Best way to avoid awkward 1st face to face

[Deleted Member]

I prefer to have a dinner or lunch in a very public setting! Even if flirtatious comments or suggestions are made prior to this meeting! I also set a stead fast rule to not expect any physical activity on the first meeting! Also each provide their own transportation in the event that we do not have a spark to continue each can have an out or continue without pressure!! I do prefer the First meeting to be casual, relaxed and I find it encourages more open discussion other than Sexual overtones!! There is more than Sex even in any relationship! Comfort builds trust and this is my basic building block!

[ma****]

Hi! I do two dates as long as it’s not an immediate no for me. I know nerves are crazy! Thank you for posting this!

[Deleted Member]

I think the move is to think of it as a vibe check. Go in with no expectations, just be curious about whom you are meeting. If it goes well, maybe you’ll wind up getting physical. But maybe it’s just a vibe check to establish chemistry, safety, and trust and you get to playing the second time around. Or one of you finds a reason not to, which is the whole point of the vibe check.

[Mo****]

I prefer to have a pre-date. If we get on well we can organise something proper at the time, and get excited. If not, it's just nice to have some company 🤷🏼‍♂️

[Sn****]

I generally chat through devices then on a first date I always meet in public where they have plenty of escape routes. Keeps them feeling safe and not cornered.

[No****]

Tell him you will slap him than kiss him consensually immediately when yu first see him. He will always be 100x more nervous than yu. Show him immediate aggression and affection and the rest will be easy. Trust me after you'll both be laughing. Take control ladies if he doesnt like it theres millions more

[Lkmstg75]

I would take it slow, get a feeling for the person. Ask to have a drink first, I wouldn't recommend alcohol, depending on what kind of nsa you're there for. If you get the feeling to jump them at first site, go for it. They'll probably love it.
I'm a sub, and playing with a Dom, you don't want alcohol in your system.

[ea****]

Skip the chit chat

[Ro****]

Just chat like you're friends already as your genuine self. If that's too awkward then either someone needs practice or you just don't vibe right. Sometimes it takes being in the situation of meeting new people a few times before figuring it out but that's with anything new. You can prepare all you want but the confidence comes from doing it even if it's awkward at first and accepting the possibility of the worst just means it wasn't meant to be at that moment.

[up****]

Meet naked and no touching for 10 minutes

[un****]

Start with some kind of joke to alleviate the tension. Even if it’s a bad joke, sometimes it’s so bad that it’s good. Sarcasm is an easy way to be funny if you can figure it out. It can be about anything. Laughter makes uncomfortable social situations comfortable.

[Ri****]

I would say that you probably wouldn’t have that awkwardness if there was chemistry in the first place.

[Sosicc]

Put up or shut up cause you best be able to stand on it anything you say online or face to face be authentic shyness is cute as fuck anyway anyone can throw themselves at anything this is supposed to be about connecting in ways you normally never would so if your already out in the open you may as well own that shit

[Be****]

Meet and without saying anything kiss within a second you’ll know if you want to continue kissing or leave. There’s no meaningful communication or connection built prior to intimacy only after that people begin to reveal themselves and real connections develop. But if you sex through society’s perspective that doesn’t work. People use as a representation of their purity and a conquest of some lost by women and taken by men just nonsense. It’s sacred practice and act giving yourself to someone and humbly receiving from them. It’s a sacred experience that has to achieve moments of enlightenment. It’s an exchange to create an experience that cannot be created by a single person the physical sensation is beautiful and the moments experience together are sublime and should be enjoyed appreciated and kept as memories. After that conversation is easy opening up isn’t scary *** of rejection is gone and anxiety and *** are replaced with excitement and acceptance. Plus kissing is fun .

[An****]

In my experience; just make out on sight. Not a peck like it's your grandma, I mean really get in there, until you're both ravenously horny. Slices right through any awkward tension. That's now something I do by default when a first meet begins.

[Pe****]

No talking keep it primal

[Deleted Member]

I think having the chit chat is important, you wanna actually like the person you’re having sex with! In terms of like a first move I like to come right out and say “I’d really like to kiss you (insert whatever thing you’d like but I’d start small)” I think it’s honest, forward, and if they’ve felt the same then it’s perfect!

Also the amount of people I’ve seen on here saying to get right down to business (and usually say it more crude than that) are weird imo, human interaction is waaaay more nuanced than that!

[Deleted Member]

I personally think the first meet should be just that, a meet. We know why we’re meeting, but the first meet is to vibe check personalities and see if everyone is comfortable. There is going to be some level of awkwardness but someone has to take the lead. I’m usually the leader in that area. (Her)

[co****]

I like the first meet because you actually get to see the person as most photos don’t do you justice.. thus I try to post a full body shot and face pics.. just saying..

[BW****]

I'm just going to admire how hot you are. Then maybe start feeling your body and looking you dead in the face.

Nothing awkward about meeting up and fucking. It's hot if there is any awkwardness.

[bi****]

video chat!!

[Deleted Member]

I think being able to video chat at least once before meeting definitely helps

[de****]

I have a stranger kink that kinda squashes any first time awkwardness

[Ra****]

I usually just let my outfit and body do the work:) and if the first move isn’t made then I usually do it :) I’m not here for a long time just a good time kinda thing. Last encounter went like this: they opened the door said hi . I said hi and smiled then got close enough to see the bulge in his pants and reached out for it. Then I was on my knees fumbling a zipper and button.. things went rather quickly. Let the fury of your passion run wild:)😜

[co****]

It seems to just not respond to messages is my experience.. why be on a site like this if you can’t at least have a conversation or say no thank you…