Pegging for beginners

[rosecitykitty]

Pegging my ex have a kind of high I can't even explain. He kicked his cum of me safety. I was in literal heaven. I wish I had advice but I was in some kind of zone it was like an out of body experience lollll. Trust your intuition and remember to check in often! They also make numbing gels that I've found helpful for personal use

[rosecitykitty]

*gave *licked (sorry, tendinitis)

[n1975]

Don’t use numbing gels! If it’s hurting then it’s to time to take things slower. Once his mind has adjusted to allow penetration and to be relaxed that’s when it’ll become really pleasurable

[roamingtiger]

What cryoburn said.  Slow, tease and lots lube, I like coconut oil.  I loved my first time, she had me bound to bed, stroked and teased me with dirty talk.  Then used small toy on me, edged me and had me begging for release.  More lube and made me cum which was most amazing orgasm had.

[ba****]

2nd the coconut oil

[sm****]

Just go with it feel his energy and sounds and lots of lube but not to much cause it will take away that good feeling

[kinkydaddy4all]

Had it kn my *** years . Ready to enjoy it again

[Deleted Member]

So glad I stumbled upon this. I get so wet thinking about pegging a man or massaging his prostate. I really want to do this to a man one day. Thanks for creating this discussion. There’s lots of good information here ☺️

[sh****]

A comfortable strap on for you and plenty of lube for him. Something smaller sized to start off with.

[fr****]

Yum

[ru****]

I've slow and easy. Once comfortable he will prob set the limits as he goes

[Ur****]

Las Vegas hit me up

[To****]

@IttyBittlDoll dm me

[Do****]

Start with a finger. Then a metal butt plug. Small. Then medium. Keeping them in for a couple of hours eventually. Use Vaseline to keep it lubed. Then try anal beads with proper anal lube, different sized probes. Finally get a strap on and use a small dildo. Build up slowly and gradually. It’s a process. You may find how much it turns him on when he has the medium butt plug in for the second hour. Can even give prostate orgasms!

[Sy****]

I've gotten to the point where I can use a dildo with a machine and it feels great but haven't been able to get off just from that, are prostate orgasms something you can work at?

[Do****]

Try using metal butt plugs. The weight and the pressure they give can be very different. Pushing on the prostate. Start with a small one, but sometimes they’re too small to sit comfortably inside and don’t exert enough pressure. So medium may be needed (they come in packs of three). Apply lots of petroleum jelly and pop it in. Build up to lasting a couple of hours. Move up to large if you feel you could take it and the pressure would be better. Some find that their bodies start moving the butt plug back and forth over the prostate. It’s a bizarre feeling but can lead to orgasm. You can move about and go about your day. No need to sit still with it. Lots of petroleum jelly though. The anal lube is great for pegging but petroleum jelly more lasting for having a plug in place.

You might find this more stimulating than the machine pegging. Different.

[Pornsubkink]

I’m doing my first strap on porn tomorrow 😱.  Any advice?  I started another thread but really want people’s input. 

[Keenpega]

On 6/18/2025 at 1:34 AM, DommeDelight said:

Try using metal butt plugs. The weight and the pressure they give can be very different. Pushing on the prostate. Start with a small one, but sometimes they’re too small to sit comfortably inside and don’t exert enough pressure. So medium may be needed (they come in packs of three). Apply lots of petroleum jelly and pop it in. Build up to lasting a couple of hours. Move up to large if you feel you could take it and the pressure would be better. Some find that their bodies start moving the butt plug back and forth over the prostate. It’s a bizarre feeling but can lead to orgasm. You can move about and go about your day. No need to sit still with it. Lots of petroleum jelly though. The anal lube is great for pegging but petroleum jelly more lasting for having a plug in place.

You might find this more stimulating than the machine pegging. Different.

Keen as for want to get thrashed hard bigger better even swallow own cum 

 

[Keenpega]

On 5/1/2025 at 5:13 AM, smuch098 said:

Just go with it feel his energy and sounds and lots of lube but not to much cause it will take away that good feeling

Keen as for it anything gos up for if in Sydney 

 

[Keenpega]

On 4/28/2025 at 11:47 AM, rosecitykitty said:

Pegging my ex have a kind of high I can't even explain. He kicked his cum of me safety. I was in literal heaven. I wish I had advice but I was in some kind of zone it was like an out of body experience lollll. Trust your intuition and remember to check in often! They also make numbing gels that I've found helpful for personal use

 

On 4/28/2025 at 11:47 AM, rosecitykitty said:

Pegging my ex have a kind of high I can't even explain. He kicked his cum of me safety. I was in literal heaven. I wish I had advice but I was in some kind of zone it was like an out of body experience lollll. Trust your intuition and remember to check in often! They also make numbing gels that I've found helpful for personal use

Keen as to get fisted pegged hard bigger better anything gos up for even swallow own  cum anyone in Sydney 

 

[bi****]

As a male that has been pegged I just say start slow and both communicate as you start to play. As he get use to it and starts to enjoy you we get more comfortable and relaxed and you will get more into as you see him enjoy. Good luck and hope you two have alot of fun with it.