Sub space 24/7

[sw****]

Am I weird for wanting it all the time?? I slip into sub space so easily and I want it all the time especially if I’m taking to someone or with someone I am attracted to! Would happily never make a decisions for myself again and would serve 24/7 but it’s hard to find guys that want that… they always say they do but then end up leaving :(((

Just too submissive I guess?

[mindfulsub]

Totally same same it's understandable

[st****]

I bet I want it more than you

[Ha****]

Being submissive 24/7 sounds intoxicating—just letting go, feeling safe and cherished. But it’s complicated. My job demands control, decisiveness, and always being the one to make things happen. It’s exhausting, and I can’t just switch it off.

But once I’m home, the idea of shedding that strong exterior and surrendering completely feels like slipping into a warm bath—letting the tension melt away and just existing in softness. Balancing my power at work with the vulnerability I crave at home is tricky, but when I finally get to submit, it’s pure relief—like finally being allowed to just be.

[Ti****]

You are not weird. I sometimes wish I could dismiss all of my responsibilities to 24/7 sub. Feels like I’m constantly desperate!

[Deleted Member]

For some it’s nice to just give up control as it peaks euphoria

[fr****]

It’s a tough thing to find a genuine Master.

[Ha****]

1 minute ago, freyainthenorth said:

It’s a tough thing to find a genuine Master.

THIS! Because it’s not just about in the bedroom. You need to know how to lead if you want a 24/7 sub.

[HucowFarmer_DannyD]

Not Weird for what you Desire..We all have that Desire/Feeling to be Owned/Collared and Wanted

[fr****]

14 minutes ago, HappyFatLady said:

THIS! Because it’s not just about in the bedroom. You need to know how to lead if you want a 24/7 sub.

Exactly, it’s not something we should have to *** to enter either. Not at home. Some Masters think sub-space isn’t even a state slaves should be in, which I find very difficult to understand.

[De****]

I literally googled ‘why am I horny all the time’ yesterday. Apparently I flick my bean too often

[mindfulsub]

Just have to get through it I try to distract myself keep busy lol 🤣

[ic****]

Go for a Femdom instead😉😇🌈

[Deleted Member]

I once attended what turned out to be an advanced-level class on how to not only coax someone into a weekend-long subspace, but how to handle them afterwards. This involved long-term, constant BDSM play to heighten the endorphin rush and get to ... stick, I guess? 

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Then afterwards the dominant would have to be willing to tend to and micromanage the submissive because they'd be so out of their mind that things like "put on your shoes" ... well, they might forget to put on their socks first, or to tie or buckle said shoes, or ... whatever. Eating might involve training them on how to cut food, keeping it from dripping on them, and wiping their mouths. I guess you can imaging what instructions tending to calls of nature would entail.

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Having the energy to go through all of that to help maintain the subspace after so much play seems absolutely exhausting for the dominant, but I guess if they prepped for it beforehand and are able to sneak in self-care periodically it'd be doable for one person, but it also seems like it's a better idea for multiple tops and dominants in shifts so long as there's agreement on boundaries for that particular submissive.

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Then there's coaxing the submissive back into the standard world afterwards so that everyone can go back to their daily lives, though it was advised to have frequent checkins afterwards to make sure that the submissive person is actually grounded again.

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y i p e.

Edited May 11, 2025 by Deleted Member

[Re****]

Ur beautiful and young enjoy it. You will find the right person and what ur looking for soon

[Deleted Member]

It’s understandable

[MasterneedsaSub]

Honestly that is 100% what I want. Like it annoys Me to look at profiles on here and they say they are Sub but also a Brat or a Switch it’s like if you’re Submissive then your Submissive if your in between then your in between you can’t be both at the same time & if you’re going to be Submissive I sure as hell don’t want a brat I want that Submissiveness all the time or I don’t want you. I like consistency and not happy about change. All Submissive all the time. That’s what I want

[tr****]

I love being submissive would love to fine a Dom/Alpha I would be treated with respect because one thing I’ve learned is a true Dom/Alpha will always give you respect because you give them respect that they’ve earned