I value deep connection, consistency, and mutual effort. When I’m with someone, I show up fully. I can be intense in a good way, but I also respect pacing and want something that builds in a way that works for both of us.
I’m looking for a committed, long-term relationship with someone who communicates openly, listens well, and treats each other with respect—especially when things aren’t easy.
Calm, honest communication matters to me more than being “right,” and I’m drawn to people who can talk things through without turning everything into a fight.
I believe in growth, accountability, and emotional stability. I’m doing the work in my own life and appreciate someone who is doing the same.
I naturally lean toward being supportive, protective, and attentive in a relationship. I do enjoy dynamics like Master, ##Certain words (e.g. contact details or terms we don’t allow in our community) are on our blacklist. If you use one of these, it will automatically be replaced with this message.## , or Owner—but for me, that’s built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. I’m not looking to control someone—I’m looking to build something with someone who is strong, self-aware, and fully present.
I’m not interested in casual or unclear situations. I’m looking for something real, mutual, and lasting.
If you value honesty, openness, consistency, kindness, and a sense of peace in a relationship—and still have passion and depth—we’ll probably get along.
Hard Limits:
– Submission (I won’t submit)
– Pegging
– MFM / MMF
– Open/poly setups
– Smoking/drug use
– *** or illegal behavior
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I think this is a terrible idea. A flag is a banner to unite under, a physical representation of the spirit of a people or ideal. For what purpose? To identify as kinky? To identify as D/s? If you want THAT, then use what the Goreans do - a sigil and some Kanji. If you feel left out because Pride Read more… has a flag, say exactly that. But then, don't bother calling yourself a Dominant. Just say you're a dominant-leaning scene switch and looking for an organization to be subordinate to.