Here’s a quick question

[He****]

Them being nervous and embarrassed and having a hard time keeping eye contact. That and being interesting to talk to/spend time with. I can't stand being bored when interacting with someone.

[Deleted Member]

I love cuddling. I enjoy physical touch. I really like having conversations.

[Deleted Member]

For me watching her strike matches to light candles in the room just before we play. The sound of the match box or match book the sound of the match strike and the smell all play a role but seeing her bite her lip and strike them aggressively hard making them POP as she strikes them seeing her light the candle wick for me it's so sensual so erotic and it makes me super excited and horny

[sn****]

Massage. Communication. Being wanted. Kindness.

[da****]

Obviously mutual interests..... Jfc

[Do****]

Simple smile with the eyes

[DarkArts1066]

Driving somewhere together (always initiates a good conversation)

[Co****]

5 hours ago, TommyGunn6984 said:

There is a fun game you and your partner ask each other questions about each other every time an answer is answered right you take off a piece of clothing, when it's answered wrong you put some back on, and eventually when you get down to nothing you can start groping and touching however the articles of clothing and what area's can and can't be touched are partners request

That’s an old game but always fun

[Go****]

Acts of service. Cleaning someone elses hous, mowing the grass, trimming the bushes.

[Ke****]

I like exchanging songs we both like. This is especially nice, because it can be done when apart via texting. It's both nonsexual and usually non-kinky too.

[Lo****]

The love of the outdoors and nature

[Le****]

Having him kneel before me and express his submission.

[Deleted Member]

Cuddling, kissing 😍

[Deleted Member]

Shared interest, and physical touch

[Stubbed_my_damn_toe]

Talking shit about the same thing. That's got to be the most romantic feeling I ever have is whe I talk shit about a movie or some dumb work thing and she just joins in.

[ki****]

Communication and compassion

[fa****]

Exercise

[Deleted Member]

Being locked into my custom collar and cuffs he had made out of titanium 24/7. Turns my regular day into a constant reminder of him and his ownership ❤️❤️

[ce****]

Talking about child hood events . Tjat you thought you were the o ly one turns out we all had the same feeling as a kid.

[GreyHog]

The comfort of the soul that comes from knowing the person in your life is stopping their world to check on you.

[Deleted Member]

11 hours ago, Cowboy4882 said:

What non-sexual kink activities bring you the strongest connection?

Acts of service. Excellent communication. The willingness to resolve conflict. Showing off an interest or talent.

[Deleted Member]

Just being in bed together.

[Deleted Member]

Meeting family.

[hu****]

Be able to carry on a conversation and serious when needed but be open minded , super goofy & silly rest of the time . Be yourself not what everyone else is acting like .

[am****]

I love the inherent power exchange that comes from kneeling. It doesn't have to be sexual but its one of my favorite ways to connect in my dynamic and to our roles