerst graag de kat uit de boom.
Als ik mij onder druk gezet voel, ben ik pleiten. Dat werkt bij mij niet. Geduld maakt het juist leuker!
Ik ben nieuwsgierig en verkennend ingesteld; ik ontdek liever gaandeweg wat past, met open communicatie, een beetje humor en af en toe een ondeugende knipoog 😉
Feestjes zijn ook echt mijn ding! Ik geniet van nieuwe ervaringen en vind het leuk om af en toe iets uit te proberen. Spannende situaties, creatieve ideeën of onverwachte wendingen? Daar zeg ik niet snel nee tegen, zolang het veilig en met wederzijds respect gebeurt.
Bij mij draait alles om de connectie. Ik dien je alleen als ik ook echt die natuurlijke onderdanigheid naar je voel. Daar zijn geen trucjes of methodes voor om die te kweken, dat is er, of het is er niet.
Schreeuwen, disrespect of niets anders geven dan spanks en tikken is voor mij geen vorm van dominantie.
De rustige, chille, iets wat sensuelere man die zelfvertrouwen uitstraalt is het voor mij.
Opbouw en afwisseling vind ik belangrijk in een spel. Als ik je dien, geef ik mij volledig wat betekent dat ik mij veilig voel. Ik. vind het dan ook heerlijk mij klein en kwetsbaar te voelen en verlang daarom ook naar een goed balans tussen het dienen en de zorg.
Mijn absolute go is teasen. Het net-niet, Laat me erom smeken en laat me er voor werken.
Ik heb grenzen, harde en zachte. Grenzen zijn er om te verleggen, maar dat vertrouwen moet je verdienen,
I'm a sub who's new to this. i've Known quite some time that I'm into this stuff, but never tried it. and I'm socially awkward, I probably won't start the conversation, so sent me a message and I'll probably respond! I'm also not really looking for meeting people just yet I think, maybe if you're my type and we've talked some on here!
(also I change my hair like almost every week lol, so it may not be accurate in the photos here)
Hello,before you send me a message remember that Im a goddess and you will treat me with respect.
Iam looking for a sub who knows his place.
**Desires and Fantasies**
TPE,edgeplay,CBT,orgasm control,watersport,petplay,affectionate domination .....bdsm in general.
_____________
Who is me
.
*Wannabe racer, hug enthusiast and overall meddler.
*Trying to elevate small talk to medium talk.
*Worshiper of dead book authors, wine, perfume and The Internets.
_____________
Rules to Love by:
.
*Safe, sane, consensual, informed
*KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
*Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.
Trust is built slowly over time, but it can be shattered in an instant. Honor your loved one by acting with integrity at all times. The only engine that power a good relationship is trust and trust is based on integrity and respect we have for each other.
is there a daddy who enjoyS taking control of every single thing of his little baby girl?
Daddy's rope bunny
Enjoy nipple play, slow sex, orgasm denial, edging, bondage and a bit of ***🐰
Hii!! I think i mostly need someone patience and soft in some ways because it’s very new for me to act on my kinks and needs (or even talk to strange people hihii). I also have vaginismus, adhd and looots of insecurities, so again patience it is, but i realised that if i will never talk to anyone, nothing would happen and i don’t meet lots of new people in my daily life since i’m still studying and a bit anxious of random people. But at the same time i am really intelligent and outsmarts many in discussions etc (mostly because i’m bored or anxious and in need of dopamine), so its all very contrastinf; i dont think i can describe myself better dan lots of contrasts (which i cannot even handle myself and it makes so much more extra noise in my head). :)
Lived and long time in south holland and now the next chapter moving to and other part of the Netherlands
Luna 27 years old looking for and caregiver. Sweet and loyal
Ik ben een jonge, single vrouw die zin heeft in spanning, ontdekking en die heerlijke klik met iemand waar de energie gewoon klopt. Ik ben niet zo van de standaard “hop, afspraak, klaar”-mentaliteit. Voor mij begint alles in het hoofd. Gesprek, humor, spanning opbouwen… dát.
Hello there fellow horny earthlings 😜
I'm Kim, 27 years old from Amsterdam. I'm new into the bdsm world and learning new things with every experience but that doesn’t mean i don’t know anything 😏, i am shy person at least in start and it's really difficult for me to break that barrier easily, but I am eager to learn and try new things and once i break that barrier you will see a slut and horny bitch who can squeeze you like a lemon everyday at least 2 3 times 😂.
Currently in a Non-monogamist relationship and we both agreed to date/experience separately but i mostly do it with him because i feel safe with him and he is my protector, my teddy bear because he is hairy af 😂 and my soft pillow 😘
I have Adhd, Autism and Hypersexuality, I love video games, art, cosplay, anime and reading dark romance, recently i have developed new hobby doing nail art, it really makes me feel more energetic and happy.
I am hypersexual and that’s something i want to make clear, I am looking for any gender besides male because i have one and there is nothing new you can bring so keep your distance.
i love eating girls out i mean 😌 the way they beg me to stop and my devilish side make them beg for everything that’s insane 😂.
besides that i like every gender ☺️ but to make it clear it’s not easy to dominate me because i am bratty af and i fight back and bite hard so if you are sensitive and can’t handle then just be on your knees and be a good slutty sub for mommy 😜
I hope you read it properly because i don’t like to repeat myself again and again 😏
important note: i am not from Germany so if we will meet in Germany i will come with my boyfriend because i don’t know the ways and don’t have license so i have to rely on public transportation and the condition of public transportation you all know very well. i get anxious and stressed when i have no clue where i need to go.
feel free to send a message or like ❤️
Hey! Im Olivia, 19 years old and live in Amsterdam.
Im quite curious for the BDSM / Sub world and love to be spoiled.
I’ll do everything for daddy, even try new things
I like and have tried: Toys, bondage, CNC, roleplay
I want to try: Spanking, Threesome
Looking for a pleasure dom with experience. someone to have fun with, but ultimately would like a partner in life.
I prefer my dom to be taller than 190cm tall, so that even in heels I will still be shorter. But am open to doms that are able to make me forget about that with presence, intention, and experience. I am bicepsual too, if you have big arms, and can lift me with ease, let me bite them….. 🤤
Single mom, so my time is precious, sometimes short, mostly scheduled.
Languages: English, maar ik spreek ook NL.
Message boundaries:
Sorry, but if I can’t see your face on your profile I’m not answering your messages. No dpics. No asking for feet pics. Tell me what you want, be honest, but don’t come in running.
hey, call me blue
Just joined, not sure what to do next. kind of looking for a gentle dom woman who can help me figure myself out.
im really into the cold, shivering outside but I think im more into someone making me stand outside while im desperate for warmth. im basically a shiver pet.
make me stand outside in a t-shirt while I see how cozy you are or have me stay in a bath full of ice water and covered in ice cubes and foam while you tell me how warm and toasty you are, I leave it up to you
love pushing tension, and can be a playful brat. let’s see if you can tame me :)
into ropes, threesomes, bdsm. love the idea of power play and who comes out on top
switch
***me too if you want to be rewarded
Cute, curvy ginger, looking for a Dom or Daddy that can teach this brat a lesson.
I am not the app often, so have some patience pls.
I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A SUB
NL-based Domme | Specializing in foot fetish, power exchange, *** & control
My feet rule your thoughts. Your place is beneath them.
Worship, obey, suffer sweetly for my pleasure.
Approach with respect or disappear. 😏
Novice adventurer on a quest to discover the delightful world of submission—currently at ‘beginner’s bondage’, aspiring to ‘masochist maestro’:) Seeking a guide who respects limits and enjoys a little wit along with the whip. Let’s start this chapter with a plot twist that’s both respectful and risqué:)
But in full seriousness, I am looking for a Dom that understands what it means to have a connection, trust and vulnerability with someone, is respectful and caring, intelligent and witty, so that he can handle my bratty / playful side. I am not interested in ONS/hook-ups. I do pay attention to physical appearance and attractiveness, but it only matters when emotional and intellectual connection is there.
I am a bratty sub, and l love that side of me. I am playful, intelligent, passionate, vibrate and charming:). I care about my partner and is very loyal when it comes to relationships.
PS. text me in English and please, I beg, make a meaningful start of the conversation such that I at least have something to reply to; best if you introduce yourself and share some facts that you find important.
Hi there nice to meet you, I'm from Japan and currently working in the Netherlands!
I'm someone with quite some experience in the BDSM scene. I haven't tried everything but enough to know what really gets me into it.
I'm mostly into bondage. Getting tied up, gagged and being *** in front of my captor is the most exciting thing to me. Beside that I also love to dress up, so let your imagination do the work ;)
Personality wise I'm more on the shy/petite side but I'm one hell of a people pleaser. I'm not happy until you are! Even though I love to be pampered and cuddled, people told me I have a slight mommy side as well where I like to take care of them, cook for them or embracing them in my arms(I'm quite clingy to people I like)
Don't judge a book by it's cover ☺️ or focus too much on my kinky confessions. Which is basically a big part of my identity.
I studied Philosophy at the university and I'm an activist for human rights, which is as well my work in social domestic
Next to that, I process the beauty and sorrow in life with my guitar 🎶
I love to be creative and cook new recipes and refine the old traditions
into art, music movies, nature and culture
I adore traveling , food, wine and to spoil people as much as I love that people spoil me
overall; don't define or label me while you explore me as your next babydoll😉😌or you to be my new friend with possible benefits
My preference ; long term whatever you will be to me
My fetish; Older daddy's
💋
recently broken up with, so more unhinged than usual
just a bi lover of apple flavoured lollipops who wants to make love to girls and be fucked by men.
adventurous in my dreams, shy in the streets, brat in the sheets
Hii!! I think i mostly need someone patience and soft in some ways because it’s very new for me to act on my kinks and needs (or even talk to strange people hihii). I also have vaginismus, adhd and looots of insecurities, so again patience it is, but i realised that if i will never talk to anyone, nothing would happen and i don’t meet lots of new people in my daily life since i’m still studying and a bit anxious of random people. But at the same time i am really intelligent and outsmarts many in discussions etc (mostly because i’m bored or anxious and in need of dopamine), so its all very contrastinf; i dont think i can describe myself better dan lots of contrasts (which i cannot even handle myself and it makes so much more extra noise in my head). :)
**GEEN REACTIE IS GEEN INTERESSE**
NOT FROM THE NETHERLANDS? PLEASE SKIP ME!
Hallo daar!
Aangezien je dit aan het lezen bent, heb ik dus toch je interesse.... dan zal ik maar eens wat over mijzelf vertellen;
Transparantie, respect, hygiëne, ruimte en vertrouwen zijn voor mij de welbekende standaards. Als dit er is, ontstaat connectie vaak vanzelf...... Ik ben goed gezelschap voor leuke mensen met een lekkere energie, en houd van contact dat oprecht en ontspannen is.
Na een tijdje uit de scene geweest te zijn, wil ik nu weer voorzichtig de temperatuur van het water aanvoelen. Van nature ben ik wat gereserveerd en kijk eerst graag de kat uit de boom.
Als ik mij onder druk gezet voel, ben ik pleiten. Dat werkt bij mij niet. Geduld maakt het juist leuker!
Ik ben nieuwsgierig en verkennend ingesteld; ik ontdek liever gaandeweg wat past, met open communicatie, een beetje humor en af en toe een ondeugende knipoog 😉
Feestjes zijn ook echt mijn ding! Ik geniet van nieuwe ervaringen en vind het leuk om af en toe iets uit te proberen. Spannende situaties, creatieve ideeën of onverwachte wendingen? Daar zeg ik niet snel nee tegen, zolang het veilig en met wederzijds respect gebeurt.
Bij mij draait alles om de connectie. Ik dien je alleen als ik ook echt die natuurlijke onderdanigheid naar je voel. Daar zijn geen trucjes of methodes voor om die te kweken, dat is er, of het is er niet.
Schreeuwen, disrespect of niets anders geven dan spanks en tikken is voor mij geen vorm van dominantie.
De rustige, chille, iets wat sensuelere man die zelfvertrouwen uitstraalt is het voor mij.
Opbouw en afwisseling vind ik belangrijk in een spel. Als ik je dien, geef ik mij volledig wat betekent dat ik mij veilig voel. Ik. vind het dan ook heerlijk mij klein en kwetsbaar te voelen en verlang daarom ook naar een goed balans tussen het dienen en de zorg.
Mijn absolute go is teasen. Het net-niet, Laat me erom smeken en laat me er voor werken.
Ik heb grenzen, harde en zachte. Grenzen zijn er om te verleggen, maar dat vertrouwen moet je verdienen,
Trust is built slowly over time, but it can be shattered in an instant. Honor your loved one by acting with integrity at all times. The only engine that power a good relationship is trust and trust is based on integrity and respect we have for each other.
is there a daddy who enjoyS taking control of every single thing of his little baby girl?
Daddy's rope bunny
Enjoy nipple play, slow sex, orgasm denial, edging, bondage and a bit of ***🐰
Lived and long time in south holland and now the next chapter moving to and other part of the Netherlands
Luna 27 years old looking for and caregiver. Sweet and loyal
I'm a sub who's new to this. i've Known quite some time that I'm into this stuff, but never tried it. and I'm socially awkward, I probably won't start the conversation, so sent me a message and I'll probably respond! I'm also not really looking for meeting people just yet I think, maybe if you're my type and we've talked some on here!
(also I change my hair like almost every week lol, so it may not be accurate in the photos here)
Hello,before you send me a message remember that Im a goddess and you will treat me with respect.
Iam looking for a sub who knows his place.
**Desires and Fantasies**
TPE,edgeplay,CBT,orgasm control,watersport,petplay,affectionate domination .....bdsm in general.
_____________
Who is me
.
*Wannabe racer, hug enthusiast and overall meddler.
*Trying to elevate small talk to medium talk.
*Worshiper of dead book authors, wine, perfume and The Internets.
_____________
Rules to Love by:
.
*Safe, sane, consensual, informed
*KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
*Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.
Ik ben een jonge, single vrouw die zin heeft in spanning, ontdekking en die heerlijke klik met iemand waar de energie gewoon klopt. Ik ben niet zo van de standaard “hop, afspraak, klaar”-mentaliteit. Voor mij begint alles in het hoofd. Gesprek, humor, spanning opbouwen… dát.
Hey! Im Olivia, 19 years old and live in Amsterdam.
Im quite curious for the BDSM / Sub world and love to be spoiled.
I’ll do everything for daddy, even try new things
I like and have tried: Toys, bondage, CNC, roleplay
I want to try: Spanking, Threesome
Guys I’ve dated usually describe me as funny, feminine, and educated :)
Slavic, 30 yo, living in Amsterdam. Looking for a sub/dom dynamic (I’m a sub). I’m really obedient and want to find someone I can listen to and follow, someone who can make decisions for me. In sex, of course, but maybe we could bring some of that dynamic outside the bedroom too.
I’m 171 cm, a bit curvy (but no one’s ever complained), clean, intelligent and bratty.
Looking for a dom who is caring but rough, tall, and able to host IN AMSTERDAM. Not interested in ONS or online.
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
99% Submissive
80% Masochist
79% Brat
79% Degradee
79% Rope bunny
75% Non-monogamist
63% Experimentalist
61% Vanilla
48% Voyeur
44% Switch
38% Pet
37% Slave
23% Sadist
19% Primal (Prey)
14% Rigger
14% Exhibitionist
8% Degrader
8% Dominant
2% Primal (Hunter)
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat tamer
0% Little
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
LONG DESCRIPTION ALERT! 🚨
Somewhere in 2016 I was introduced to various kinks through my then boyfriend who had a fantasy of being humiliated by me. I thought that was totally fine, as long as I wasn't the one getting down on her knees and taking the beating. Unfortunately it never happened in the end because right after he shared his fantasies with me we broke up. After that I had some random contacts here and there via Tinder (yuck..) where I occasionally attracted some sissy boys. That didn't develop that much either but it's an experience to look back on. 😌
I left the BDSM world for a few years after that. Even while watching porn, BDSM wasn't my go-to. In 2022 I suddenly decided, without any real experience, to jump in with both feet and was looking for slaves to work out my frustrations on. (Still partially the case..). It was a stressful year for me and I was looking for an outlet. I was hungry for it.
I found out the hard way that for me personally that is not the way to go about it. I ran into time wasters who could almost smell how desperate I was to find a slave.. and that is not a good start. I kept it up for about half a year and actually learned a lot, for which I am grateful. I watched much more advanced Dommes at work and did some sessions online myself. In that short time I wasn't completely comfortable in my position. I was very focused on my appearance to the subs. I wanted every sub who encountered me to know that I was the ''dominant Domme'' in the dynamic and put more energy into portraying that role than actually being truly dominant. As a result I suffered from imposter syndrome, which was right and wrong. Right, because I was acting like a caricature version of a Domme, but wrong because I actually do have a naturally dominant personality. All that extra fuss was completely unnecessary and also brought me into contact with horny weirdos who just wanted my time and energy to be able to pull on their little dicks.
Now I open my doors again to the BDSM world and I'm starting completely over. Even though I have not had an official slave yet and I have not had any real-life 1on1 experience with a sub, I still want to make it clear that I am not willing to activate my switch side. I am open to learning but in the end I of course like things to go my way.
What exactly am I looking for? 🤔
I want subs who
-are looking for a purpose in life
-are not hellbent on wanting to do roll-play. (It makes me cringe but maybe that's because I'm not that experienced yet)
-have a high level of self control or are willing to be trained into that
-have decent comprehension skills
-are willing to assist me in daily tasks
-can handle a good deep conversation
-want to be humiliated
-are willing to give themselves to me completely and do whatever I want them to do
-want to see me win in life and dedicate their lives to it
-have few boundaries when it comes to kinks. I'm interested in pretty extreme things.
-are no younger than 25 years of age
FL: StarLuxOG
I'm curious about the kink scene and want to explore it. I'm seeking genuine connections with respectful people! I'd love to find a beautiful heart who can be gentle and support me.
Looking for a daddy dynamic, short or long term, whatever feels right. I’m not here for one night stands or nudes.
Connection first, always.
On the flip side: I also hold space for a finD/*** dynamic if you’re looking to serve. Know your place before sliding in.
I’m pretty new to this, and would love to find someone to experiment and explore with.
Even though I don’t have a lot of experience yet… I do know what I care about :
I’m not here for anything quick & fleeting.
It’s very important for me to get to know each other — really get to know each other, build a strong connection and create safety.
Communication, care, honesty and awareness (both of the self and the other) play a very big part in this.
Creating the strong foundation I believe are needed for kinks > dom/sub dynamics for instance, or any/all relationships really, to truly flow and blossom.
It asks for great vulnerability & surrender, and with that come responsibilities… that’s not something to treat lightly and meaningless.
I want to build something.
Something long term to both commit to and see where it will take us… I’m not necessarily expecting my partner for life, but who knows (;
Someone who embraces the honor, respect and responsibility that come with intimacy shared, on a physical level AND beyond.
Investing in the time & energy shared… taking things slow… letting connection and tension build.
I believe there’s a certain rawness, and pureness to arise from a bond like that — which can be so magical and special.
It can also create a beautiful playfield in which there’s loads of room to express, explore and experience.
And to surrender into…
I tend to be introverted, but if and once it “clicks” and I feel comfortable I can be pretty outgoing.
Patience, open(minded)ness, deep connection, playfulness/humor, intention and actual interest in each other as a whole are quite the necessities in this.
It’s important for me to connect on an emotional/spiritual level before anything else; which means that I’m open to talk a bit, see if we want to meet-up, then feel what it’s all like once we go on a date or two & whether we match, and if so we can take it from there!
I also hope it goes without saying that, aside from the kink side of things, I very much so like to have a lot of autonomy, am strongly against anything disregarding & disrespecting or objectifying women (or anyone for that matter), and detest superiority (:
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💌 I’m not on my phone much & can be slow to respond… if I’m not on here for a day or two, know that it’s nothing personal — just me living life the way I know best : without too much distraction 🧚🏼🌞🌳
Looking for my forever person in a world that sometimes feels a little too casual.
I’m a warm, affectionate woman who craves deep emotional connection, genuine laughter, and that safe space where trust grows naturally. While I’m on this platform, I’m not here for quick scenes or casual play. I want the real thing: a committed relationship built on respect, kindness, and real chemistry.
If the bond feels right and we both want it, I’m open to exploring power dynamics and kink as a beautiful part of our intimate life, but only when it flows from real love and trust.
I am a sub, I dream about being taken advantage of, scare me, use me
tell me how you'd use me, I'm a horny girl I need your cock or pussy please
into cnc
For some reason haven't yet had luck finding someone with a good sense of playfulness (without crossing boundaries), so looking for some professionals in the scene to try things out with in a mutual safe space 🙏
Lots of things I want to be trying out, let's have fun ✨
Lil brat looking for trouble or the love of my life - whichever I find first. Not looking to be tamed, but I do enjoy a strong masculine man who’s clearly in control.
I don’t surrender easily and will test your patience and drive you crazy from time to time. But if you enjoy a wild challenge, I promise you we’ll have a good time together 🤫
NL-based Domme | Specializing in foot fetish, power exchange, *** & control
My feet rule your thoughts. Your place is beneath them.
Worship, obey, suffer sweetly for my pleasure.
Approach with respect or disappear. 😏
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