Non-Sexual Dominance

[Th****]

All Dominance is Non-Sexual. That is the difference between a Real Dom and a Top.
A Dom can be a Top, but a Top cannot be a Dom. Dominance is phycological. A Top has a dominant personality, a Dom has a Dominant Aura. your whole body, mind and soul must ache to serve freely in every way possible. submission is Not a gift (tho it is precious). One gives a gift to people they don't really know (b-days, secret Santa, weddings....), submission has conditions, expectations and limits. you don't give somone a shirt and tell them how & what you want done with it.

[Th****]

Tuesday at 05:26 AM, ITSINMENOTONM said:

No woman can make a man feel dominant. He has to know that himself or he is not a man. Get you one you can submit to and be YOURSELF✌🏿👠🥂

I believe you are describing a Top, not a Dominant. Many get the two conflated easily. A Top has a Dominant personality. A Dom only Dominates what is His. A True Dom doesn't ***, require or even demand submission.

[On****]

Using honorifics, anticipating my desires, wearing not much more than collar and heels around the house, and a fair few more are favourites of mine.

[to****]

Always respond when spoken to and put your phone down when we're doing anything together...pick it up when you want to be put in your place "smirk"

[Si****]

Get me attention, be a brat if you aren't being focused on. Make a scene, get yourself into trouble. Give me a reason to show the entire public place that you are mine. Personally, i like it when my sub get flirted with, and i make it very obvious that they are with me and they are mine. Earn your punishment!

[BA****]

Monday at 03:12 AM, Onyx_Wookie said:

Using honorifics, anticipating my desires, wearing not much more than collar and heels around the house, and a fair few more are favourites of mine.

Being naked and wearing high heels is non-sexual for you? Interesting. I assume wearing a plug is not either then. 😏

[tw****]

Always respond if he/she speaks to you. Titles are awesome (Daddy/Mommy, Sir/Ma'am, Master/Mistress you get the gist) and I personally like when my subs hang on to me in public in some way shape or form be it holding my arm, hand, finger etc. I could go on and on

[Pl****]

Call him Daddy, serve him, show him all the attention and don't stop and watch him c*m in his pants

[qu****]

Genuine help mate understanding Role dynamics with in relationship and/or family, how they can fluctuate and balance to equality

[Deleted Member]

Service... If she's anticipating my needs, wants, or desires, I know I'm on her mind and she aims to please.
When she comes to me for advice, it's obvious that she respects my opinions or expertise.
When she can share things with me that she wouldn't even think about sharing with others, it's a point of privilege.

[Na****]

Calling us Sir or Daddy or another name that shows us in a position of power. Complimenting our bodies and other achievements. Showing satisfaction, thankfulness, and praise in the work we do. Asking us to explain something to you that we are interested in and like talking about. Telling us how and when you feel turned on by us when we are not around.

[ia****]

Do what comes naturally to you in the flow of your life and in alignment with who you both are. For example, I had a my monthly nail appointment recently. When I started thinking about what I was going to do ahead of the appointment, my mind effortlessly floated to my Daddy because my body is his and I adore pleasing him. I texted him asking if he’d be interested in choosing the color. It was so fun to collaborate together, and now he loves my nails and I think of him every time I look at them. It’s less about following a playbook, and more about figuring out what D/s things work well for your and your Dom in your unique lifestyles 💗

[se****]

Disagreement with agreement before disapline ?

[Deleted Member]

Addressing them by their title.(Master,Daddy,Sir). Assuring them with devotion by simply asking them if there is anything they desire or wish for you to do. Asking for permission - this will show respect and ownership

[Ms****]

By being of service and making my life easier (less stressful). he (or she) can help with tasks while I work, or manage my calendar and ttavel plans. I'm quite busy, so service subs/slaves who enjoy managing and attending are top tier!

[Sh****]

Trust with serious personal reasons does it for me. When someone trusts you with theirs and their families future wellbeing is the ultimate sign of respect and for me means that when I speak everyone listens and obeys .

[ko****]

Subservient presenting thyself as a servant just ask is there anything I can do and that should be sufficient and trust that the test is not too big or too small didn't you benefit us all as one.

[Um****]

Cleaning my boots when I get home from work, making my coffee before I head out to work, Asking me for advice or guidance, all the little things outside of the bedroom whether tasks or rituals all add to that feeling. Hell simply sitting in Nadu at the door waiting when I get home adds to it.

[Mi****]

Letting me take care of you.