Find kinky women in Zuid-Holland

I'm a sub who's new to this. i've Known quite some time that I'm into this stuff, but never tried it. and I'm socially awkward, I probably won't start the conversation, so sent me a message and I'll probably respond! I'm also not really looking for meeting people just yet I think, maybe if you're my type and we've talked some on here! (also I change my hair like almost every week lol, so it may not be accurate in the photos here)
Female (20) Obdam, Noord-Holland
Hey, I'm fairly new to this world in real life, I'm looking to experiment a bit and maybe find out more about each other :)
Female (21) Den Haag, Zuid-Holland
That Special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone who is willing to enjoy and explore the BDSM lifestyle deep
Female (29) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Words turn me on. please read my writing and write a response! Semi-fit intellectual seeks a master. I'm too smart for my own good: a spoiled brat who needs to be trained, disciplined, taught some manners and some goddamn gratitude. Please tell me how I can be of service. Into edging, arousal control, orgasm denial, being controlled. Please outsmart me. I need words, not pictures. I find language extremely sexy. Am very good with words so make me use them -- or not. Please be entertaining. I am usually the smartest person in the room but for fuck's sake, don't be intimidated by me.
Female (62) Den Haag, Zuid-Holland
Talking about my self,I love friends and family, I am a fun person and make friends easily. I love life, love my family and still have some love to share with a special man.πŸ€—β€οΈ
Female (48) Den Haag, Zuid-Holland
Hi! I'm Mrs Vendetta. Full time Brat (ahem I mean good girl..duh) Rope artist My own photographer Baldie for a few years A bit chaotic & sometimes very extra Switch Cat mom of three. Currently not dating, I know.. it's sad right.
Female (34) Dordrecht, Zuid-Holland
Hi, I Am full time Spankster and dominant and love to go to the UK to meet people who are also into Spanking, because mij partner is a spankee, end loves femdom, so if we could meet up with a couple like us, would be great to hang out and have fun together and let our man begging for more punishment and make us woman happy, my patner will be his dick in cage if we go out!! so for sure he will not do wrong things!! ( very smart) are there more woman like me with a man like this ...we could have great night out with our (B) toys:-) We are both 50
Female (54) Hoorn, Noord-Holland
Trust is built slowly over time, but it can be shattered in an instant. Honor your loved one by acting with integrity at all times. The only engine that power a good relationship is trust and trust is based on integrity and respect we have for each other.
Female (37) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Searching for older lesbians who are dommes. But willing to try being a dom :) Also rather shy, but I love a lot of kinks and I am just a lil weird. Also NO MEN!
Hii!! I think i mostly need someone patience and soft in some ways because it’s very new for me to act on my kinks and needs (or even talk to strange people hihii). I also have vaginismus, adhd and looots of insecurities, so again patience it is, but i realised that if i will never talk to anyone, nothing would happen and i don’t meet lots of new people in my daily life since i’m still studying and a bit anxious of random people. But at the same time i am really intelligent and outsmarts many in discussions etc (mostly because i’m bored or anxious and in need of dopamine), so its all very contrastinf; i dont think i can describe myself better dan lots of contrasts (which i cannot even handle myself and it makes so much more extra noise in my head). :)
Female (26) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
is there a daddy who enjoyS taking control of every single thing of his little baby girl? Daddy's rope bunny Enjoy nipple play, slow sex, orgasm denial, edging, bondage and a bit of ***🐰
Female (21) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
I am driven by the urgency of the senses. The sharp, chemical rush where life and decay/rot meet. My fixation on the smell of secondday rot isn’t a quirk; it’s how I read fragility of existence. It is how I feel alive! I do not play a role. In my protocol I operate from a deeply rooted identity to reshape my subject. I deconstruct and reassemble you fully, maintaining guidance over your transformation. I’m drawn to the look of the immobile, lastday wasted hooker. I worship that lastday hooker completely. The muffled/restrained form receives my full attention and focus. Want to just chat, that is also fine. Results of https://bdsmtest.org/ 100% Brat Tamer 100% Primal (Hunter) 100% Rigger 100% Sadist 100% Switch 100% Degrader 93% Dominant 81% Experimentalist 73% Master/Mistress 50% Owner 36% Voyeur 29% Exhibitionist 16% Vanilla 13% Daddy/Mommy 8% Non-monogamist 0% Ageplayer
Female (58) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
##Size Queen looking for a monster energy size cock 🀀 > **BBW | Vixen | Hedonist** I am best described as a Namio Harukawa drawing with long curly hair. J'adore all music and extremely fond of easy access lingerie. *Hardcore to R&B.* *Hot pink lace to soft black satin.* Size Queen ; no, this has nothing to do with me being curvy/bbw. No, not rating your cock neither. I am on this horrible app because I don't like vanilla sex and I don't want to play dick roulette on bumble. *Looking for a kinky like minded perv* >**Not looking for ONS** NO PIC = NO LOVE I never owe you an answer. I am looking for that tall, fucking **hung ** real freaky sapiosexual, that can build a fire with his bare hands. I am also just as attracted to women. I love bad girls. To sin and fuck around together. Which is basically looking for a living unicorn on a very shitty dating app. (I am ***fully aware of the odds) You are currently reading the bio of one. At least it beats vanilla dating! Let's meet up in this dystopian nightmare we are currently living in. thank you for reading πŸ¦β€
Female (41) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Im not searching anymore.. But like minded people can write! I am poly. My partners are fully aware of what im doing. I expect this also from you. I dont like to do things in hiding. Personally i dont have a mommy fetish so be aware of the age difference. Note: with only saying hi to me, you don't trigger me to respond. Niet meer op zoek... Maar gelijkgestemden kunnen altijd schrijven. Ik ben poly en mijn partners zijn volledig op de hoogte is, dit verwacht ik ook van jou. Ik hou niet van stiekem doen. Persoonlijk heb ik geen mamma fetish, kijk alsjeblieft een beetje naar het leeftijdsverschil. Een tip: met alleen hoi zeggen word ik niet getriggerd om te reageren.
Female (52) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Ik ben een jonge, single vrouw die zin heeft in spanning, ontdekking en die heerlijke klik met iemand waar de energie gewoon klopt. Ik ben niet zo van de standaard β€œhop, afspraak, klaar”-mentaliteit. Voor mij begint alles in het hoofd. Gesprek, humor, spanning opbouwen… dΓ‘t.
Female (36) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Hi ! not available without the bratting, good luck tho I won’t see the likes or crushes, message me instead x
Female (24) Alkmaar, Noord-Holland
I'm currently enjoying playing the 'hotwife' in a fwb dynamic with a slutty filthy man, cockhold, looking for assertive bisexual/hetreoflexible black/poc bulls to play with. Attraction and chemistry matters more than experience. I, myself, am a bisexual woman who enjoys being an active slutty princess and receiving pillow queen.
Female (38) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
If you don’t read the Bio, there’s a 99% chance I won’t respond. Bi women in the Netherlands. (Switch). Currently looking for a sub. I like to have a good connection before we start playing. . I’m pretty straightforward, though I may be a little awkward when we first meet. But once we click I’m all in. I have a wide range of interests: I love ice hockey, traveling, anime, romance novels, and I balance out with cozy hobbies like crochet, crafts, and gardening. Basically I love to do and try all sorts of things. I’m a clean and tidy person, and am loyal to my friends and family. Physically, I’m short with dark brown hair, brown skin, curvy and squishy (if you’re not into that bye πŸ‘‹πŸΎ!). . I like someone can hold a real conversation, and brings a mature energy. Experience definitely doesn’t hurt, especially when it comes to pleasing a partner. DM for kinks. Looking for Relationship with submissive. . ⭐️Can Host | Speaks EN
Female (19) Schiedam, Zuid-Holland
NL-based Domme | Specializing in foot fetish, power exchange, *** & control My feet rule your thoughts. Your place is beneath them. Worship, obey, suffer sweetly for my pleasure. Approach with respect or disappear. 😏
Female (31) Grootebroek, Noord-Holland
Novice adventurer on a quest to discover the delightful world of submissionβ€”currently at β€˜beginner’s bondage’, aspiring to β€˜masochist maestro’:) Seeking a guide who respects limits and enjoys a little wit along with the whip. Let’s start this chapter with a plot twist that’s both respectful and risquΓ©:) But in full seriousness, I am looking for a Dom that understands what it means to have a connection, trust and vulnerability with someone, is respectful and caring, intelligent and witty, so that he can handle my bratty / playful side. I am not interested in ONS/hook-ups. I do pay attention to physical appearance and attractiveness, but it only matters when emotional and intellectual connection is there. I am a bratty sub, and l love that side of me. I am playful, intelligent, passionate, vibrate and charming:). I care about my partner and is very loyal when it comes to relationships. PS. text me in English and please, I beg, make a meaningful start of the conversation such that I at least have something to reply to; best if you introduce yourself and share some facts that you find important.
Female (37) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Hello Sunshine β˜€οΈπŸ’‹ I made a Ginormous text to set expectations and reduce texting fatigue, read it fully darling. Straight Dom Mommy, 35, Indian in NL β€” Seeking Local Sub in Hilversum / Utrecht /Almere/ Amsterdam Dom Mommy β€” Seeking Local Sub (NL) πŸ’« Quick Summary ✨ Identity: 35, straight, Indian-origin, affectionate Dominant woman (β€œDom Mommy”). Where: Based in the Netherlands (Hilversum area). Prefer Hilversum / Utrecht / Amsterdam or any place reachable by a single sprinter/intercity ride from Hilversum Station. Looking for: Monogamous kink FWB (once we click) β€” not a romantic relationship, not ONS, not serial dating. Your current marital/relationship Status does not matter. Style: Real-life dynamic only. Slow-build, affectionate dominance, structure + care. Availability: Busy life/job; want to invest my limited time in one compatible sub. What I Want (Fit & Format) 🎯 Dynamic: Long-term, monogamous kink FWB once we connect. You can be in a separate long-term relationship; discretion is expected. Commitment: If we click, it’s you + me in this dynamic. If either of us wants to end it, we communicate itβ€”no drama, no blocking. In-person only: No online play and no long-distance. Must be local enough for regular, easy meets. Travel/Hosting: I don’t host (past stalker situation) and I don’t drive. If you live beyond my range, you come to Hilversum. If a day-use hotel is needed, you cover the cost. Paying for a room does not s***d up my pace or change my boundaries. Health & Safety: I’m drug-free and STI-free (tested 1 Sept 2025 for 5 major STIs). You must be drug-free and provide recent negative STI results. I’ll only kiss after I see your recent negative STI report. Who I Am (Vibe & Values) 🧭 Personality: Confident, nurturing, affectionate Dominant with firm boundaries and high expectations. Ethos: Dynamics must be safe, consensual, respectful. Culture: My Indian background informs my warmth, intensity, loyalty, and presenceβ€”in life and in play. Time Use: I won’t β€œbuild a sub army.” I invest deeply in one compatible person. Kinks & Interests πŸ”₯ Core Dynamic: Emotional dominance, behavioral control, and physical play. Affectionate Dom Mom Energy: Warm, steady dominance with structure, praise, and gentle but firm correction. Expect routines, check-ins, and nurturing touchβ€”paired with clear rules, consequences, and genuine care. MDLB (Adult-Only Age Play): Soft, grounding ritualsβ€”bedtime check-ins, daily tasks, guided routines, manners, and rewards. It’s about safety, guidance, and growth (strictly between consenting adults). CFNM (Clothed Female, Nude Male): Power expressed through presence and composureβ€”directives, posture training, inspection, and service while I remain dressed. Emphasis on respect, obedience, and composure. Breastfeeding (Adult, Consensual): Intimate, calming bonding within negotiated boundariesβ€”comfort, closeness, breath, and stillness. It’s nurturing first; pace is slow and connection-led. Cuddles & Soothing Contact: Lots of affectionate touchβ€”cuddling, stroking hair, holding, and quiet time. Aftercare is essential: hydration, check-ins, and space to decompress. I Enjoy: Rituals, protocols, obedience training, tasks, discipline/punishment (when needed), tease & denial, orgasm control, light bondage, CFNM, domestic service, MDLB (adult-only age-play), massage, watching, JOI. Pegging: I genuinely love peggingβ€”passion, power, surrender, trust. Not a first-date (or early-dates) activity. I move very slowly and only when genuine connection builds. It must feel like a natural, passionate progression, not a checkbox or a purchase. You cannot buy this. How It Flows: Rituals β†’ service or training β†’ gentle correction/praise β†’ decompression and aftercare. Consent, safewords, and communication guide every step. What I’m Looking For in a Sub 🌿 Traits: Submissive, affectionate, mature, respectful, communicative, honest. Self-awareness: Know your limits and soft spots; willing to negotiate and check in. Presence: We meet in person; strong mutual chemistry matters. Practicality: Check NS connections to Hilversumβ€”aim for 1 hour commute and consistent availability. What I Offer / My Style 🀝 Structure + Care: Rules, rituals, guidance, disciplineβ€”with warmth and stability. Consistency: Respect, routines, check-ins, protocols. Safety: Consent and safewords; emotional and physical safety are non-negotiable. Investment: I bring experience and focus for someone who matches with honesty, effort, and dedication. Mutual Expectations & Boundaries πŸ›‘οΈ Open Communication: Likes, curiosities, limits/hard limits. If something’s uncomfortable, we stop. Respect: For each other’s time, privacy, and space. Pacing: We talk, meet, and build trust before anything intense. No Pressure: New or experiencedβ€”maturity and respect matter more than a rΓ©sumΓ©. Marital/Vanilla Relationship Status & Discretion 🀐 Your existing relationship status doesn’t disqualify you. If you’re in a long-term vanilla relationship or marriage, that’s fine. It does not matter to me, But Respect and authenticity towards our connection matters. This is a monogamous kink FWB dynamic once we clickβ€”discreet, focused, and separate from romance. Discretion can be arranged: clear boundaries, agreed communication windows, neutral meet locations, and privacy norms. No drama, no overlap: we respect all lives involvedβ€”honesty with me, confidentiality from me. Safety : I do not want to be a reason for a shit storm in your life. So make sure you are able to keep this open/discreet from people who should or should not know this. Public Behavior Code πŸ•ΆοΈ We meet in closed/private spaces at agreed times/places. If we bump into each other in public/work/friends, we act like strangers. Discretion is part of the dynamic. Hard Passes (Not a Match If You…) ❌ Want a romantic relationship/marriage or ONS. Are a serial dater, booty caller, or constantly looking for new mommies. Are emotionally distant, non-communicative, or want a couple of wild escape dates. Are a celebrity/politician/VIP/well known family. I don't mind being discreet, but I do not wish to bear the weight of your popularity and privacy concerns. Block people instead of communicating. Green Flags (You Likely Fit If You…) βœ… Want a long-term, monogamous (once we click) kink FWB. Are very communicativeβ€”especially early on; share mundane updates, check-ins, selfies. Are authentic, respectful, and affectionate. Marital status is not a barrier, but discretion and consistency are essential. Hard Limits 🚫 No minors, age play is adult-only. If I doubt your age, I’ll ask for ID. No non-consensual themes or CNC. No ***, ***, or play under the influence. No unsafe or barrier-free play; recent negative STI proof is required before any kissing or intimacy. No breathplay, choking, ***, needles, cutting, ***, or vomit. No *** or *** based on identity (race, culture, body, religion, sexuality, etc.). No recording, photos, or sharing details. No financial domination, tributes, or pay-for-play. No switchingβ€”I remain the Dominant. No third parties, swinging, or group scenes in this dynamic. No online-only dynamics or long-distance play. No rushing my paceβ€”I determine everything what, when, how. pegging or any advanced play only after a genuine connection over multiple dates. No boundary testing or manipulative behavior (silent treatment, guilt-trips, blocking instead of communicating). Safewords and aftercare are mandatory (non-negotiable norms, not β€œlimits”). How to Reach Out (Message Template) πŸ“¬ Please include: (if u don't like typing, you may send a voice message.) About you: Age, location, sexuality, gender, BDSM/submission experience, what draws you to submit? What are the specific kinks that you are very much into? And what are the ones you are curious about ? Hopes: What you want from this dynamic (rules, service, rituals, discipline, growth, etc.) ? Limits: Boundaries and hard limits ? Hosting: Can you host, If yes where ? What is your living situation ? Privacy needs: Any special privacy requirements ? Logistics: How often you can meet in person + travel time to Hilversum ? if u don't like typing, u may also answer them as voice messages. Final Note πŸ’Œ I’m excited to connect with someone ready for something real, grounded, slow-burn, and meaningful. If that resonates, I look forward to hearing from you. β€” Dom Mommy
Female (35) Hilversum, Noord-Holland
Shy and nerdy I am submissive by nature but I also enjoy being a brat. I am looking for friends and a relationship but no rush and lot of time to explore and talk.
Female (32) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Guys I’ve dated usually describe me as funny, feminine, and educated :) Slavic, 30 yo, living in Amsterdam. Looking for a sub/dom dynamic (I’m a sub). I’m really obedient and want to find someone I can listen to and follow, someone who can make decisions for me. In sex, of course, but maybe we could bring some of that dynamic outside the bedroom too. I’m 171 cm, a bit curvy (but no one’s ever complained), clean, intelligent and bratty. Looking for a dom who is caring but rough, tall, and able to host IN AMSTERDAM. Not interested in ONS or online. == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 99% Submissive 80% Masochist 79% Brat 79% Degradee 79% Rope bunny 75% Non-monogamist 63% Experimentalist 61% Vanilla 48% Voyeur 44% Switch 38% Pet 37% Slave 23% Sadist 19% Primal (Prey) 14% Rigger 14% Exhibitionist 8% Degrader 8% Dominant 2% Primal (Hunter) 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat tamer 0% Little 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner
Female (30) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Looking for a daddy dynamic, short or long term, whatever feels right. I’m not here for one night stands or nudes. Connection first, always. On the flip side: I also hold space for a finD/*** dynamic if you’re looking to serve. Know your place before sliding in.
Female (22) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland

New members in Zuid-Holland

Hii!! I think i mostly need someone patience and soft in some ways because it’s very new for me to act on my kinks and needs (or even talk to strange people hihii). I also have vaginismus, adhd and looots of insecurities, so again patience it is, but i realised that if i will never talk to anyone, nothing would happen and i don’t meet lots of new people in my daily life since i’m still studying and a bit anxious of random people. But at the same time i am really intelligent and outsmarts many in discussions etc (mostly because i’m bored or anxious and in need of dopamine), so its all very contrastinf; i dont think i can describe myself better dan lots of contrasts (which i cannot even handle myself and it makes so much more extra noise in my head). :)
Female (26) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
I am driven by the urgency of the senses. The sharp, chemical rush where life and decay/rot meet. My fixation on the smell of secondday rot isn’t a quirk; it’s how I read fragility of existence. It is how I feel alive! I do not play a role. In my protocol I operate from a deeply rooted identity to reshape my subject. I deconstruct and reassemble you fully, maintaining guidance over your transformation. I’m drawn to the look of the immobile, lastday wasted hooker. I worship that lastday hooker completely. The muffled/restrained form receives my full attention and focus. Want to just chat, that is also fine. Results of https://bdsmtest.org/ 100% Brat Tamer 100% Primal (Hunter) 100% Rigger 100% Sadist 100% Switch 100% Degrader 93% Dominant 81% Experimentalist 73% Master/Mistress 50% Owner 36% Voyeur 29% Exhibitionist 16% Vanilla 13% Daddy/Mommy 8% Non-monogamist 0% Ageplayer
Female (58) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Talking about my self,I love friends and family, I am a fun person and make friends easily. I love life, love my family and still have some love to share with a special man.πŸ€—β€οΈ
Female (48) Den Haag, Zuid-Holland
Searching for older lesbians who are dommes. But willing to try being a dom :) Also rather shy, but I love a lot of kinks and I am just a lil weird. Also NO MEN!
Trust is built slowly over time, but it can be shattered in an instant. Honor your loved one by acting with integrity at all times. The only engine that power a good relationship is trust and trust is based on integrity and respect we have for each other.
Female (37) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
That Special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quench in my past relationship. Someone who is willing to enjoy and explore the BDSM lifestyle deep
Female (29) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
is there a daddy who enjoyS taking control of every single thing of his little baby girl? Daddy's rope bunny Enjoy nipple play, slow sex, orgasm denial, edging, bondage and a bit of ***🐰
Female (21) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Hi, I Am full time Spankster and dominant and love to go to the UK to meet people who are also into Spanking, because mij partner is a spankee, end loves femdom, so if we could meet up with a couple like us, would be great to hang out and have fun together and let our man begging for more punishment and make us woman happy, my patner will be his dick in cage if we go out!! so for sure he will not do wrong things!! ( very smart) are there more woman like me with a man like this ...we could have great night out with our (B) toys:-) We are both 50
Female (54) Hoorn, Noord-Holland
Hey, I'm fairly new to this world in real life, I'm looking to experiment a bit and maybe find out more about each other :)
Female (21) Den Haag, Zuid-Holland
Words turn me on. please read my writing and write a response! Semi-fit intellectual seeks a master. I'm too smart for my own good: a spoiled brat who needs to be trained, disciplined, taught some manners and some goddamn gratitude. Please tell me how I can be of service. Into edging, arousal control, orgasm denial, being controlled. Please outsmart me. I need words, not pictures. I find language extremely sexy. Am very good with words so make me use them -- or not. Please be entertaining. I am usually the smartest person in the room but for fuck's sake, don't be intimidated by me.
Female (62) Den Haag, Zuid-Holland
I'm a sub who's new to this. i've Known quite some time that I'm into this stuff, but never tried it. and I'm socially awkward, I probably won't start the conversation, so sent me a message and I'll probably respond! I'm also not really looking for meeting people just yet I think, maybe if you're my type and we've talked some on here! (also I change my hair like almost every week lol, so it may not be accurate in the photos here)
Female (20) Obdam, Noord-Holland
Hi! I'm Mrs Vendetta. Full time Brat (ahem I mean good girl..duh) Rope artist My own photographer Baldie for a few years A bit chaotic & sometimes very extra Switch Cat mom of three. Currently not dating, I know.. it's sad right.
Female (34) Dordrecht, Zuid-Holland
##Size Queen looking for a monster energy size cock 🀀 > **BBW | Vixen | Hedonist** I am best described as a Namio Harukawa drawing with long curly hair. J'adore all music and extremely fond of easy access lingerie. *Hardcore to R&B.* *Hot pink lace to soft black satin.* Size Queen ; no, this has nothing to do with me being curvy/bbw. No, not rating your cock neither. I am on this horrible app because I don't like vanilla sex and I don't want to play dick roulette on bumble. *Looking for a kinky like minded perv* >**Not looking for ONS** NO PIC = NO LOVE I never owe you an answer. I am looking for that tall, fucking **hung ** real freaky sapiosexual, that can build a fire with his bare hands. I am also just as attracted to women. I love bad girls. To sin and fuck around together. Which is basically looking for a living unicorn on a very shitty dating app. (I am ***fully aware of the odds) You are currently reading the bio of one. At least it beats vanilla dating! Let's meet up in this dystopian nightmare we are currently living in. thank you for reading πŸ¦β€
Female (41) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Im not searching anymore.. But like minded people can write! I am poly. My partners are fully aware of what im doing. I expect this also from you. I dont like to do things in hiding. Personally i dont have a mommy fetish so be aware of the age difference. Note: with only saying hi to me, you don't trigger me to respond. Niet meer op zoek... Maar gelijkgestemden kunnen altijd schrijven. Ik ben poly en mijn partners zijn volledig op de hoogte is, dit verwacht ik ook van jou. Ik hou niet van stiekem doen. Persoonlijk heb ik geen mamma fetish, kijk alsjeblieft een beetje naar het leeftijdsverschil. Een tip: met alleen hoi zeggen word ik niet getriggerd om te reageren.
Female (52) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
Ik ben een jonge, single vrouw die zin heeft in spanning, ontdekking en die heerlijke klik met iemand waar de energie gewoon klopt. Ik ben niet zo van de standaard β€œhop, afspraak, klaar”-mentaliteit. Voor mij begint alles in het hoofd. Gesprek, humor, spanning opbouwen… dΓ‘t.
Female (36) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Guys I’ve dated usually describe me as funny, feminine, and educated :) Slavic, 30 yo, living in Amsterdam. Looking for a sub/dom dynamic (I’m a sub). I’m really obedient and want to find someone I can listen to and follow, someone who can make decisions for me. In sex, of course, but maybe we could bring some of that dynamic outside the bedroom too. I’m 171 cm, a bit curvy (but no one’s ever complained), clean, intelligent and bratty. Looking for a dom who is caring but rough, tall, and able to host IN AMSTERDAM. Not interested in ONS or online. == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 99% Submissive 80% Masochist 79% Brat 79% Degradee 79% Rope bunny 75% Non-monogamist 63% Experimentalist 61% Vanilla 48% Voyeur 44% Switch 38% Pet 37% Slave 23% Sadist 19% Primal (Prey) 14% Rigger 14% Exhibitionist 8% Degrader 8% Dominant 2% Primal (Hunter) 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat tamer 0% Little 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner
Female (30) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
I'm curious about the kink scene and want to explore it. I'm seeking genuine connections with respectful people! I'd love to find a beautiful heart who can be gentle and support me.
Female (21) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Looking for a daddy dynamic, short or long term, whatever feels right. I’m not here for one night stands or nudes. Connection first, always. On the flip side: I also hold space for a finD/*** dynamic if you’re looking to serve. Know your place before sliding in.
Female (22) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
I’m pretty new to this, and would love to find someone to experiment and explore with. Even though I don’t have a lot of experience yet… I do know what I care about : I’m not here for anything quick & fleeting. It’s very important for me to get to know each other β€” really get to know each other, build a strong connection and create safety. Communication, care, honesty and awareness (both of the self and the other) play a very big part in this. Creating the strong foundation I believe are needed for kinks > dom/sub dynamics for instance, or any/all relationships really, to truly flow and blossom. It asks for great vulnerability & surrender, and with that come responsibilities… that’s not something to treat lightly and meaningless. I want to build something. Something long term to both commit to and see where it will take us… I’m not necessarily expecting my partner for life, but who knows (; Someone who embraces the honor, respect and responsibility that come with intimacy shared, on a physical level AND beyond. Investing in the time & energy shared… taking things slow… letting connection and tension build. I believe there’s a certain rawness, and pureness to arise from a bond like that β€” which can be so magical and special. It can also create a beautiful playfield in which there’s loads of room to express, explore and experience. And to surrender into… I tend to be introverted, but if and once it β€œclicks” and I feel comfortable I can be pretty outgoing. Patience, open(minded)ness, deep connection, playfulness/humor, intention and actual interest in each other as a whole are quite the necessities in this. It’s important for me to connect on an emotional/spiritual level before anything else; which means that I’m open to talk a bit, see if we want to meet-up, then feel what it’s all like once we go on a date or two & whether we match, and if so we can take it from there! I also hope it goes without saying that, aside from the kink side of things, I very much so like to have a lot of autonomy, am strongly against anything disregarding & disrespecting or objectifying women (or anyone for that matter), and detest superiority (: β€”β€”β€” πŸ’Œ I’m not on my phone much & can be slow to respond… if I’m not on here for a day or two, know that it’s nothing personal β€” just me living life the way I know best : without too much distraction 🧚🏼🌞🌳
Female (28) Hilversum, Noord-Holland
I'm currently enjoying playing the 'hotwife' in a fwb dynamic with a slutty filthy man, cockhold, looking for assertive bisexual/hetreoflexible black/poc bulls to play with. Attraction and chemistry matters more than experience. I, myself, am a bisexual woman who enjoys being an active slutty princess and receiving pillow queen.
Female (38) Rotterdam, Zuid-Holland
do you want to get coffee or something? just talk and hang out at first, if we like it we do it again😊
Female (21) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Looking for my forever person in a world that sometimes feels a little too casual. I’m a warm, affectionate woman who craves deep emotional connection, genuine laughter, and that safe space where trust grows naturally. While I’m on this platform, I’m not here for quick scenes or casual play. I want the real thing: a committed relationship built on respect, kindness, and real chemistry. If the bond feels right and we both want it, I’m open to exploring power dynamics and kink as a beautiful part of our intimate life, but only when it flows from real love and trust.
Female (42) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
Haiiiiiii 22 y/o Lesbian weird transfem cat doll girlthing here looking for some fun In open poly relationship w 2 people Stupid masochistic whore that will do anything for your love and attention Not very experienced with apps like this even tho im decently experienced w this kinda stuff Just looking for some kinky fun ^w^ Will probs update this once im a bit more xperienced on this app and what kinda stuff people put on here Men don't fucking text me
Female (23) Den Haag, Zuid-Holland
I am a sub, I dream about being taken advantage of, scare me, use me tell me how you'd use me, I'm a horny girl I need your cock or pussy please into cnc
Female (25) Amsterdam, Noord-Holland

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